prissy25
7 yrs out
Nov 19, 2015
Wow its been so long since I have been on here everything has changed not sure how things here are working lol. But I just has my 7 yr anniv. on the 31st of Oct. and I'm still moving forward with my life. Lord knows 7 yrs ago I was in a mess. And those new comers who read my profile then and here can see just how much Gastric Bypass can change your life. I was almost dead back then and now I don't know if I'm coming or going days go by so fast the week is over and I ask where did the time go. Is amazing how this journey has been for me I wouldn't change a thing. I'm very happy. And wish all the newbie's the best of luck to you. Happy Holidays.
10 years 1 mth 2005-2015
Nov 19, 2015
Well wow its been 3 yrs since I have posted in here. An Im 10 yrs out from surgery an its been a ride for sure I have been up an down emotionally mentally you name it. I started out 410 down to 167 and maintained at 170 up until 4 yrs ago an have gained up to 240 I have maintained that but cant get it off for nothing. I get so angry cause I know the pouch is there cause I cant eat much still but I am so depressed I dont do the 3-4 meals a day i dont get my water in like I should I have so much pain from fibromyalgia, arthritis and back pain I cant exercise like most can and it is just hard. I even want an have considered of seeing if I can get the other surgery the Sleeve, or at least seeing if my pouch has stretched an if so to tighten it. But I wont give up. With the way the world is going life is to short to sweat the little things so if your struggeling as well just keep fighting there has to be a way out somewhere :). Well I guess and pray the next post I make it will be in a year oe so telling you the weight is down and I won this battle again and all is good, I havent gone thru all these surgerys to give up yet.
Threw the years
Aug 08, 2010
Hi, IM going update this, since it decides to disappear by its self. IM now a 39 morbidly obese female divorced with a 15-year-old son. IM in a long-term relationship. With a wonderful person, who has stood behind me for a long time.
I have been researching the Gastric Bypass for going on 3 years now and IM still fighting for this surgery. I know at this point in my life, this is the only tool to help me get started on a new healthier life for me. I have been unemployed for 3 years now and have had no luck of finding a job to suit my conditions. I suffer from severe back, neck, knees and joint pain daily. I also have a thyroid disorder
.carpal tunnel, severe depression that I have been treated now over 3 years for. Restrictive lung disease, meaning I can’t breathe well after 10-20 steps just getting around the house a leaves me breathless. Cant shop anymore don’t do house work, cant sit for long periods of time nor can I stand long without leaning on something. Mild obstructive apnea, and limb movement disorder. I’ve been to DR’s and now in therapy have been trying to get disability /Medicaid for some time now denied every time. I have to depend on people for everything and I don’t think I need to go into details. I also stay close to home because I cant get around like others and being Morbid obese and then not moving like I should I don’t want to deal with those stares and finger pointers. So I stay here to avoid. I have met so very many great people on this obesityhelp.com sight now I feel I have people who can relate to me and my problems. Unlike people who are not obese. IM still fighting as we speak to get the tool to make my life a better life. You will find letters written or information I have revived during my research, feel free to read and ask me any questions, you will if you email me I have other sights that may help you find information your looking for so please just ask.
I have also got an attorney helping with my appeals. And now I have the University involved as well helping me with the Medicaid issues and I have written to Virgil Goode and to Govonor Warner, along with the President. Media will be next on my schedule.
Hello to all the AMOS family, Hope all are doing well and getting those pounds off, and to those headed into there surgeries, best of luck to you all! Well I have more news to add to my profile thought you guys might like to here that I may have some positive fibs going on here in Virginia. As you all know if you have followed my story the past few years that I haven’t had a lot of luck getting my turn with the loosing side, so I got mad one day and sat down and have been writing to everyone and anyone who would here me.
I was seen by a DR here in Charlottesville August of last year and was told I was a great candidate fort he gastric bypass and all but until I had some type of insurance coverage they couldn’t help me at this time. Which then I knew I was going to be booted and. I was down and I still have been fighting. So one day resent I was speaking with a lady close by, who had just had her surgery and all and we were just having a casual conversation. And she said well Melinda why don’t you go above and beyond this DR who which was her surgeon as well and she was very pleased with him and his work.
So I thought about it and one eve. I was sitting here thinking and wondering whom to contact. So I got on the computer and started looking for the president of UVA and of course I didn’t find but I found the vice president and CEO. So I started emailing. Within a week I had been contacted and told they were going to investigate this issue. I told them I felt it unfair that I lived 20 min. from one of the top 100 hospitals in America and was 100% covered threw there facility with financial assistance for treatment but was unable to have the Gastric bypass? I wanted to know why and how they could help me and consider me as a patient. They said I would receive a call from one of their representative in a few days. I was thinking OK sure this was there way of blowing me off.
Guess what? They called me yesterday and he was very nice and positive, he said he wished I had came this route 2 years ago that they have a program there where they can help patients to receive Medicaid when they cant get it on there own. So he’s looking into it for me but because I have an attorney involved they had to check guidelines. But I spoke with my attorney and he said let them try maybe they will get further than we have since they have the inside scoop. So now I just wait to here back from him to see what’s next. I ask what my chances were he said he felt positive but if not they would try another route.
In other wards they had steps to go threw before they could do procedures so when they were audited they had themselves covered. IM praying and I hope you all will join me in those prayers and Ill keep you updated. Sorry long posts. Hugs…..
10/13/03 I was not aloud to put this on the board said it was inflammatory: I just wanted your feelings as to if I had covered basis oh well here it is.
Do you have any idea what it’s like to suffer from Morbid Obesity? There are thousands of us out there, and we are looked down on and discriminated against everyday. People point, make jokes, rude remarks stares. And they get away with it, why? I feel that we are all God’s creatures, so who gives these people the right to whisper about us and do the things they do? How many people do you see pointing at that skinny person or short or tall, we are all different and we all have our own personalities.
I know myself along with many here we have been fighting a very long time to get help for our disease! Something we need to get the society to realize we are not fat because we choose this life, we are the way we are because of a DISEASE. A disease that is like a drug addict and alcoholism something that is treated with insurance company’s all over, Along with Heart Disease, High Cholesterol, Sugar Diabetes, AIDS now unless you’re a child or for some reason had a bad blood transfusion THAT’S A CHOICE! So why is Morbid Obesity set aside as being a CHOICE?
We have Breast cancer awareness month, we have AIDS charity auctions we have a way of donating money to every disease out there Except for Morbid Obesity. WHY? IM not downing any of the other charities or causes because they are very serious health issues, BUT so is 300,000 Americans a year dying of Morbid Obesity or complications stemming to the disease. So why are we swept under the carpets?
Well IM not sure about the rest of you but IM sure I can speak for the majority this isn’t my CHOICE! I would love to be 135 pounds and healthy and enjoying life. Unlike some that say we all make a choice IM sure we don’t choose to be dependent upon others to take care of our daily needs and wants, come on lets be realistic here. Do they even have a clue the embarrassments we go through? The double lives we lead?
IM not sure about the rest, but the ones I have spoken with have similar problems like myself. The chair not being big enough, being so tight you would have to be 90 pounds to get into them, flying is also a hassle for some, making the obese purchase 2 seats to fly. Now my opinion on the flying this is cheating, you don’t charge for 2 seats for a very tall person do you? No! You go into some of the bathroom stalls, there so small you can’t turn around in them big or little. Movie theaters, same with there seats, the list could go on and on, but I think you get the idea.
Look at the obese person, as if that was your mother, brother, sister father etc. Think to yourself hum wonder what they go threw? Do they have help bathing? Can they dress alone? Are they able to do their personal hygiene alone? How do they clean their homes? Do there shopping? Ask yourself how would you feel if you were in their shoes? If you had a close relative with this problem and you knew it wasn’t a choice, how would you feel? How would you act if someone said to your mother, you made the CHOICE to be FAT! You would be angry. I know for a fact, most people have no clue on the lives of an obese person. The suffering they go threw the pain the medical denials, fingers pointing, sneers, stares etc.
I know first hand, I watched my grandmother a morbid obese person for many years. Who was very active in her early life raised 3 children and cooked, cleaned, canned did a huge gardens, but later became plagued with arthritis, and gout real bad along with rheumatism and a few other medical problems. I watched her last 20 years of her life be chair and bed bound only moving when she had help and assistance. She lived in so much pain and she had so much courage, she is gone now to a better place and I know she no longer suffers. And I miss her lots.
And I can tell you she didn’t make the choice of her condition of her last years. She missed out on a lot of outings and church, something she never missed. She had to be humble to those who cared for her because things that we ALL take for granted was difficult for her to do and then she was unable to do any of then in the end. These things consist of cooking for herself, cleaning, personal needs bathing, she depended solely on her husband as well as her care givers. She would become agitated at times when unable to do simple things, but she never was cross, she always had faith in the Lord, to see her threw.
I too know the suffering she went threw and only us who are morbidly obese can relate to each other but this is because there are so many myths out there about us. People believe what they want. They make there own assumptions on how we should live and be treated. And that if we just stopped eating we would loose weight. This is the biggest untruth out there. I have been on every diet you and imagine, tried the exercise route. Now that IM unable to do a lot of exercise it has worsened. I pray every night for the opportunity to loose this weight as so I can go forward with my life and enjoy what I have left.
I have written letters to our congressmen, to the President. Vice President, Governor, and University’s.
Whoever will listen, and If I need to Ill go to the media next.
I know with my BMI is associated with a “Early Death”. The way to reduce this BMI, (Body Mass Index), is to LOSE a substantial amount of weight. I am a morbid obese individual with functional impairments, daily activities, sleep problems, recreational, work, social interactions, physical limitations, personal hygiene alone are impossible.
I am also @ a 190% increase of death @ my present weight and that scares me. Obesity is the 2nd leading cause of death now and 65% of Americans are over weight. Morbid Obesity is a DISEASE! Unlike what the majority of the public want to believe. These people who don’t believe in this need to pull out there dictionary’s because it will tell you Quote” Morbid is- diseased or abnormal” this came from a medical dictionary, but it also has the same definition in the Webster check it out.
I have been seen and told that I am an appropriate candidate for weight reduction surgery. But I haven’t been able to obtain due to no insurance. Seriously obese people like myself suffer the inability to qualify for many types of employment, and discrimination in employment opportunities as well. We tend to have higher rates of unemployment and lower socioeconomic status. Many severely obese people like myself find it preferable to avoid social interactions or public places, choosing to limit their own freedom, rather than suffer embarrassment.
Just a few Facts: [1] A morbidly obese person has two- to twelve – times increases relative risk of dying over a non-obese person. [2] Severely overweight people are four or more times more likely to die of heart disease, and two or more times more likely to die of cancer. [3] 97% of all medical management of obesity using diet and exercise fail. [4] 92% of all gastric bypass surgeries succeed in producing long- term weight loss.
Surgery is NOT a quick fix, we believe in the treatment of obesity with a holistic team approach, which include significant patient education and preparation before and after surgery. Surgery alone IS NOT the answer to solving a significant weight problem. Successful treatment involves working with a team of healthcare professionals who can give you proper guidance in diet, exercise, and mental and emotional support for your new lifestyle.
Some 300,000 Americans die a year from illnesses caused or worsened by obesity. And it doesn’t have to be this way. Society needs to be more educated on this disease and the tools out there to help people like ourselves to reach goal weights and stay there with proper diets and exercise. This is a serious medical issue. And we as Americans need to get the education out there and to let the public see we are not going to be quiet about this and we are not going to take this sitting down.
I myself like I said in the beginning of who I have written to and contacted. And I continue to write and make noise until IM heard. IM tired of the discrimination worldwide. Hope you all will join my fight and speak up and be heard in your state and county’s cites do what you have to do to be heard. Remember we have rights too and we should have the right to voice and make changes in these laws and in order to do this we have to be a TEAM.
