When did it all change inside your head?
For me, the initial "excitement" and "thrill" wore off around 5 weeks post-op. I was on a family vacation at a resort that served a gorgeous hot breakfast buffet every morning. Waffles, french toast, sausage, eggs, potatoes o'brian, homemade muffins... you name it.
I was far enough out that I was "over" my eating plan, wanted to throwdown. I was SOOOO PISSED that I couldn't eat (and tried to eat carby things not on my plan... twice I actually made myself sick). I was frustrated and angry and WANTED to eat. I wrestled with anger and depression that entire week... all over food. Food lost, I won. Well, for that week anyway.
I will say, though... I didn't win the war. Just that battle, on that day. While I think that good choices are like a muscle (meaning, they get easier to use the more they're "exercised"), for me I don't know if I'll ever be DONE. Some days will be better/easier than others. Some days I still resent my tiny sleeve, and the fact that I shouldn't feed her crap (like a big, fat pumpkin/cream cheese whoopie pie at the farmer's market)... but in the end I remember how much better it is to be in my size 10 (too tight for public, but still) jeans than my size XXL sweats.
I would get really angry when I was on liquids, but as I progressed through the mushies my anger started to fade. Now that I'm in stage three, I feel like I get enough variety that it doesn't bother me as much that I can't have things like pizza, pasta, and bread. It'll come eventually, and in much smaller quantities. I've also noticed my tastes are changing a bit. Things I'd been craving and angry about not eating a few weeks ago sometimes turn out to be not as good as I remembered.
I do now occasionally get a small feeling of panic at the very tiny volume I have.. I am still at 2oz or less of protein.. That's the odd one for me. I can get a little anxious about the portions I eat, then worry about a possible future increase in volume that has yet to appear. That's my current head-trip.
Do I occasionally want to taste more- yes, do I get upset or mad, no. There will be another meal in just a few hours, and if want to revisit that last meal/taste - I do. That is the one big lesson that this surgery provided.. there will always be another meal, I don't have to have it all right now.. this isn't feast & famine.
I miss some of my favorite comfort foods but I am more satisfied fitting in my smaller clothes!
I went to the county fair with my daughter and husband. Everything clicked at that moment because the year prior I ate EVERYTHING(funnel cakes, cotton candy, barbeque, pizza and so on)! This year I simply enjoyed sightseeing and watching my little girl smile and laugh.
I was sad briefly but I felt like a normal person instead of a greedy monster, lol! Good luck to you!