NSV for Me, Not So Much for the Other Guy

Sandy M.
on 11/21/13 8:04 am - Detroit Lakes, MN
Revision on 05/08/13

I had jury duty yesterday, and there is a bus that drives us from downtown back to a remote parking lot when we're released.  When I boarded the bus, it was already very crowded, and an elderly lady boarded with me.  There were two seats left at the back, but one of those seats was next to a very heavy man, who took up a seat and a half.  I sat next to him, and patted the seat across the aisle for the elderly lady to sit.  I was able to fit into about 1/2 a seat - not comfortably, but I didn't have to stand up for the bus ride!

I really felt for the guy, who you know was watching the bus fill up and knew that someone was going to have to sit next to him.  I remember the shame and embarrassment I felt in the same situations.  

Height 5'4"  HW:223 Lap band 2006, revised to Sleeve 5/8/2013, SW:196

  

    

Mrs_Desire _
on 11/21/13 9:34 am - Houston, TX
VSG on 11/18/13
Congrats to you!!!! I know how it feels to be the biggest one in a joint seat like that. Trying to push myself all the way on side. Can't wait to feel comfortable again with room to spare in my seat on a plane.

Myfitnesspal: MsDesire​  - Revision from Realize Band Patient

Height: 5'10" HW: 305  SW: 298 Surg Goal: 195 Endo Goal: 165 

 

    

    

(deactivated member)
on 11/21/13 10:21 am - Canada

Yay!

Plane seats...what were they thinking!cool

SophieNJ
on 11/21/13 9:42 pm - Parsippany, NJ
VSG on 03/05/13

ouch...brings back horrid memories for me, when I had to commute into city for work...people all gave me the "oh please don't sit next to me" loo****assionaly actually hearing "tsks" and "oh great" when I sat next to someone....my eyes would always be on the look out for the thinnest person to sit next to.  then I switched my bus stop so I could get a seat next to the window and squosh myself as close as possible to it.  oh, I hated it.  That poor man.  We all know how he feels.

Sophie

HW 275 SW 246 CW 162.5  GW 150  ( 5'1"  Over 1 1/2 inch lost in the last few yrs! LOL) lost 50 lbs on my own, stable for 3 yrs, gained back 21 during year b4 surgery.

Sandy M.
on 11/22/13 10:49 am - Detroit Lakes, MN
Revision on 05/08/13

I know - we really do know how he feels!

Height 5'4"  HW:223 Lap band 2006, revised to Sleeve 5/8/2013, SW:196

  

    

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