6 month Surgiversary and the Death of My Best Friend (Pics Included)

Hi Everyone!
6 months have gone by and I'm giving you this update with very mixed emotions. My best friend since we were 3 and 4 years old passed away July 1st. His Sister and I met on the head start bus when we were 4 years old. He was more than a friend, he was my Brother. His family helped shape who I am today, he was my prom date, my Son's Godfather and the three of us were inseperable.
 He was overweight and had comorbidities. He had severe sleep apnea and went to bed and didn't wake up. He didn't wear his mask that night. If you're reading this and on the fence about surgery PLEASE take action before it's too late!!! If you had the surgery, you know you saved your own life.

This journey has been amazing for me. My labs are great, my energy levels are through the roof, and I'm thankful every minute of every day I chose to use this tool. My nurse was ecstatic with my progress. I know I have more to go, but it'll come. I've met life long friends and have had so much support from all of you here...I'm a lucky girl.

So sorry about your loss.  it's so hard to lose someone close to you ((((((((((hugs)))))))))))

On a happy note though......Girrllll you are HOT!!!  Way to rock your sleeve!

I am so very sorry for loss of your dear friend. My prayers are with his family and yours.

Congratulations though on your 6 month surgiversary. You are doing such a great job. You look FANTASTIC!! Keep up the great work and you will be at goal in no time.

Brenda

I am so sorry for you loss.  But, I know that you were blessed to have known him and loved him for so long.  Now days, everyone moves around so much it seems to be easy for some to drop friends and pick up new ones. 
I know you have many wonderful memories.    I hate that he suffered from this mess that we have all dealt with.  For some it is hard to make a descision to get  the help needed so desperately.  All we can do is hope and pray that those we love will decide to get help before it is too late.

As for your photos, you are a looking gorgeous!  It is so encouraging to see someone succeed like you have.

Hugs to you for your friend, and for your success.
Rosie

I am so sorry for the loss of your dear friend. I will say a prayer for you and your friends family tnt.

You look so much like my SIL!! I mean that in a good way. I wish you all the happiness in the world.
You look amazing, sending hugs your way Aimee

Heidi, I'm so sorry for your loss.

On a completely different note, happy 6 month surgiversary! You are so rockin' that sleeve. You look fantastic - keep up the good work!

So sorry about the loss of your friend... I lost my brother back in 2003 (it had nothing to do with weight) and it still hurts, but it gets better. And I know it was painful to see him go knowing he could have prevented it. That's why I'm going to tell people what I've done in hopes that I can help someone. I've told two of my cousins about it, and they are both interested! I will be praying for you in your time of bereavement...

And now for you... You look amazing! Keep up the great work!!

Way to go, DragonGirl!  You not only dropped close to 100 lbs., you look like you lost 20 years!  Congrats on your weight loss, and I am sorry for your loss...life is full of changes, which reminds us to live each day as if it were our last.

So sorry to hear of your loss. I'm sure your friend would not mind sharing his story if it will help save a life. And congrats on your loss. You look fabulous.

So so sory for your loss.  I know you must have many happy memories to comfort you, but I'm sending hugs to help you through the hard moments.  You look beutiful, and I'm sure your friend would be so proud and happy for you.  Best wishes to you on this bittersweet day.