Life is to short for some of us, to short to sit back and let others make the decisions that its our choice to be the way we are. Because unless they have walked in my shoes and walked the walk don’t pass judgment on the others, or me with this DISEASE! That’s right I said DISEASE one that kills everyday just like
the others. So I feel that if there going to be treatable and covered under insurance company’s then so should the Morbid Obese person, and the policy’s need to be more reasonable so those who are able to obtain insurance they can afford the monthly premiums. Those of us with disability’s need the opportunity to obtain some type of funding as so we can return to the working society, as it stands now you better have someone who cares about you very much or you will starve an die. When I became unemployed I lost everything and if it weren’t for a wonderful person Id be dead today. But it’s unfair to them to have to worry about my financial and medical problems.
I also think the rules, guidelines what ever it is they call it for the SSI/Disability need to be looked at and changed. Just because they get a report saying one thing doesn’t mean these people aren’t disabled in some ways. Ways, that are not determined during there little exams. Anyone unless you are quadriplegia can do there little procedures and I think that it is unfair to the public as well as discriminative to all of us to say oh they can move this and that there OK they can do some type of work. They have never seen us all they go by are the words written on a paper from someone who has never seen me and in 15 minutes. Determine IM OK.
Just because I can left an arm or leg and stand on one foot, how does this determine IM NOT Disabled?
My disabilities are severe pain, numbness in legs and hands, neck back and knee pain so severe I can’t even get out of the bed. I have mild obstructive sleep apnea, I have a restrictive lung disease and the weight cause more problems, Thyroid disorder, depression and more private problems that aren’t even discussed during an exam. I ask what does a person who has functional limitations problems whatever they may be how do you work a public job 40 hours a week? Is the employer going to supply an aide to help with these impairments?
Nobody has a clue of the anxiety I have when I have to go into the public, and worry about some of my issues and how would I react. How can I do these things alone. Nobody has a clue what I go threw except me and I feel it is unfair to be brushed under the rug, because I can sit and stand and lift an arm or leg.
IM asking you to find a way to help change these Laws and regulation’s for the state of Virginia people.
Sincerely,
Melinda Gregory
10/15/03 Well I got that 3 way call this morning, not sure how to take it but Ill just have to wait, they will be back with me on Friday. Said they would do what they could to make me happy, but couldnt make any promises.
Said he was going to talk with the surgeon and with the Dept. Of Rehab. Not sure why but I guess they know what there doing.So when I know Ill post as so you can follow.
10/16/03 Hello yall I got another call from the gentleman from UVA he was just updating me that he had contacted the Dept. Of Rehab, where I had had a fair hearing at. and if he isnt satisfied with there answers then hewas going to call Richmond. Not sure just what he is running with here but Im leaving it to them they know what to do : ) keep praying for me hugs...
1/8/04 Well another year another denial, yes got it today denied saying now I have no lung disease no reason why I cant work cause I can breath fine. Ha they make me sick if I could breath like they think Id be working If I could take care of myself like they think I can Id be working. They pass there judgements dont know me have no clue how I suffer. We 3 denials and 3 yrs, what a track record. I dont know where it goes from here not sure if Im even ready to go at it again another year.
1/24/04 Well here it another Sat. month of January almost gone, and I still cant get anyone to listen to me. Im awaiting a call from the UVA guy who wishes me to speak to an attorney friend of his here locally. I dont feel the attorneys I have now are doing me justice, just alot of paper work being shuffled here and there. So Im undecicded as to what I will do with them. And a few great friends Ive met online are working with prepairing me letters and to have a talk with my PCP, as well as a few others, I go Monday to PCP and I hope and pray I can make her understand the pain Im suffering and that she has to be a little stronger in the letters she writes for me from here on out or Im gonna replace her as well. Somebody has to see the problems I have, hell I couldnt stay on the treadmill the other week for 2 mins.? OK hello people can you read this? lol I walk from room to romm and Im gasping for breath???? Is this NORMAL NO I dont think so. Its crazy for me to have to continue to suffer like this, an inhaler twice a day thats a joke, and futher more dosent help me in the least. Please keep me in your prayers and dont give up on me, because I dont wanna give up on me. Thanks for all who have been there for me it means alot. Hugs
2/9/04 Well I had my check up with PCP today and I was told by a few people when I went to tell her she needed to help me more, she needed to stress the inportance of this surgery and my life. Well she is going to type a letter of Medical Necessity and have ready for me by Thursday. So I hope this means my turn is near? Hugs to you all and to those who have kicked me in the butt and got me moving again, Susie and Sherri thanks you guys rock!
2/24/04 Well here I sit still waitng to here from this person or that persone, cant get anyone to return calls and nobody is ever in there offices anymore. So frustrating. I swear its been the longest few years of my life. I now have the letter from the Dr and still cant get any where. I cant believe the more I read on the sight the people who are losing there lives because of these waits WHY? The tool is there for us why cant they get this threw there thick heads. Its like oh well lets dangle a big steak in front of a bear an see what happens yet we arent bears so we just sit miserable and prisoners in our own homes and bodys. Everyday that goes by is another day off my life and Im really getting tired of all the run around and blow offs. There has to be an easier way.
2/28/04 Hello all hope are doing well. I know there are a few of you out there Like Suzie getting ready for that big day here in a few weeks! Yippee you go girl. And April she should be home recovery best wishes to you girl for a speedy recovery. Sherrie I know your just waisting the fund approval you will be next. I got that dreaded phone call yesterday from my last sleep study test. I have sleep apnea and they have put in for the C-PAP machine yea Im so excited to have to wear this dang thing. But I have to keep faith that after the surgery and weight loss I can get rid of it. I have a appointment Wed. w/ another attorney to get a second oppinion, he seemed very nice and concerned on how I had been treated from the other attorneys. I even emailed the top dog at the attorneys office Im dealing w/ now to voice my concerns and disappointments a week ago he has never responded. Go fiqure. Well just wantet update and let you know Im still here and waiting. And hanks Susie for a great profile page!! hugs.
3/17/04 Well hello everyone been a while since Ive been in here, so let me update a little. I went to speak with the other attorney and they will take my case if the appeals court denys me again. Its there now at the appeals court so they didnt wanna go messing around with it till the make there decission.
Things have been busy we are having a roof put on so its been kinda noisy between the roofers and the dog barking every 5 mins. My brothers wedding coming up in June was doing flowers for them. And now there sending me to a ear nose and throat spealist for the feelings I have in my head, lol said wasnt in my head, thats a matter of oppinon, friend Susie is going in Friday @ 1:00 for the start of her new life and journey, God Bless her and hurry back with a speedy recovery.Until next time Hugs....
5/2/04 hello to all hope everyone doing well. Been a little while since Ive posted so doing an update today.As you see Im still alive lol barley my breathing as worsend over the last few weeks and now they have me w/ a inhaler Albuterol, along w/ adivair. I had my Functional Capsity Exam Sat. morning didnt go to bad was very tiring and there are like 24 different test I was only aloud to do 15 I think it was, the others were to dangerous for me she said. She said my numbers looked good and I would have the report in 10 days. So now all is left to get it sent up to the counsel and pray. Ive gain 30 pounds by there scales but hell who knows Ive been given so many different weights, I have no clue. Wedding is getting closer so much to do I have no clue how Ill be of alot of help. Well hope to update soon with the results and good news thanks to all you for your prayers and support until next time hugs.....
5/10/04
Discoveries Show How Obesity Kills
By DANIEL Q. HANEY, AP
(May 11) - Research into the biology of fat is turning up some surprising new insights about how obesity kills. The weight of the evidence: It's the toxic mischief of the flesh itself.
Experts have realized for decades that large people die young, and the explanation long seemed obvious. Carrying around all those extra pounds must put a deadly strain on the heart and other organs.
Obvious but wrong, it turns out. While the physical burden contributes to arthritis and sleep apnea, among other things, it is a minor hazard compared to the complex and insidious damage wrought by the oily, yellowish globs of fat that cover human bodies like never before.
A series of recent discoveries suggests that all fat-storage cells churn out a stew of hormones and other chemical messengers that fine-tune the body's energy balance. But when spewed in vast amounts by cells swollen to capacity with fat, they assault many organs in ways that are bad for health.
The exact details are still being worked out, but scientists say there is no doubt this flux of biological crosstalk hastens death from heart disease, strokes, diabetes and cancer, diseases that are especially common among the obese.
''When we look at fat tissue now, we see it's not just a passive depot of fat,'' says Dr. Rudolph Leibel of Columbia University. ''It's an active manufacturer of signals to other parts of the body.''
The first real inkling that fat is more than just inert blubber was the discovery 10 years ago of the substance leptin. Scientists were amazed to find that this static-looking flesh helps maintain itself by producing a chemical that regulates appetite.
Roughly 25 different signaling compounds - with names like resistin and adiponectin - are now known to be made by fat cells, Leibel estimates, and many more undoubtedly will be found.
''There is an explosion of information about just what it is and what it does,'' Dr. Allen Spiegel, director of the National Institute of Diabetes and Digestive and Kidney Diseases, says of fat. ''It is a tremendously dynamic organ.''
Fat tissue is now recognized to be the body's biggest endocrine organ, and its sheer volume is impressive even in normal-size people. A trim woman is typically 30 percent fat, a man 15 percent. That is enough fuel to keep someone alive without eating for three months.
The fat cell's main job is to store our excess calories as fat. When people grow obese, their fat cells swell with fat and can plump up to three times normal size. As very overweight people get fatter still, they may also layer on many more fat cells.
The problem is the volume of chemicals these oversize cells churn out, says Dr. George Bray of Louisiana State University. ''The big cell secretes more of everything that it secreted when it was small. When you get more of these things, they are not good for you.''
Many scientists are trying to learn exactly what these excess secretions do that is so harmful. The answers will help explain - and perhaps offer solutions to - the real tragedy of the obesity epidemic, its disastrous effect on health.
Obesity is a huge and growing killer, in the United States just slightly behind smoking. Moderately obese people live two to five years less than normal-size folks. For the severely obese, the reduction in life span may be five to 10 years.
By far the biggest single threat of obesity is heart disease. Someone with a body mass index over 30 has triple the usual risk. Scientists can visualize many ways that fat cells' chemical flood contributes to heart attacks, heart failure and cardiac arrest.
For instance, it has long been known that weight increases blood pressure Once doctors thought this was a matter of physics, the force needed to push blood through the many more yards of blood vessels that nourish the extra flesh.
But now it is clear that fat can trigger high blood pressure" blood pressure making blood vessels narrow in several chemical ways. For instance, it produces a substance called angiotensinogen that is a powerful constrictor. At the same time, it stimulates the sympathetic nerves to squeeze the circulatory system. And that may just be the beginning.
''It's a very complicated system, and the more we learn about it, the more complicated it becomes,'' says Dr. Xavier Pi-Sunyer, head of obesity research at St. Luke's Roosevelt Hospital Center in New York City.
One of the clearest hazards of overfilled fat cells is their influence on the body's production and use of insulin, the hormone that instructs the muscle to burn energy and the fat cells to store it. Oversize fat cells blunt the insulin message, in part by leaking fat into the bloodstream. So the liver must compensate by making more insulin and other proteins.
Scientists now understand that increasing insulin levels - part of a condition called insulin resistance - are particularly harmful. They can directly damage the walls of arteries and lead to clogging.
That leaking fat may also infiltrate the heart muscle, contributing to congestive heart failure. Misplaced deposits of fat can also ruin the liver and have become the second-leading reason for liver transplants after hepatitis B.
Fat cells churn out a variety of proteins that cause inflammation, too. These may be especially destructive to the gunky buildups in the arteries, causing them to burst and triggering heart attacks and strokes.
These inflammatory proteins and other fat-driven chemicals, such as growth hormones may also contribute to one of the less appreciated consequences of obesity - cancer.
''There is now conclusive evidence that obesity causes some cancers and strong evidence that it contributes to a wide variety of others,'' says Dr. Michael Thun, epidemiology chief at the American Cancer Society.
