Hello Kimanne! Thank you so much for writing to me. It won't be long before we both have surgery (mine is Sept. 7th). I read your profile and I hope you keep it up because your words are a joy to read and ring so true. I think your friend will come around. Mine have all accepted it and are supportive since I told them I have DECIDED and I AM GOING TO DO THIS and DON'T NEED ANYONES PERMISSION. My 16 year old son feels the same way your daughter does but I keep emphasizing how much I can do with him afterwards. We will join a gym together and I won't be so tired. Remind her of that. It's all about the health (although looking better is nice too) ;) Anyway, I hope to keep in touch with you and will be reading your profile for updates. Take care! You are in my prayers too. Laura