Chris,
Think of it this way.. you have three years left of this job right.. ok, well year one, will be losing weight from surgery, year two, getting to goal after surgery, year three.. learning who the new you is and getting used to her, then... whopiee. you get to enjoy a whole new life, without the weight, and happy! You can do it!
Cyber hugs sent your way, it is always hard to be treated unfairly, but work is only 8 hours of your day.. chin up and onward to the better part of life!
Feel better soon ok?
Tami