The cancer society estimates that staying trim could eliminate 90,000 U.S. cancer deaths a year. Among the varieties most clearly linked to weight are cancer of the breast, uterus, colon, kidney, esophagus, pancreas and gallbladder.
The best evidence of how obesity causes malignancy is in breast cancer in older women. When the ovaries shut down after menopause, fat tissue becomes the primary producer of estrogen, which in turn can fuel the growth of breast tumors.
The heavier women are when diagnosed with breast cancer, the more likely they are to die from the disease, says Dr. Michelle Holmes of Boston's Brigham and Women's Hospital. ''Presumably it's because their cancers are dependent on estrogen, and heavier women have more estrogen.''
Still, big ticket killers like heart disease and cancer only start the long list of obesity's health ills. Among other things, obese people are more prone to depression, gallstones, even dying when in car accidents.
Says Dr. Michael Jensen of the Mayo Clinic, ''There are so many ways that obesity can kill you.''
http://obesityresearch.nih.gov/
5/21/04The results of the evaluation indicated I am NOT able to tolerate more than 2-3 minutes of activity at a time. I am severely limited by pain in spine,knees, and hips as well as shortness of breathr , blood pressure, (<20 beats and 20 points respectively) and dizziness. Ms Gregory poorly tolerated most of the tasks that she was able to attempt due to the above factors. She rated atMedium Risk for development of cardiovascular disease on the cardiovascular profile. No test was performed for heart rate recovery due to the client's inability to accomplish it.Ms Gregory rated in the sedentary work catergory according th the US Department of labor classifcation but she is unable to tolerate even 2 hours of an 8 hour day at this level.
6/12/04 Well hello again Amos Family back again for an update another year another denial makes 3rd, Im tired and Im getting real frustated with this system. I cant walk from room to room without gasping for my breath and they say I can work :( Im just sick I dont know which way this will go I know what Id like to do Im so tired of fighting, and struggleing.Im littery dying here and nobody cares. Nobody cares!
8/27/04 Another day another month of put off's and no calls and no answers. I feel my life falling deeper and deeper in depression, nobody has no clue they dont understand me I dont know what to do where to go or how to handle all this stress. We (Sheri that is called Virgil Goode) He wasnt alot of help, we then called Warners office they sent us else where. Sheri also found out some information about one of the people who I was working with @ UVA who I thought was a CEO but he is no more than there legal repersentative and finacal collectors (BILLS) wow was I blown away for a year Ive been talking to these people who have no clue about me and they have just been using me as there damn ball to bounce back and forth. And yes Im angry Im trying to save my life here and they dont give a damn about me. Im hanging guys I dont know where to turn from here, all I can do is pray and hope someone comes to my resque but will it be to late. Any of you out there reading this and are just starting with no job no insurance BE SURE YOU HAVE AN ATTORNEY BACKING YOU! Someone who know what the hell there doing.
9/21/04 Hello guys how are you all doing? better I hope. well im still here a waiting for sometihng, anything, from anybody lol you right they take there sweet time disability/SSI I have been trying a few other avenues, someone offered to pay 12000.00 to UVA to get me in for surgery they turned me down they want 22500.00 gread thats what I call it, then they would make payments towards the rest lol. There real funny one minute the cost is est. @ 42500.00 now dropped to 32500.00 and I know the surgeon dose not get that money maybe 3000.00 and the anisetiologist(SP)? about 1600.00 the 12000.00 would have been plenty you know. But no I was not excepted, so Im still on the post waiting, but I thinaked my friend for the offer. Now this month my new disease is the dreaded DIABETES yep just what I wanted to here, Diabetes, Restrictive Lung Disease, fluid, depression, thyroid disease and dyspena what will be next month? The longer the wait the more problems, in the past 4 years my life has gone to h--- when I quit smoking wow that was it. But I dont discourage stopping smoking everyine should stop. B/F and I were gonna get married next year I was hoping to have at least lost some of the weight but dosent look as if surery will be taken place again another year. What does a person do? Im 40 now and praying everyday that I get a postive answer from some where, cause that man @ UVA sure jerked me around and for what NOTHING......
10/08/04 For your Information: Nail Problems-
.The thumbnail reflects the condition of the brain, excretory system, and the reproductive system.
.The index finger reflects the condition of the liver, gallbladder and nervous system.
.The middle finger reflects the heart and circulatory system.
.The ring finger is also related to reproductive organ function, and to a certain degree, hormone balance.
.The pinkie finger reflects the condition of the digestive system, gastrointestinal tract, including the intestines and colon.
.Black vertical lines or spots on the nails can indicate an ulcer in the body. Usually a digestive or intestinal ulcer, or a kidney ulcer.
.White spots on the nails can indicate a zinc deficiency, and sometimes a hormonal imbalance.
.Spoon shaped nails or nails that are concave in the center and then turn upwards at the tip can indicate anemic and/or vitamin B-12 deficiency.
.If the tips of the nail turn downward, it is indicative of a respiratory problem.
.Vertical ridges on all nails can indicate adrenal weakness, kidney weakness, hormone imbalance, and/or protein deficiency.
If the nails take on a yellow hue, it is usually a problem with digestion.
.White horizontal lines can indicate urine protein and a kidney problem.
If you should see any of these indicators in your fingernails, you should discuss it with your Dr or practitioner. This information is for educational purpose only.
Hope this helps you all... Just seen a few pwople were having some questions about there nails looking an being different. I recomend a manicure at least once a week after you get the problem straightend but in alot of cases the medicine or deficiencys it might not make a difference, but our hands need treatment as well as our feet hair and body.
11/5/04 Well not to much going on since I last posted I have been digonoised with Diabeties, and have started medicine for that. I have my hearing date coming up December 7th I pray this is my last and its with a positive turn out. I cant take much more of this rejection and turn downs. I have a appointment for a breast reduction on Thurs. the 24th how about that, Didnt have any trouble getting this it was all wrapped up in 30 days. But I cant get the surgery to save my life, the Plastic surgeon has not ask for dime yet and the recpetionist said with my pay scale it should be totally free unless there are meds givin but I pay only 3.00 for those. Now anyone out there who may have some advice or legal advice to which direction I turn from here would be appriciated. Because I do intend on taking this as far as I can go with it They have made me suffer long enough. My GYN and PCP want me to go off the megastrol and to go on prveria and im scared to death the bleeding and pain will be worse than ever, but I promised after this surgery Id change over what else can I do? Im schuled to see a diabetic counslor next week and then PcP and surgery will come home on Thanksgiving Day guess Ill miss the meal this year. Brings new meaning to Thanksgiving ha ha ha. Well until I have more news take care and be healthy.
12/23/04 Boy long time no post huh! Lot going on with the holidays and things, really Ive been under the weather and then with Dec. 1st having my breast reduction surgery after a few delays, but its done and over with went well but boy Ill tell you I was one shocked puppy when I woke up from recovery. They took these huge hooters of mine Ive had all my life and shrunk them to barley none. I dont even know the cup size yet lets just say It has been a great pleasure when I go out not putting on a harness lol! of course couldnt wear anyway not quite healed with the nipple graft. I dont go back until Jan 4th to have stitches removed Ill be so glad when there gone there more aggravaiting that the soreness. It really went well nothing like I expected of course I had gotten alot of others oppinions and it was nothing like any of them the pain was barable and as long as I kept the pain killers going on time was no problem. The main pain was sleeping in a chair, I cant lay on my back and the sides were to sore to lye on so I had no chioce but to sit. Oh well it will all be a meomry soon, and hoping the next trip will be back to the hospital for the WLS. I had my hearing on the 7th of Dec. It seemed to go better than the first one the judge I had was his first case (I was) and of course I couldnt wear clothes so I went in my gown and shorts under lol and they knew I had just gotten out of the hospital a few days prior. So as soon as I here the results of the hearing I will post I just pray this will be my year, My old body has about give up on me and dont know how much more it will take, I know the breathing is worse I went with my mom to my aunts and she smokes we were there maybe 45 mins. and when I left i couldnt breath my eve, has been puffing on my inhaler, which they say arent doing me any good, so what do you do. Hope all have a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!!! Peace and love.....
1/29/05 51 days and still waiting for my answer keep praying
I found this and thought it was interesting read and you decide:
1.Bananas: Containing three natural sugars - sucrose, fructose and glucose combined with fiber, a banana gives an instant, sustained and substantial boost of energy.
2.Research has proven that just two bananas provide enough energy for a strenuous 90-minute workout. No wonder the banana is the number one fruit with the world's leading athletes.
But energy isn't the only way a banana can help us keep fit. It can also help overcome or prevent a substantial number of illnesses and conditions, making it a must to add to our daily diet.
3.Depression: According to a recent survey undertaken by MIND amongst people suffering from depression, many felt much better after eating a banana. This is because bananas contain tryptophan, a type of protein that the body converts into serotonin, known to make you relax, improve your mood and generally make you feel happier.
4.PMS: Forget the pills -- eat a banana. The vitamin B6 it contains regulates blood glucose levels, which can affect your mood.
5.Anemia: High in iron, bananas can stimulate the production of hemoglobin in the blood and so helps in cases of anemia.
6.Blood Pressure: This unique tropical fruit is extremely high in potassium yet low in salt, making it the perfect way to beat blood pressure. So much so, the US Food and Drug Administration has just allowed the banana industry to make official claims for the fruit's ability to reduce the risk of blood pressure and stroke.
7.Brain Power: 200 students at a Twickenham (Middlesex) school were helped through their exams this year by eating bananas at breakfast, break, and lunch in a bid to boost their brain power. Research has shown that the potassium-packed fruit can assist learning by making pupils more alert.
8.Constipation: High in fiber, including bananas in the diet can help restore normal bowel action, helping to overcome the problem without resorting to laxatives.
9.Hangovers: One of the quickest ways of curing a hangover is to make a banana milkshake, sweetened with honey. The banana calms the stomach and, with the help of the honey, builds up depleted blood sugar levels, while the milk soothes and re-hydrates your system.
10.Heartburn: Bananas have a natural antacid effect in the body, so if you suffer from heartburn, try eating a banana for soothing relief.
11.Morning Sickness: Snacking on bananas between meals helps to keep blood sugar levels up and avoid morning sickness.
12.Mosquito bites: Before reaching for the insect bite cream, try rubbing the affected area with the inside of a banana skin. Many people find it amazingly successful at reducing swelling and irritation.
13.Nerves: Bananas are high in B vitamins that help calm the nervous system.
14.Overweight and at work? Studies at the Institute of Psychology in Austria found pressure at work leads to gorging on comfort food like chocolate and crisps. Looking at 5,000 hospital patients, researchers found the most obese were more likely to be in high-pressure jobs. The report concluded that, to avoid panic-induced food cravings, we need to control our blood sugar levels by snacking on high carbohydrate foods every two hours to keep levels steady.
15.Ulcers: The banana is used as the dietary food against intestinal disorders because of its soft texture and smoothness. It is the only raw fruit that can be eaten without distress in over-chronicler cases. It also neutralizes over-acidity and reduces irritation by coating the lining of the stomach.
16.Temperature control: Many other cultures see bananas as a "cooling" fruit that can lower both the physical and emotional temperature of expectant mothers. In Thailand, for example, pregnant women eat bananas to ensure their baby is born with a cool temperature
17.Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD): Bananas can help SAD sufferers because they contain the natural mood enhancer tryptophan
18.Smoking: Bananas can also help people trying to give up smoking. The B6, B12 they contain, as well as the potassium and magnesium found in them, help the body recover from the effects of nicotine withdrawal.
19.Stress: Potassium is a vital mineral, which helps normalize the heartbeat, sends oxygen to the brain and regulates your body's water balance. When we are stressed, our metabolic rate rises, thereby reducing our potassium levels. These can be rebalanced with the help of a high-potassium banana snack.
