Men!
He hasn't said anything one way or the other. Last weekend my neighbor told him that he should be very proud of me and jokingly told him that if I lost any more weight he (my boyfriend) was going to start getting into fights. My boyfriend just smiled and said nothing. I feel so insecure sometimes, because he never ever compliments me. We've been together over 8 years, and I now am smaller than when he met me, but he says nothing. It's just the way he is.
On the other hand, he never criticized me during those 8 years as I gained weight, either.
On the other hand, he never criticized me during those 8 years as I gained weight, either.
VSG on 03/21/12
Let me first say you look great! Not making excuses for him, but maybe he does not really see the change,since he see you every day. I have been quilty of this myself, when it came to my friend. It took me to see a picture to really see the difference.
You look GREAT! He could be one of these completely checked-out guys. Has he gone for days without noticing a new haircut? Has he ever said anything about an outfit? Some guys are just like that, he'd probably notice if "the girls" suddenly went missing ("Hey! What happened to your boobs???"), but other than that, nada! LOL!