Men!

Crystal M.
on 11/26/11 10:27 am, edited 11/25/11 10:27 pm - El Paso, TX
How is it possible that I went from this

to this

in a couple of months and my boyfriend still hasn't mentioned it?

It's better to be hated for who you are than loved for who you're not.                

Paige V.
on 11/26/11 10:31 am - Gainesville, FL
I have no friggin clue cause you look hawt woman! =)

 

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(deactivated member)
on 11/26/11 10:49 am
What she said!
RubyTues
on 11/26/11 10:32 am - Canada
Are you kidding? Like really no mention of how great you look or how well you are doing? No comments like.. wow my g/f's smokin' hot now?

Maybe the transformation is starting to make him feel threatened in some way.. and he is avoiding the whole thing?
                    
Crystal M.
on 11/26/11 10:37 am - El Paso, TX
He hasn't said anything one way or the other. Last weekend my neighbor told him that he should be very proud of me and jokingly told him that if I lost any more weight he (my boyfriend) was going to start getting into fights. My boyfriend just smiled and said nothing. I feel so insecure sometimes, because he never ever compliments me. We've been together over 8 years, and I now am smaller than when he met me, but he says nothing. It's just the way he is.

On the other hand, he never criticized me during those 8 years as I gained weight, either.

It's better to be hated for who you are than loved for who you're not.                

Greg M.
on 11/26/11 10:37 am - Cincinnati, OH
Seems like he should be pretty happy.  This is about getting healthy for you so and you can only control how you act and how you feel.  Sounds like he may be dead from the neck up.  Great job, keep up the good work!

  

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Cusscusscutie
on 11/26/11 10:51 am - MA
I don't know about him but you look wonderful!
    
onemoretry
on 11/26/11 10:59 am - GA
VSG on 03/21/12
Let me first say you look great! Not making excuses for him, but maybe he does not really see the change,since he see you every day. I have been quilty of this myself, when it came to my friend. It took me to see a picture to really see the difference.
HogRider
on 11/26/11 11:01 am - Jacksonville, FL
 Get new boyfriend.
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KathyA999
on 11/26/11 11:06 am
You look GREAT!  He could be one of these completely checked-out guys.  Has he gone for days without noticing a new haircut?  Has he ever said anything about an outfit?  Some guys are just like that, he'd probably notice if "the girls" suddenly went missing ("Hey! What happened to your boobs???"), but other than that, nada!  LOL!

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