20.Strokes: According to research in "The New England Journal of Medicine, "eating bananas as part of a regular diet can cut the risk of death by strokes by as much
as 40%!
So, a banana really is a natural remedy for many ills. When you compare it to an apple, it has four times the protein, twice the carbohydrates, three times the phosphorus, five times the vitamin A and iron, and twice the other vitamins and minerals. It is also rich in potassium and is one of the best value foods around.
So maybe its time to change that well-known phrase so that we say,
"A banana a day keeps the doctor away!"
2/26/05 There are Angels out there believe it! I want to take this time to thank a very special lady out there. Tristan J. from Virginia is a true angel. I came here a few weeks ago about the diabetic testing strips being so high, that I being unemployeed with no insurance could not test because I just couldnt afford these strips. I had alot of very nice responses and emailes from all of you out there, but she poped up one day and said she had tons of stuff she never used because she had gotten her levels where they needed to be wwould I like to have this stuff. She ask for my address and that was the last Ive heard. Until this morning I went out and on my porch was a package and I said whats this I wasnt expecting anything (just because Ive had people say they would do this or that and never here from them again) so I hadnt even thought about the email. Went in and got me a cup of coffee sat down an opened this box and lo-an behold here was this box full and I mean FULL of lancets and strips and a new tester! I just cried and thanked God and Tristan for caring enough to be sure I could test and be safe. Thank You so much Tristan I cant begin to tell you how much this means to me and you are a true ANGEL
Too bad there arent many more out there like you ! HUGS>...
3/20/05 WOOOOOOOOOOOOOHOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!! Im having a party lol just kidding. I got my letter late Friday of approval SSI yea . I cant believe it. I t has been so long waiting and now I pray to get the ball moving to get in there and have my life changed for the best! Please if you read this and have a list of things I should be buying a head of tme let me know ok thatnks The more I can get now means the less pooh bear dosent have to worry with.Im so so happy I just have to find out about this medicaid and when it goes into effect. Thank you all for your prayers and emails of support.God Bless you all.....
4/15/05 hey there been a little since Ive posted, update is SS called today said Id recieve my first check May 1, o5 then they would be releasing back pay, (need to call attorney) since they are appealing 13 more months of back pay do I pay them now or wait? Application for Medicaid has been filled and sent lady said it could take up to 45 days but she didnt think it would I pray not lol, as soon as I get that confirmed then Im off to see the surgeon and hope to get a date soon, keep me in your prayers I know it seems like Im always asking for prayer but with out you guys I would have never made it this far, I would have quit a long time ago. But I was determined my time would come. next year this time I hope to be planning a cruise some where and enjoying the rest of my life healthy. HUGS............
May 10,05 WhooooooooooooooooooooooHoooooooooooooooooooo Ive been approved by Medicaid finally I got the letter today, now to call and see what I do next. Thanks to all who have been with me during this journey and for all your prayers. God Bless.....
5/12/05 Hello gang, hope all are well and loosing those pounds! I recieved My Medicaid card today woooooowhoooo and went by the PCP's to give them the information and they will call me on Monday with a date to see the surgeon. They had already shut down things for today so I said Ive wait this long another few days wouldnt make much difference. So I hope to have that date by Monday and get this Journay on its way.thanks to all who have emailed and left your kind words and prayers they have all brought me here today where I am because with out some of your emails i would have given up months and months ago, its been hard but Ive made it! Thanks again and big hugs to all. By the way Im gonna be needing an angel soon.
5/18/05 The phone call came today for the appointment date to see Dr Schirmer July 28,8 am for all day consultation whhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhwhooooooooooooooooo so many months and yrs to go by and now Im on my way to start my journey for the loosing side praise the Lord Im so excited and cant wait. And to all of you who have had a uphill battle just like me weather its Medicaid/disability or an insurance denial DO NOT GIVE UP OR IN TO THESE PEOPLE FIGHT FOR YOUR HEALTH!!!!!!!!!!!!! It will happen. God Bless all of you.............................
August 9, 2005 Sorry been so long in posting been alot of things going on, lost my father in July I ended up in hospital for 2 days and then back in for a week :Hello to all my friends and family, I have been gone in the hospital for over a week, well went in on Sunday, July 30ths 4am and was released yesterday about 3:00. I had been up going to bathroom, returning to bed fell in the kitchen, not know if I had tripped or passed out or how long I was on the floor before gene came an found me, anyway after taking a half hour trying to get this butt up off the floor I was so out of breath the oxygen wearing was doing me nothing. I didn't feel right so ask gene to take me in to the ER and he could go on to work having no clue the severeness of my condition. So we did so he wasted till they got me back and checked out I was some confused and out of but they told him if i worsened the would call, he had no choice they were short handed and had a situation at one of the parks he had to attend to so i figured he just go on to work and deal with it instead of sitting and getting on my nerves. i was there maybe 30 mins. and my mother and brother showed up so i had them with me. well they worked back and forth all morning and day with my breathing doing tests doing blood work all day, I was still in the ER at 4:00 when Gene came back in I think it was 8:00 before I was sent to Micicu which is a level of ICU my body has been retaining carbondeoxcide for over 2 years since i was diagnosed with sleep apnea, and was unable to get a cpap machine, which i had just gotten little over 3 weeks ago, I hadnt started to use right away wasn't thrilled to be hooked up to all that mess, but by not using it i almost died, my carbon levels were 3 times the normal levels 144, should be in 40 people with sleep apnea are not able to exhale or in hale in enough to get the poison out and over time my body got used to this and started working on the levels and were shutting down (scarey huh?) When the respiratory therapist told me i was a smidgen close to death or a trac i was scared,he did all he could to keep from giving me a trac, cause i was so young thank God he knew what he was doing. My levels go down when IM up moving around, stay normal when laying or sitting, so have to work on that cpap at least 8 hours a night and any nap time plus oxygen rest of the day. only plus out of this was i lost 29 pounds of fluid i cant see it but that's what the scales said. keep me in your prayers because my only hope of change is weightloss and quickly. I did meet with DR Schimer on July 28th and he says IM a great candidate and they were going to help me and now all this i just hope its sooner then later.
9/27/05 Well finally heard my medicaid approval and now I have my pre-op date for Oct. 27, 05 yea and now I hope to get surgery before thend of the year!
10/27/05 well today was my Post-op day, 9:00am sonogram on the Gallbladder turned out OK no stones, 11:15 Blood Gas excellent oxygen levels wonderful, cpap doing the job yipiskipi, 11:30 Dr Schirmer he say when do you wanna have your surgery I said when you can get me in, he said how about Monday 10/31/05 I said heck why not, Ive waited 4 years why would I say no. So my journey is on the road starting Monday I cant believe it. Awsome................
10/29/05 Well today was the fleet start and it was nasty ewww,so we will see what happens from here. Wish me luck.
10/31/05 Well off to the hospital this morning have to be there @ 9am we got there 8:45, place was packed, I mean standing room only. Well they took me in to check my blood sugars and we discussed w/ them about a private room, which with my boyfriends help we were able to get one. Well they tell you when you arrive you may wait for a few hours, but they waisted no time for me at 10:15 they were calling me up already, I was shocked. No not nervous, I wanted this change for my life so much, I was ready. Now Gene on the other hand he was a mess walking the floors, when they came in to hook up Iv's and things do the blood and tell me the risks I thought he was gonna flip out he was trying to stay positive and yet they were talking the negatives, just to prepare me. Which I was aware of them all. Well I was up there about 45 mins. seen an spoke to Dr Schirmer and he had just finished up his first surgery and I was #2 Well they took me back wanna say sometime 11:00ish got in the Operating room moved over to the table they got me confortable and we were having a conversation, the next I was awake in Recovery@ 5:00 The surgery started lap. and ended open they had problems finding my stomach at first and then after they got things going there was a question on the saftey so he decided to open. I got to my room about 9:00 and of course it was nurses blood pressures vitals etc, all evening.Well the night went ok pain was eww well so so Im not gonna sugar coat it. The leak test next morning pain was unbarable for a while, they expect someone who was sliced open to get up on this high table an lay on ur back flat which was painful as heck. Once wasnt enough twice either so the third finally they got it right. Stay was four days and home, Staples were removed a week later and now un the healing side 3 weeks out.
12/19/05 Well here's another update, was just released from hospital on Sat. went for a check up on Thurs. Dr Schirmer put my butt in there for dehydration, and Malnutrition. Now I have a feeding tube because I havent been able to hold anything down in my pouch. So this will go on for a few weeks to get my system built back up, and then maybe Ill be able to eat food food and keep it down. One plus is I dont have to take my diabetic meds. he said hold off my levels were good while in hospital w/ no meds. So thats a plus now if they stay down. I want to thank all of those who have prayed and sent messages to me during my illness it means alot to know you have friends out tehre who care. Hugss
1/6/06 Hello to all another update, seen Dr yesterday and Ill have this tube in another 6 weeks, the did blood he said I looked good but we will see after test come back, As of yesterday down 84 pounds since surgery an 108 pounds since post op Im thrilled but have a long way to go. I did have lasangana last eve for dinner not alot but it was good, an I had no problems yeaaaaa. Im trying little each day to eat something its hard. But I want this tube out soon, its a nousence. Ill tell you one thing if your looking into this surgery Dr Schirmer and his team are the greatest He is such a sweet man and very concerned about each patient and Anna Miller shes a trip she will do whatever it takes to make you comfortable an happy, and Mary she is behind the schene but she is a doll she has always been so very nice and concerned about me always ask how Im doing and will chat w/ me in length love her. So dont pass UVA up because you have heard stories this team is great.
2/10/06 Hello to all Ive finally lost that first 100 pounds boy was I excited yesterday when they told me that at my Dr's visit. Also got rid of that nasting feeding tube, that was a wonderful thing as well Im trying to do the 3 meals a day though it can be hard some days.
But we must do as we need to. So those of you who are having problems dont give up keep fighting! Cant wait to see all next sat. Feb 18th 12 noon for our lunch get together it will be awsome to meet so many people. Well just wanted to update Im doing alot better thanks to all my friends here who have prayed and supported me during these last few months.
2/20/06 Hello to everyone and I wanna Thank everyone who came to our Charlottesville Meet & Greet Lois,Renea & B/f,Stacey, Shannon& hubby,Donna,Jill & hubby, Elizabeth and wife, Nicole and hubby, Kitty kat(sorry forgot your name) TinkerBell, Joann, Holly, Lisa, Norma Jean, Yvette,Judy & hubby,Betsy,Dave & wife an boys, Dianna,Tammy George and hubby, I think I have you all if I missed anyone Im sorry but it was wonderful to meet you all I had a grand time and cant wait to do it again. Thank you all for making such a great event.
This is the man who saved my life 10/31/05 Bruce D. Schirmer, M.D and his wonderful nurse Anna Miller who I absolutely adore!
3/27/06 Hello everyone been a little while since Ive posted alot going on. First let me thank all you girls for coming to the 2nd Charlottesville Meet & Greet @ Elray's on sat. I think we all had a grand time and with the 12 of us there we had a total weightloss of 1218 pounds AWSOME!!!!! Stacey Anderson 130, Norma J Rogers 104, Cathy Patterson 30, Donna Howard 102, Melinda Gregory 122, Renea Ghioto 87, Shannon Chittum 106, Betsy Guill 62, Joann Tigert 128, Holly DeCarlo 90, Lisa Cooper 257. Wow some big numbers everyone looks great. Thanks again. Well as of today Im down 125 pounds since 10/31/05 and I feel so much better and cant wait to get the rest off things have been really looking up for me since this surgery. Lord know this time last year I was miserable. But thanks to the good Lord above and Dr Schirmer here I am today moving forward in my journey. I hope my story will be an inspiration to those out there still trying and struggeling, dont give up, because what you deserve you will get, it just takes time sometimes. Hugs until the next time......
