Just a vent...no response needed!! Seriously!

Jackie W.
on 6/1/11 1:47 pm
Thanks Stacey!!! Feeling the love from my LW friends!!


On a side note!  Love Chesapeake area!!  My daughter is from up the road (in my world), *****oteague Island!!! 

There are never any problems, only solutions.  quoted by a dear and special friend!!!

My stats:
Starting weight 234 lbs    Height 5 ft 6 in
Goal in 7 months (127 lbs)
Currently: 120-123 lbs
Tops Small   Bottoms size 2!!!!
UPDATED: 11/11

italianspice
on 5/31/11 9:51 pm - Eastlake, OH
Vent away! Thats what we are here for!

Glad to hear you have your self confidence back!

~Maria

SW 230 Preop 205 GW 130 LW 131 CW 135 Ht 5'1"

Jackie W.
on 6/1/11 1:49 pm
Thanks Maria!!  Yes I have my confidence back!  And he doesn't like it!!  Blames the surgery! 

Thank you for your support, it really means a lot!!

There are never any problems, only solutions.  quoted by a dear and special friend!!!

My stats:
Starting weight 234 lbs    Height 5 ft 6 in
Goal in 7 months (127 lbs)
Currently: 120-123 lbs
Tops Small   Bottoms size 2!!!!
UPDATED: 11/11

loser429
on 5/31/11 10:03 pm
Having been through 2 divorces, I understand where you are coming from.  It is really hard to take that first step and very scary especially with kids.  Some of my kids still hold it against me for not getting out sooner from an abuser who was also abusing them when I was out or at work..  Not say your husband is an abuser just that sometimes we need to get out for our own self preservation.

Some spouses don't like when we make ourselves better as it is a threat to the control they have over us.  I will keep you in my prayers and pray things work out for the best for you and your family.  Don;t let him get you down.  You are an important person, keep your chin up and be proud of yourself for all you have accomplished.

Mary K

Mary's trying to get healthy:

Jackie W.
on 6/1/11 1:54 pm
OMG Mary...twice!!  Bless you!!!  I am having a hard time this time, couldn't imagine having to do it a second time!  Thank you for your time & support, it means a lot!!

I'm sure one day your kids will understand!  I would always sit back and criticize the battered woman.  Say, why are you so freaking stupid!!  Now I understand.  He tells me we have no money to pay bills...but he goes out and buys (on credit cards) what ever he wants!!!  I'm cheap (fruggle), so I spend no money, hoping to save and pay down debt.  I get gift cards for my birthday & christmas.....I spend them on things my son needs (clothes, toys, etc) or my husband.  Usually NOT me!  I'm sure your right, he feels threatened because I'm fighting back!!  He keeps "talking", but the talking turns into disagreements (fights).  I'm soo done fighting!!!!  That is ALL I can say to him!!

Thank you again!!

There are never any problems, only solutions.  quoted by a dear and special friend!!!

My stats:
Starting weight 234 lbs    Height 5 ft 6 in
Goal in 7 months (127 lbs)
Currently: 120-123 lbs
Tops Small   Bottoms size 2!!!!
UPDATED: 11/11

fatoldbat
on 5/31/11 10:16 pm
i'm so very sorry you're going thru this!  the not trusting thing would absolutely make me CRAZY!!!  and the accusations of cheating and "doing stuff behind his back".....OH MY!!!  as i type this i can hear my mama say "the guilty dog barks the loudest!"

don't have a clue to what you're feeling right now but please know you're in my thoughts and prayers no matter how this turns out!!

please keep us posted!
Blessings,  J
HW 250.4/SW 238/1ST GOAL 155/2ND GOAL 150/CW 143.6
    LW-Apple-Gold-Small.jpg image by PlicketyCat
Jackie W.
on 6/1/11 1:58 pm
Thanks J!!!!!  In the past, it did drive me crazy, but I accepted it!  It took me 45 mins to get home from work...he could do it in 30.  I was stopping somewhere.  NO!!!  Traffic!!!  I drive too fast!  I listen to the wrong music for our son (todays music)!!!  Someone said that.....if he is accusing me of something, chances are he is doing it himself!!  Its really got me wondering...that is for certain!!

I'm SO glad you don't have a clue!  That is a good thing! But thank you for your thoughts, prayers and support!  It truly means a lot to me!!

There are never any problems, only solutions.  quoted by a dear and special friend!!!

My stats:
Starting weight 234 lbs    Height 5 ft 6 in
Goal in 7 months (127 lbs)
Currently: 120-123 lbs
Tops Small   Bottoms size 2!!!!
UPDATED: 11/11

Roz !!!!
on 5/31/11 11:37 pm - Butler, PA
We are here for you babee (((HUGS)))!!!!!!

Roz

God is walking with me every step of the way. Because of HIM this is possible!!

RNY 10/15/2008 9+ Years!!!
Height: 4' 11" HW: 203 SW: 197 CW: 119
on Maintenance

Jackie W.
on 6/1/11 2:00 pm
Thanks Roz!!!  You guys always are!!  Guess that is why I turned to the LW Board!  Love you guys!!

There are never any problems, only solutions.  quoted by a dear and special friend!!!

My stats:
Starting weight 234 lbs    Height 5 ft 6 in
Goal in 7 months (127 lbs)
Currently: 120-123 lbs
Tops Small   Bottoms size 2!!!!
UPDATED: 11/11

(deactivated member)
on 5/31/11 11:57 pm
 Jackie  Im so glad  U felt U could  trust us enough to talk to us  !  

  sometimes  I feel like the LW  forum is a wonderful safe haven to  vent ( and get  loving support and even  great creative ideas  back too )  

Please  make sure Ur  computer is password protected  ...
its not hard to do  

I resisted doing it  for years and my( controlling )  landlord was on it all the time spying ...  

when i encrypted and password protected it  that stopped 100 %  .  Now i feel i can be truly  private and confidential and free  !!  I really  took a huge step  in respecting myself and carving out my own personal space ... 

huge hugs    Ava
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