5/11/06 Well went yesterday for the 6 month check up, Dr Schirmer was pleased with where I am 137 pounds lost so far @ 272 wow what a difference from last year this time. He is concerned about the protein intake Im not able to get in the 80+ grams a day.My hair is falling out in clumps but this is an issue Ill deal with. So prepare yourselves for that protein before surgery, I just cant stomach the taste very sencitive gage reflex so Im very careful in what I eat. But Im thankful to have lost what I have I dont go back to see him until my 1 yr annv. which is Oct.
6/1/06 Well been a little since updated, not alot to talk about Ive been on a stall now for 5 weeks not loosing been very discouraged, but alot going on been under stress. My son turned 18 two days ago we have graduation on the 9th I have another sleep study on the 16th an the GYN on the 30th lord knows where that will go. Kinda worried but Ill deal w/ it as it falls. More concerned about the weight not coming off. So all who are prepairing for surgerys plan your protein find the right one for you an stick w/ it. And the imporatance of this take it serious. Well this Sat the 3rd we are having another meet & greet here in Charlottesville, hope to see alot of people, this will be the last one Ill do until fall I think just kinda hard getting everyone together w/ vacations and sort going on so if we dont see you this weekend look for a fall date.
I must say though the weight has stopped I feel alot better this year than I did last year.
The gang at Elrays here in Charlottesville Meet & Greet- Jennifer, Cathy Shannon Lisa Norma Kathy Melinda & Jordan.
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I have been researching the Gastric Bypass for going on 3 years now and IM still fighting for this surgery. I know at this point in my life, this is the only tool to help me get started on a new healthier life for me. I have been unemployed for 3 years now and have had no luck of finding a job to suit my conditions. I suffer from severe back, neck, knees and joint pain daily. I also have a thyroid disorder
.carpal tunnel, severe depression that I have been treated now over 3 years for. Restrictive lung disease, meaning I can’t breathe well after 10-20 steps just getting around the house a leaves me breathless. Cant shop anymore don’t do house work, cant sit for long periods of time nor can I stand long without leaning on something. Mild obstructive apnea, and limb movement disorder. I’ve been to DR’s and now in therapy have been trying to get disability /Medicaid for some time now denied every time. I have to depend on people for everything and I don’t think I need to go into details. I also stay close to home because I cant get around like others and being Morbid obese and then not moving like I should I don’t want to deal with those stares and finger pointers. So I stay here to avoid. I have met so very many great people on this obesityhelp.com sight now I feel I have people who can relate to me and my problems. Unlike people who are not obese. IM still fighting as we speak to get the tool to make my life a better life. You will find letters written or information I have revived during my research, feel free to read and ask me any questions, you will if you email me I have other sights that may help you find information your looking for so please just ask.
I have also got an attorney helping with my appeals. And now I have the University involved as well helping me with the Medicaid issues and I have written to Virgil Goode and to Govonor Warner, along with the President. Media will be next on my schedule.
Hello to all the AMOS family, Hope all are doing well and getting those pounds off, and to those headed into there surgeries, best of luck to you all! Well I have more news to add to my profile thought you guys might like to here that I may have some positive fibs going on here in Virginia. As you all know if you have followed my story the past few years that I haven’t had a lot of luck getting my turn with the loosing side, so I got mad one day and sat down and have been writing to everyone and anyone who would here me.
I was seen by a DR here in Charlottesville August of last year and was told I was a great candidate fort he gastric bypass and all but until I had some type of insurance coverage they couldn’t help me at this time. Which then I knew I was going to be booted and. I was down and I still have been fighting. So one day resent I was speaking with a lady close by, who had just had her surgery and all and we were just having a casual conversation. And she said well Melinda why don’t you go above and beyond this DR who which was her surgeon as well and she was very pleased with him and his work.
So I thought about it and one eve. I was sitting here thinking and wondering whom to contact. So I got on the computer and started looking for the president of UVA and of course I didn’t find but I found the vice president and CEO. So I started emailing. Within a week I had been contacted and told they were going to investigate this issue. I told them I felt it unfair that I lived 20 min. from one of the top 100 hospitals in America and was 100% covered threw there facility with financial assistance for treatment but was unable to have the Gastric bypass? I wanted to know why and how they could help me and consider me as a patient. They said I would receive a call from one of their representative in a few days. I was thinking OK sure this was there way of blowing me off.
Guess what? They called me yesterday and he was very nice and positive, he said he wished I had came this route 2 years ago that they have a program there where they can help patients to receive Medicaid when they cant get it on there own. So he’s looking into it for me but because I have an attorney involved they had to check guidelines. But I spoke with my attorney and he said let them try maybe they will get further than we have since they have the inside scoop. So now I just wait to here back from him to see what’s next. I ask what my chances were he said he felt positive but if not they would try another route.
In other wards they had steps to go threw before they could do procedures so when they were audited they had themselves covered. IM praying and I hope you all will join me in those prayers and Ill keep you updated. Sorry long posts. Hugs…..
10/13/03 I was not aloud to put this on the board said it was inflammatory: I just wanted your feelings as to if I had covered basis oh well here it is.
Do you have any idea what it’s like to suffer from Morbid Obesity? There are thousands of us out there, and we are looked down on and discriminated against everyday. People point, make jokes, rude remarks stares. And they get away with it, why? I feel that we are all God’s creatures, so who gives these people the right to whisper about us and do the things they do? How many people do you see pointing at that skinny person or short or tall, we are all different and we all have our own personalities.
I know myself along with many here we have been fighting a very long time to get help for our disease! Something we need to get the society to realize we are not fat because we choose this life, we are the way we are because of a DISEASE. A disease that is like a drug addict and alcoholism something that is treated with insurance company’s all over, Along with Heart Disease, High Cholesterol, Sugar Diabetes, AIDS now unless you’re a child or for some reason had a bad blood transfusion THAT’S A CHOICE! So why is Morbid Obesity set aside as being a CHOICE?
We have Breast cancer awareness month, we have AIDS charity auctions we have a way of donating money to every disease out there Except for Morbid Obesity. WHY? IM not downing any of the other charities or causes because they are very serious health issues, BUT so is 300,000 Americans a year dying of Morbid Obesity or complications stemming to the disease. So why are we swept under the carpets?
Well IM not sure about the rest of you but IM sure I can speak for the majority this isn’t my CHOICE! I would love to be 135 pounds and healthy and enjoying life. Unlike some that say we all make a choice IM sure we don’t choose to be dependent upon others to take care of our daily needs and wants, come on lets be realistic here. Do they even have a clue the embarrassments we go through? The double lives we lead?
IM not sure about the rest, but the ones I have spoken with have similar problems like myself. The chair not being big enough, being so tight you would have to be 90 pounds to get into them, flying is also a hassle for some, making the obese purchase 2 seats to fly. Now my opinion on the flying this is cheating, you don’t charge for 2 seats for a very tall person do you? No! You go into some of the bathroom stalls, there so small you can’t turn around in them big or little. Movie theaters, same with there seats, the list could go on and on, but I think you get the idea.
Look at the obese person, as if that was your mother, brother, sister father etc. Think to yourself hum wonder what they go threw? Do they have help bathing? Can they dress alone? Are they able to do their personal hygiene alone? How do they clean their homes? Do there shopping? Ask yourself how would you feel if you were in their shoes? If you had a close relative with this problem and you knew it wasn’t a choice, how would you feel? How would you act if someone said to your mother, you made the CHOICE to be FAT! You would be angry. I know for a fact, most people have no clue on the lives of an obese person. The suffering they go threw the pain the medical denials, fingers pointing, sneers, stares etc.
I know first hand, I watched my grandmother a morbid obese person for many years. Who was very active in her early life raised 3 children and cooked, cleaned, canned did a huge gardens, but later became plagued with arthritis, and gout real bad along with rheumatism and a few other medical problems. I watched her last 20 years of her life be chair and bed bound only moving when she had help and assistance. She lived in so much pain and she had so much courage, she is gone now to a better place and I know she no longer suffers. And I miss her lots.
And I can tell you she didn’t make the choice of her condition of her last years. She missed out on a lot of outings and church, something she never missed. She had to be humble to those who cared for her because things that we ALL take for granted was difficult for her to do and then she was unable to do any of then in the end. These things consist of cooking for herself, cleaning, personal needs bathing, she depended solely on her husband as well as her care givers. She would become agitated at times when unable to do simple things, but she never was cross, she always had faith in the Lord, to see her threw.
I too know the suffering she went threw and only us who are morbidly obese can relate to each other but this is because there are so many myths out there about us. People believe what they want. They make there own assumptions on how we should live and be treated. And that if we just stopped eating we would loose weight. This is the biggest untruth out there. I have been on every diet you and imagine, tried the exercise route. Now that IM unable to do a lot of exercise it has worsened. I pray every night for the opportunity to loose this weight as so I can go forward with my life and enjoy what I have left.
I have written letters to our congressmen, to the President. Vice President, Governor, and University’s.
Whoever will listen, and If I need to Ill go to the media next.
I know with my BMI is associated with a “Early Death”. The way to reduce this BMI, (Body Mass Index), is to LOSE a substantial amount of weight. I am a morbid obese individual with functional impairments, daily activities, sleep problems, recreational, work, social interactions, physical limitations, personal hygiene alone are impossible.
I am also @ a 190% increase of death @ my present weight and that scares me. Obesity is the 2nd leading cause of death now and 65% of Americans are over weight. Morbid Obesity is a DISEASE! Unlike what the majority of the public want to believe. These people who don’t believe in this need to pull out there dictionary’s because it will tell you Quote” Morbid is- diseased or abnormal” this came from a medical dictionary, but it also has the same definition in the Webster check it out.
I have been seen and told that I am an appropriate candidate for weight reduction surgery. But I haven’t been able to obtain due to no insurance. Seriously obese people like myself suffer the inability to qualify for many types of employment, and discrimination in employment opportunities as well. We tend to have higher rates of unemployment and lower socioeconomic status. Many severely obese people like myself find it preferable to avoid social interactions or public places, choosing to limit their own freedom, rather than suffer embarrassment.
Just a few Facts: [1] A morbidly obese person has two- to twelve – times increases relative risk of dying over a non-obese person. [2] Severely overweight people are four or more times more likely to die of heart disease, and two or more times more likely to die of cancer. [3] 97% of all medical management of obesity using diet and exercise fail. [4] 92% of all gastric bypass surgeries succeed in producing long- term weight loss.
Surgery is NOT a quick fix, we believe in the treatment of obesity with a holistic team approach, which include significant patient education and preparation before and after surgery. Surgery alone IS NOT the answer to solving a significant weight problem. Successful treatment involves working with a team of healthcare professionals who can give you proper guidance in diet, exercise, and mental and emotional support for your new lifestyle.
Some 300,000 Americans die a year from illnesses caused or worsened by obesity. And it doesn’t have to be this way. Society needs to be more educated on this disease and the tools out there to help people like ourselves to reach goal weights and stay there with proper diets and exercise. This is a serious medical issue. And we as Americans need to get the education out there and to let the public see we are not going to be quiet about this and we are not going to take this sitting down.
I myself like I said in the beginning of who I have written to and contacted. And I continue to write and make noise until IM heard. IM tired of the discrimination worldwide. Hope you all will join my fight and speak up and be heard in your state and county’s cites do what you have to do to be heard. Remember we have rights too and we should have the right to voice and make changes in these laws and in order to do this we have to be a TEAM.
Life is to short for some of us, to short to sit back and let others make the decisions that its our choice to be the way we are. Because unless they have walked in my shoes and walked the walk don’t pass judgment on the others, or me with this DISEASE! That’s right I said DISEASE one that kills everyday just like
the others. So I feel that if there going to be treatable and covered under insurance company’s then so should the Morbid Obese person, and the policy’s need to be more reasonable so those who are able to obtain insurance they can afford the monthly premiums. Those of us with disability’s need the opportunity to obtain some type of funding as so we can return to the working society, as it stands now you better have someone who cares about you very much or you will starve an die. When I became unemployed I lost everything and if it weren’t for a wonderful person Id be dead today. But it’s unfair to them to have to worry about my financial and medical problems.
I also think the rules, guidelines what ever it is they call it for the SSI/Disability need to be looked at and changed. Just because they get a report saying one thing doesn’t mean these people aren’t disabled in some ways. Ways, that are not determined during there little exams. Anyone unless you are quadriplegia can do there little procedures and I think that it is unfair to the public as well as discriminative to all of us to say oh they can move this and that there OK they can do some type of work. They have never seen us all they go by are the words written on a paper from someone who has never seen me and in 15 minutes. Determine IM OK.
Just because I can left an arm or leg and stand on one foot, how does this determine IM NOT Disabled?
My disabilities are severe pain, numbness in legs and hands, neck back and knee pain so severe I can’t even get out of the bed. I have mild obstructive sleep apnea, I have a restrictive lung disease and the weight cause more problems, Thyroid disorder, depression and more private problems that aren’t even discussed during an exam. I ask what does a person who has functional limitations problems whatever they may be how do you work a public job 40 hours a week? Is the employer going to supply an aide to help with these impairments?
Nobody has a clue of the anxiety I have when I have to go into the public, and worry about some of my issues and how would I react. How can I do these things alone. Nobody has a clue what I go threw except me and I feel it is unfair to be brushed under the rug, because I can sit and stand and lift an arm or leg.
IM asking you to find a way to help change these Laws and regulation’s for the state of Virginia people.
Sincerely,
Melinda Gregory
10/15/03 Well I got that 3 way call this morning, not sure how to take it but Ill just have to wait, they will be back with me on Friday. Said they would do what they could to make me happy, but couldnt make any promises.
Said he was going to talk with the surgeon and with the Dept. Of Rehab. Not sure why but I guess they know what there doing.So when I know Ill post as so you can follow.
10/16/03 Hello yall I got another call from the gentleman from UVA he was just updating me that he had contacted the Dept. Of Rehab, where I had had a fair hearing at. and if he isnt satisfied with there answers then hewas going to call Richmond. Not sure just what he is running with here but Im leaving it to them they know what to do : ) keep praying for me hugs...
1/8/04 Well another year another denial, yes got it today denied saying now I have no lung disease no reason why I cant work cause I can breath fine. Ha they make me sick if I could breath like they think Id be working If I could take care of myself like they think I can Id be working. They pass there judgements dont know me have no clue how I suffer. We 3 denials and 3 yrs, what a track record. I dont know where it goes from here not sure if Im even ready to go at it again another year.
1/24/04 Well here it another Sat. month of January almost gone, and I still cant get anyone to listen to me. Im awaiting a call from the UVA guy who wishes me to speak to an attorney friend of his here locally. I dont feel the attorneys I have now are doing me justice, just alot of paper work being shuffled here and there. So Im undecicded as to what I will do with them. And a few great friends Ive met online are working with prepairing me letters and to have a talk with my PCP, as well as a few others, I go Monday to PCP and I hope and pray I can make her understand the pain Im suffering and that she has to be a little stronger in the letters she writes for me from here on out or Im gonna replace her as well. Somebody has to see the problems I have, hell I couldnt stay on the treadmill the other week for 2 mins.? OK hello people can you read this? lol I walk from room to romm and Im gasping for breath???? Is this NORMAL NO I dont think so. Its crazy for me to have to continue to suffer like this, an inhaler twice a day thats a joke, and futher more dosent help me in the least. Please keep me in your prayers and dont give up on me, because I dont wanna give up on me. Thanks for all who have been there for me it means alot. Hugs
2/9/04 Well I had my check up with PCP today and I was told by a few people when I went to tell her she needed to help me more, she needed to stress the inportance of this surgery and my life. Well she is going to type a letter of Medical Necessity and have ready for me by Thursday. So I hope this means my turn is near? Hugs to you all and to those who have kicked me in the butt and got me moving again, Susie and Sherri thanks you guys rock!
2/24/04 Well here I sit still waitng to here from this person or that persone, cant get anyone to return calls and nobody is ever in there offices anymore. So frustrating. I swear its been the longest few years of my life. I now have the letter from the Dr and still cant get any where. I cant believe the more I read on the sight the people who are losing there lives because of these waits WHY? The tool is there for us why cant they get this threw there thick heads. Its like oh well lets dangle a big steak in front of a bear an see what happens yet we arent bears so we just sit miserable and prisoners in our own homes and bodys. Everyday that goes by is another day off my life and Im really getting tired of all the run around and blow offs. There has to be an easier way.
2/28/04 Hello all hope are doing well. I know there are a few of you out there Like Suzie getting ready for that big day here in a few weeks! Yippee you go girl. And April she should be home recovery best wishes to you girl for a speedy recovery. Sherrie I know your just waisting the fund approval you will be next. I got that dreaded phone call yesterday from my last sleep study test. I have sleep apnea and they have put in for the C-PAP machine yea Im so excited to have to wear this dang thing. But I have to keep faith that after the surgery and weight loss I can get rid of it. I have a appointment Wed. w/ another attorney to get a second oppinion, he seemed very nice and concerned on how I had been treated from the other attorneys. I even emailed the top dog at the attorneys office Im dealing w/ now to voice my concerns and disappointments a week ago he has never responded. Go fiqure. Well just wantet update and let you know Im still here and waiting. And hanks Susie for a great profile page!! hugs.
3/17/04 Well hello everyone been a while since Ive been in here, so let me update a little. I went to speak with the other attorney and they will take my case if the appeals court denys me again. Its there now at the appeals court so they didnt wanna go messing around with it till the make there decission.
Things have been busy we are having a roof put on so its been kinda noisy between the roofers and the dog barking every 5 mins. My brothers wedding coming up in June was doing flowers for them. And now there sending me to a ear nose and throat spealist for the feelings I have in my head, lol said wasnt in my head, thats a matter of oppinon, friend Susie is going in Friday @ 1:00 for the start of her new life and journey, God Bless her and hurry back with a speedy recovery.Until next time Hugs....
5/2/04 hello to all hope everyone doing well. Been a little while since Ive posted so doing an update today.As you see Im still alive lol barley my breathing as worsend over the last few weeks and now they have me w/ a inhaler Albuterol, along w/ adivair. I had my Functional Capsity Exam Sat. morning didnt go to bad was very tiring and there are like 24 different test I was only aloud to do 15 I think it was, the others were to dangerous for me she said. She said my numbers looked good and I would have the report in 10 days. So now all is left to get it sent up to the counsel and pray. Ive gain 30 pounds by there scales but hell who knows Ive been given so many different weights, I have no clue. Wedding is getting closer so much to do I have no clue how Ill be of alot of help. Well hope to update soon with the results and good news thanks to all you for your prayers and support until next time hugs.....
5/10/04
Discoveries Show How Obesity Kills
By DANIEL Q. HANEY, AP
(May 11) - Research into the biology of fat is turning up some surprising new insights about how obesity kills. The weight of the evidence: It's the toxic mischief of the flesh itself.
Experts have realized for decades that large people die young, and the explanation long seemed obvious. Carrying around all those extra pounds must put a deadly strain on the heart and other organs.
Obvious but wrong, it turns out. While the physical burden contributes to arthritis and sleep apnea, among other things, it is a minor hazard compared to the complex and insidious damage wrought by the oily, yellowish globs of fat that cover human bodies like never before.
A series of recent discoveries suggests that all fat-storage cells churn out a stew of hormones and other chemical messengers that fine-tune the body's energy balance. But when spewed in vast amounts by cells swollen to capacity with fat, they assault many organs in ways that are bad for health.
The exact details are still being worked out, but scientists say there is no doubt this flux of biological crosstalk hastens death from heart disease, strokes, diabetes and cancer, diseases that are especially common among the obese.
''When we look at fat tissue now, we see it's not just a passive depot of fat,'' says Dr. Rudolph Leibel of Columbia University. ''It's an active manufacturer of signals to other parts of the body.''
The first real inkling that fat is more than just inert blubber was the discovery 10 years ago of the substance leptin. Scientists were amazed to find that this static-looking flesh helps maintain itself by producing a chemical that regulates appetite.
Roughly 25 different signaling compounds - with names like resistin and adiponectin - are now known to be made by fat cells, Leibel estimates, and many more undoubtedly will be found.
''There is an explosion of information about just what it is and what it does,'' Dr. Allen Spiegel, director of the National Institute of Diabetes and Digestive and Kidney Diseases, says of fat. ''It is a tremendously dynamic organ.''
Fat tissue is now recognized to be the body's biggest endocrine organ, and its sheer volume is impressive even in normal-size people. A trim woman is typically 30 percent fat, a man 15 percent. That is enough fuel to keep someone alive without eating for three months.
The fat cell's main job is to store our excess calories as fat. When people grow obese, their fat cells swell with fat and can plump up to three times normal size. As very overweight people get fatter still, they may also layer on many more fat cells.
The problem is the volume of chemicals these oversize cells churn out, says Dr. George Bray of Louisiana State University. ''The big cell secretes more of everything that it secreted when it was small. When you get more of these things, they are not good for you.''
Many scientists are trying to learn exactly what these excess secretions do that is so harmful. The answers will help explain - and perhaps offer solutions to - the real tragedy of the obesity epidemic, its disastrous effect on health.
Obesity is a huge and growing killer, in the United States just slightly behind smoking. Moderately obese people live two to five years less than normal-size folks. For the severely obese, the reduction in life span may be five to 10 years.
By far the biggest single threat of obesity is heart disease. Someone with a body mass index over 30 has triple the usual risk. Scientists can visualize many ways that fat cells' chemical flood contributes to heart attacks, heart failure and cardiac arrest.
For instance, it has long been known that weight increases blood pressure Once doctors thought this was a matter of physics, the force needed to push blood through the many more yards of blood vessels that nourish the extra flesh.
But now it is clear that fat can trigger high blood pressure" blood pressure making blood vessels narrow in several chemical ways. For instance, it produces a substance called angiotensinogen that is a powerful constrictor. At the same time, it stimulates the sympathetic nerves to squeeze the circulatory system. And that may just be the beginning.
''It's a very complicated system, and the more we learn about it, the more complicated it becomes,'' says Dr. Xavier Pi-Sunyer, head of obesity research at St. Luke's Roosevelt Hospital Center in New York City.
One of the clearest hazards of overfilled fat cells is their influence on the body's production and use of insulin, the hormone that instructs the muscle to burn energy and the fat cells to store it. Oversize fat cells blunt the insulin message, in part by leaking fat into the bloodstream. So the liver must compensate by making more insulin and other proteins.
Scientists now understand that increasing insulin levels - part of a condition called insulin resistance - are particularly harmful. They can directly damage the walls of arteries and lead to clogging.
That leaking fat may also infiltrate the heart muscle, contributing to congestive heart failure. Misplaced deposits of fat can also ruin the liver and have become the second-leading reason for liver transplants after hepatitis B.
Fat cells churn out a variety of proteins that cause inflammation, too. These may be especially destructive to the gunky buildups in the arteries, causing them to burst and triggering heart attacks and strokes.
These inflammatory proteins and other fat-driven chemicals, such as growth hormones may also contribute to one of the less appreciated consequences of obesity - cancer.
''There is now conclusive evidence that obesity causes some cancers and strong evidence that it contributes to a wide variety of others,'' says Dr. Michael Thun, epidemiology chief at the American Cancer Society.
The cancer society estimates that staying trim could eliminate 90,000 U.S. cancer deaths a year. Among the varieties most clearly linked to weight are cancer of the breast, uterus, colon, kidney, esophagus, pancreas and gallbladder.
The best evidence of how obesity causes malignancy is in breast cancer in older women. When the ovaries shut down after menopause, fat tissue becomes the primary producer of estrogen, which in turn can fuel the growth of breast tumors.
The heavier women are when diagnosed with breast cancer, the more likely they are to die from the disease, says Dr. Michelle Holmes of Boston's Brigham and Women's Hospital. ''Presumably it's because their cancers are dependent on estrogen, and heavier women have more estrogen.''
Still, big ticket killers like heart disease and cancer only start the long list of obesity's health ills. Among other things, obese people are more prone to depression, gallstones, even dying when in car accidents.
Says Dr. Michael Jensen of the Mayo Clinic, ''There are so many ways that obesity can kill you.''
http://obesityresearch.nih.gov/
5/21/04The results of the evaluation indicated I am NOT able to tolerate more than 2-3 minutes of activity at a time. I am severely limited by pain in spine,knees, and hips as well as shortness of breathr , blood pressure, (<20 beats and 20 points respectively) and dizziness. Ms Gregory poorly tolerated most of the tasks that she was able to attempt due to the above factors. She rated atMedium Risk for development of cardiovascular disease on the cardiovascular profile. No test was performed for heart rate recovery due to the client's inability to accomplish it.Ms Gregory rated in the sedentary work catergory according th the US Department of labor classifcation but she is unable to tolerate even 2 hours of an 8 hour day at this level.
6/12/04 Well hello again Amos Family back again for an update another year another denial makes 3rd, Im tired and Im getting real frustated with this system. I cant walk from room to room without gasping for my breath and they say I can work :( Im just sick I dont know which way this will go I know what Id like to do Im so tired of fighting, and struggleing.Im littery dying here and nobody cares. Nobody cares!
8/27/04 Another day another month of put off's and no calls and no answers. I feel my life falling deeper and deeper in depression, nobody has no clue they dont understand me I dont know what to do where to go or how to handle all this stress. We (Sheri that is called Virgil Goode) He wasnt alot of help, we then called Warners office they sent us else where. Sheri also found out some information about one of the people who I was working with @ UVA who I thought was a CEO but he is no more than there legal repersentative and finacal collectors (BILLS) wow was I blown away for a year Ive been talking to these people who have no clue about me and they have just been using me as there damn ball to bounce back and forth. And yes Im angry Im trying to save my life here and they dont give a damn about me. Im hanging guys I dont know where to turn from here, all I can do is pray and hope someone comes to my resque but will it be to late. Any of you out there reading this and are just starting with no job no insurance BE SURE YOU HAVE AN ATTORNEY BACKING YOU! Someone who know what the hell there doing.
9/21/04 Hello guys how are you all doing? better I hope. well im still here a waiting for sometihng, anything, from anybody lol you right they take there sweet time disability/SSI I have been trying a few other avenues, someone offered to pay 12000.00 to UVA to get me in for surgery they turned me down they want 22500.00 gread thats what I call it, then they would make payments towards the rest lol. There real funny one minute the cost is est. @ 42500.00 now dropped to 32500.00 and I know the surgeon dose not get that money maybe 3000.00 and the anisetiologist(SP)? about 1600.00 the 12000.00 would have been plenty you know. But no I was not excepted, so Im still on the post waiting, but I thinaked my friend for the offer. Now this month my new disease is the dreaded DIABETES yep just what I wanted to here, Diabetes, Restrictive Lung Disease, fluid, depression, thyroid disease and dyspena what will be next month? The longer the wait the more problems, in the past 4 years my life has gone to h--- when I quit smoking wow that was it. But I dont discourage stopping smoking everyine should stop. B/F and I were gonna get married next year I was hoping to have at least lost some of the weight but dosent look as if surery will be taken place again another year. What does a person do? Im 40 now and praying everyday that I get a postive answer from some where, cause that man @ UVA sure jerked me around and for what NOTHING......
10/08/04 For your Information: Nail Problems-
.The thumbnail reflects the condition of the brain, excretory system, and the reproductive system.
.The index finger reflects the condition of the liver, gallbladder and nervous system.
.The middle finger reflects the heart and circulatory system.
.The ring finger is also related to reproductive organ function, and to a certain degree, hormone balance.
.The pinkie finger reflects the condition of the digestive system, gastrointestinal tract, including the intestines and colon.
.Black vertical lines or spots on the nails can indicate an ulcer in the body. Usually a digestive or intestinal ulcer, or a kidney ulcer.
.White spots on the nails can indicate a zinc deficiency, and sometimes a hormonal imbalance.
.Spoon shaped nails or nails that are concave in the center and then turn upwards at the tip can indicate anemic and/or vitamin B-12 deficiency.
.If the tips of the nail turn downward, it is indicative of a respiratory problem.
.Vertical ridges on all nails can indicate adrenal weakness, kidney weakness, hormone imbalance, and/or protein deficiency.
If the nails take on a yellow hue, it is usually a problem with digestion.
.White horizontal lines can indicate urine protein and a kidney problem.
If you should see any of these indicators in your fingernails, you should discuss it with your Dr or practitioner. This information is for educational purpose only.
Hope this helps you all... Just seen a few pwople were having some questions about there nails looking an being different. I recomend a manicure at least once a week after you get the problem straightend but in alot of cases the medicine or deficiencys it might not make a difference, but our hands need treatment as well as our feet hair and body.
11/5/04 Well not to much going on since I last posted I have been digonoised with Diabeties, and have started medicine for that. I have my hearing date coming up December 7th I pray this is my last and its with a positive turn out. I cant take much more of this rejection and turn downs. I have a appointment for a breast reduction on Thurs. the 24th how about that, Didnt have any trouble getting this it was all wrapped up in 30 days. But I cant get the surgery to save my life, the Plastic surgeon has not ask for dime yet and the recpetionist said with my pay scale it should be totally free unless there are meds givin but I pay only 3.00 for those. Now anyone out there who may have some advice or legal advice to which direction I turn from here would be appriciated. Because I do intend on taking this as far as I can go with it They have made me suffer long enough. My GYN and PCP want me to go off the megastrol and to go on prveria and im scared to death the bleeding and pain will be worse than ever, but I promised after this surgery Id change over what else can I do? Im schuled to see a diabetic counslor next week and then PcP and surgery will come home on Thanksgiving Day guess Ill miss the meal this year. Brings new meaning to Thanksgiving ha ha ha. Well until I have more news take care and be healthy.
12/23/04 Boy long time no post huh! Lot going on with the holidays and things, really Ive been under the weather and then with Dec. 1st having my breast reduction surgery after a few delays, but its done and over with went well but boy Ill tell you I was one shocked puppy when I woke up from recovery. They took these huge hooters of mine Ive had all my life and shrunk them to barley none. I dont even know the cup size yet lets just say It has been a great pleasure when I go out not putting on a harness lol! of course couldnt wear anyway not quite healed with the nipple graft. I dont go back until Jan 4th to have stitches removed Ill be so glad when there gone there more aggravaiting that the soreness. It really went well nothing like I expected of course I had gotten alot of others oppinions and it was nothing like any of them the pain was barable and as long as I kept the pain killers going on time was no problem. The main pain was sleeping in a chair, I cant lay on my back and the sides were to sore to lye on so I had no chioce but to sit. Oh well it will all be a meomry soon, and hoping the next trip will be back to the hospital for the WLS. I had my hearing on the 7th of Dec. It seemed to go better than the first one the judge I had was his first case (I was) and of course I couldnt wear clothes so I went in my gown and shorts under lol and they knew I had just gotten out of the hospital a few days prior. So as soon as I here the results of the hearing I will post I just pray this will be my year, My old body has about give up on me and dont know how much more it will take, I know the breathing is worse I went with my mom to my aunts and she smokes we were there maybe 45 mins. and when I left i couldnt breath my eve, has been puffing on my inhaler, which they say arent doing me any good, so what do you do. Hope all have a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!!! Peace and love.....
1/29/05 51 days and still waiting for my answer keep praying
I found this and thought it was interesting read and you decide:
1.Bananas: Containing three natural sugars - sucrose, fructose and glucose combined with fiber, a banana gives an instant, sustained and substantial boost of energy.
2.Research has proven that just two bananas provide enough energy for a strenuous 90-minute workout. No wonder the banana is the number one fruit with the world's leading athletes.
But energy isn't the only way a banana can help us keep fit. It can also help overcome or prevent a substantial number of illnesses and conditions, making it a must to add to our daily diet.
3.Depression: According to a recent survey undertaken by MIND amongst people suffering from depression, many felt much better after eating a banana. This is because bananas contain tryptophan, a type of protein that the body converts into serotonin, known to make you relax, improve your mood and generally make you feel happier.
4.PMS: Forget the pills -- eat a banana. The vitamin B6 it contains regulates blood glucose levels, which can affect your mood.
5.Anemia: High in iron, bananas can stimulate the production of hemoglobin in the blood and so helps in cases of anemia.
6.Blood Pressure: This unique tropical fruit is extremely high in potassium yet low in salt, making it the perfect way to beat blood pressure. So much so, the US Food and Drug Administration has just allowed the banana industry to make official claims for the fruit's ability to reduce the risk of blood pressure and stroke.
7.Brain Power: 200 students at a Twickenham (Middlesex) school were helped through their exams this year by eating bananas at breakfast, break, and lunch in a bid to boost their brain power. Research has shown that the potassium-packed fruit can assist learning by making pupils more alert.
8.Constipation: High in fiber, including bananas in the diet can help restore normal bowel action, helping to overcome the problem without resorting to laxatives.
9.Hangovers: One of the quickest ways of curing a hangover is to make a banana milkshake, sweetened with honey. The banana calms the stomach and, with the help of the honey, builds up depleted blood sugar levels, while the milk soothes and re-hydrates your system.
10.Heartburn: Bananas have a natural antacid effect in the body, so if you suffer from heartburn, try eating a banana for soothing relief.
11.Morning Sickness: Snacking on bananas between meals helps to keep blood sugar levels up and avoid morning sickness.
12.Mosquito bites: Before reaching for the insect bite cream, try rubbing the affected area with the inside of a banana skin. Many people find it amazingly successful at reducing swelling and irritation.
13.Nerves: Bananas are high in B vitamins that help calm the nervous system.
14.Overweight and at work? Studies at the Institute of Psychology in Austria found pressure at work leads to gorging on comfort food like chocolate and crisps. Looking at 5,000 hospital patients, researchers found the most obese were more likely to be in high-pressure jobs. The report concluded that, to avoid panic-induced food cravings, we need to control our blood sugar levels by snacking on high carbohydrate foods every two hours to keep levels steady.
15.Ulcers: The banana is used as the dietary food against intestinal disorders because of its soft texture and smoothness. It is the only raw fruit that can be eaten without distress in over-chronicler cases. It also neutralizes over-acidity and reduces irritation by coating the lining of the stomach.
16.Temperature control: Many other cultures see bananas as a "cooling" fruit that can lower both the physical and emotional temperature of expectant mothers. In Thailand, for example, pregnant women eat bananas to ensure their baby is born with a cool temperature
17.Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD): Bananas can help SAD sufferers because they contain the natural mood enhancer tryptophan
18.Smoking: Bananas can also help people trying to give up smoking. The B6, B12 they contain, as well as the potassium and magnesium found in them, help the body recover from the effects of nicotine withdrawal.
19.Stress: Potassium is a vital mineral, which helps normalize the heartbeat, sends oxygen to the brain and regulates your body's water balance. When we are stressed, our metabolic rate rises, thereby reducing our potassium levels. These can be rebalanced with the help of a high-potassium banana snack.
20.Strokes: According to research in "The New England Journal of Medicine, "eating bananas as part of a regular diet can cut the risk of death by strokes by as much
as 40%!
So, a banana really is a natural remedy for many ills. When you compare it to an apple, it has four times the protein, twice the carbohydrates, three times the phosphorus, five times the vitamin A and iron, and twice the other vitamins and minerals. It is also rich in potassium and is one of the best value foods around.
So maybe its time to change that well-known phrase so that we say,
"A banana a day keeps the doctor away!"
2/26/05 There are Angels out there believe it! I want to take this time to thank a very special lady out there. Tristan J. from Virginia is a true angel. I came here a few weeks ago about the diabetic testing strips being so high, that I being unemployeed with no insurance could not test because I just couldnt afford these strips. I had alot of very nice responses and emailes from all of you out there, but she poped up one day and said she had tons of stuff she never used because she had gotten her levels where they needed to be wwould I like to have this stuff. She ask for my address and that was the last Ive heard. Until this morning I went out and on my porch was a package and I said whats this I wasnt expecting anything (just because Ive had people say they would do this or that and never here from them again) so I hadnt even thought about the email. Went in and got me a cup of coffee sat down an opened this box and lo-an behold here was this box full and I mean FULL of lancets and strips and a new tester! I just cried and thanked God and Tristan for caring enough to be sure I could test and be safe. Thank You so much Tristan I cant begin to tell you how much this means to me and you are a true ANGEL
Too bad there arent many more out there like you ! HUGS>...
3/20/05 WOOOOOOOOOOOOOHOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!! Im having a party lol just kidding. I got my letter late Friday of approval SSI yea . I cant believe it. I t has been so long waiting and now I pray to get the ball moving to get in there and have my life changed for the best! Please if you read this and have a list of things I should be buying a head of tme let me know ok thatnks The more I can get now means the less pooh bear dosent have to worry with.Im so so happy I just have to find out about this medicaid and when it goes into effect. Thank you all for your prayers and emails of support.God Bless you all.....
4/15/05 hey there been a little since Ive posted, update is SS called today said Id recieve my first check May 1, o5 then they would be releasing back pay, (need to call attorney) since they are appealing 13 more months of back pay do I pay them now or wait? Application for Medicaid has been filled and sent lady said it could take up to 45 days but she didnt think it would I pray not lol, as soon as I get that confirmed then Im off to see the surgeon and hope to get a date soon, keep me in your prayers I know it seems like Im always asking for prayer but with out you guys I would have never made it this far, I would have quit a long time ago. But I was determined my time would come. next year this time I hope to be planning a cruise some where and enjoying the rest of my life healthy. HUGS............
May 10,05 WhooooooooooooooooooooooHoooooooooooooooooooo Ive been approved by Medicaid finally I got the letter today, now to call and see what I do next. Thanks to all who have been with me during this journey and for all your prayers. God Bless.....
5/12/05 Hello gang, hope all are well and loosing those pounds! I recieved My Medicaid card today woooooowhoooo and went by the PCP's to give them the information and they will call me on Monday with a date to see the surgeon. They had already shut down things for today so I said Ive wait this long another few days wouldnt make much difference. So I hope to have that date by Monday and get this Journay on its way.thanks to all who have emailed and left your kind words and prayers they have all brought me here today where I am because with out some of your emails i would have given up months and months ago, its been hard but Ive made it! Thanks again and big hugs to all. By the way Im gonna be needing an angel soon.
5/18/05 The phone call came today for the appointment date to see Dr Schirmer July 28,8 am for all day consultation whhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhwhooooooooooooooooo so many months and yrs to go by and now Im on my way to start my journey for the loosing side praise the Lord Im so excited and cant wait. And to all of you who have had a uphill battle just like me weather its Medicaid/disability or an insurance denial DO NOT GIVE UP OR IN TO THESE PEOPLE FIGHT FOR YOUR HEALTH!!!!!!!!!!!!! It will happen. God Bless all of you.............................
August 9, 2005 Sorry been so long in posting been alot of things going on, lost my father in July I ended up in hospital for 2 days and then back in for a week :Hello to all my friends and family, I have been gone in the hospital for over a week, well went in on Sunday, July 30ths 4am and was released yesterday about 3:00. I had been up going to bathroom, returning to bed fell in the kitchen, not know if I had tripped or passed out or how long I was on the floor before gene came an found me, anyway after taking a half hour trying to get this butt up off the floor I was so out of breath the oxygen wearing was doing me nothing. I didn't feel right so ask gene to take me in to the ER and he could go on to work having no clue the severeness of my condition. So we did so he wasted till they got me back and checked out I was some confused and out of but they told him if i worsened the would call, he had no choice they were short handed and had a situation at one of the parks he had to attend to so i figured he just go on to work and deal with it instead of sitting and getting on my nerves. i was there maybe 30 mins. and my mother and brother showed up so i had them with me. well they worked back and forth all morning and day with my breathing doing tests doing blood work all day, I was still in the ER at 4:00 when Gene came back in I think it was 8:00 before I was sent to Micicu which is a level of ICU my body has been retaining carbondeoxcide for over 2 years since i was diagnosed with sleep apnea, and was unable to get a cpap machine, which i had just gotten little over 3 weeks ago, I hadnt started to use right away wasn't thrilled to be hooked up to all that mess, but by not using it i almost died, my carbon levels were 3 times the normal levels 144, should be in 40 people with sleep apnea are not able to exhale or in hale in enough to get the poison out and over time my body got used to this and started working on the levels and were shutting down (scarey huh?) When the respiratory therapist told me i was a smidgen close to death or a trac i was scared,he did all he could to keep from giving me a trac, cause i was so young thank God he knew what he was doing. My levels go down when IM up moving around, stay normal when laying or sitting, so have to work on that cpap at least 8 hours a night and any nap time plus oxygen rest of the day. only plus out of this was i lost 29 pounds of fluid i cant see it but that's what the scales said. keep me in your prayers because my only hope of change is weightloss and quickly. I did meet with DR Schimer on July 28th and he says IM a great candidate and they were going to help me and now all this i just hope its sooner then later.
9/27/05 Well finally heard my medicaid approval and now I have my pre-op date for Oct. 27, 05 yea and now I hope to get surgery before thend of the year!
10/27/05 well today was my Post-op day, 9:00am sonogram on the Gallbladder turned out OK no stones, 11:15 Blood Gas excellent oxygen levels wonderful, cpap doing the job yipiskipi, 11:30 Dr Schirmer he say when do you wanna have your surgery I said when you can get me in, he said how about Monday 10/31/05 I said heck why not, Ive waited 4 years why would I say no. So my journey is on the road starting Monday I cant believe it. Awsome................
10/29/05 Well today was the fleet start and it was nasty ewww,so we will see what happens from here. Wish me luck.
10/31/05 Well off to the hospital this morning have to be there @ 9am we got there 8:45, place was packed, I mean standing room only. Well they took me in to check my blood sugars and we discussed w/ them about a private room, which with my boyfriends help we were able to get one. Well they tell you when you arrive you may wait for a few hours, but they waisted no time for me at 10:15 they were calling me up already, I was shocked. No not nervous, I wanted this change for my life so much, I was ready. Now Gene on the other hand he was a mess walking the floors, when they came in to hook up Iv's and things do the blood and tell me the risks I thought he was gonna flip out he was trying to stay positive and yet they were talking the negatives, just to prepare me. Which I was aware of them all. Well I was up there about 45 mins. seen an spoke to Dr Schirmer and he had just finished up his first surgery and I was #2 Well they took me back wanna say sometime 11:00ish got in the Operating room moved over to the table they got me confortable and we were having a conversation, the next I was awake in Recovery@ 5:00 The surgery started lap. and ended open they had problems finding my stomach at first and then after they got things going there was a question on the saftey so he decided to open. I got to my room about 9:00 and of course it was nurses blood pressures vitals etc, all evening.Well the night went ok pain was eww well so so Im not gonna sugar coat it. The leak test next morning pain was unbarable for a while, they expect someone who was sliced open to get up on this high table an lay on ur back flat which was painful as heck. Once wasnt enough twice either so the third finally they got it right. Stay was four days and home, Staples were removed a week later and now un the healing side 3 weeks out.
12/19/05 Well here's another update, was just released from hospital on Sat. went for a check up on Thurs. Dr Schirmer put my butt in there for dehydration, and Malnutrition. Now I have a feeding tube because I havent been able to hold anything down in my pouch. So this will go on for a few weeks to get my system built back up, and then maybe Ill be able to eat food food and keep it down. One plus is I dont have to take my diabetic meds. he said hold off my levels were good while in hospital w/ no meds. So thats a plus now if they stay down. I want to thank all of those who have prayed and sent messages to me during my illness it means alot to know you have friends out tehre who care. Hugss
1/6/06 Hello to all another update, seen Dr yesterday and Ill have this tube in another 6 weeks, the did blood he said I looked good but we will see after test come back, As of yesterday down 84 pounds since surgery an 108 pounds since post op Im thrilled but have a long way to go. I did have lasangana last eve for dinner not alot but it was good, an I had no problems yeaaaaa. Im trying little each day to eat something its hard. But I want this tube out soon, its a nousence. Ill tell you one thing if your looking into this surgery Dr Schirmer and his team are the greatest He is such a sweet man and very concerned about each patient and Anna Miller shes a trip she will do whatever it takes to make you comfortable an happy, and Mary she is behind the schene but she is a doll she has always been so very nice and concerned about me always ask how Im doing and will chat w/ me in length love her. So dont pass UVA up because you have heard stories this team is great.
2/10/06 Hello to all Ive finally lost that first 100 pounds boy was I excited yesterday when they told me that at my Dr's visit. Also got rid of that nasting feeding tube, that was a wonderful thing as well Im trying to do the 3 meals a day though it can be hard some days.
But we must do as we need to. So those of you who are having problems dont give up keep fighting! Cant wait to see all next sat. Feb 18th 12 noon for our lunch get together it will be awsome to meet so many people. Well just wanted to update Im doing alot better thanks to all my friends here who have prayed and supported me during these last few months.
2/20/06 Hello to everyone and I wanna Thank everyone who came to our Charlottesville Meet & Greet Lois,Renea & B/f,Stacey, Shannon& hubby,Donna,Jill & hubby, Elizabeth and wife, Nicole and hubby, Kitty kat(sorry forgot your name) TinkerBell, Joann, Holly, Lisa, Norma Jean, Yvette,Judy & hubby,Betsy,Dave & wife an boys, Dianna,Tammy George and hubby, I think I have you all if I missed anyone Im sorry but it was wonderful to meet you all I had a grand time and cant wait to do it again. Thank you all for making such a great event.
This is the man who saved my life 10/31/05 Bruce D. Schirmer, M.D and his wonderful nurse Anna Miller who I absolutely adore!
3/27/06 Hello everyone been a little while since Ive posted alot going on. First let me thank all you girls for coming to the 2nd Charlottesville Meet & Greet @ Elray's on sat. I think we all had a grand time and with the 12 of us there we had a total weightloss of 1218 pounds AWSOME!!!!! Stacey Anderson 130, Norma J Rogers 104, Cathy Patterson 30, Donna Howard 102, Melinda Gregory 122, Renea Ghioto 87, Shannon Chittum 106, Betsy Guill 62, Joann Tigert 128, Holly DeCarlo 90, Lisa Cooper 257. Wow some big numbers everyone looks great. Thanks again. Well as of today Im down 125 pounds since 10/31/05 and I feel so much better and cant wait to get the rest off things have been really looking up for me since this surgery. Lord know this time last year I was miserable. But thanks to the good Lord above and Dr Schirmer here I am today moving forward in my journey. I hope my story will be an inspiration to those out there still trying and struggeling, dont give up, because what you deserve you will get, it just takes time sometimes. Hugs until the next time......
5/11/06 Well went yesterday for the 6 month check up, Dr Schirmer was pleased with where I am 137 pounds lost so far @ 272 wow what a difference from last year this time. He is concerned about the protein intake Im not able to get in the 80+ grams a day.My hair is falling out in clumps but this is an issue Ill deal with. So prepare yourselves for that protein before surgery, I just cant stomach the taste very sencitive gage reflex so Im very careful in what I eat. But Im thankful to have lost what I have I dont go back to see him until my 1 yr annv. which is Oct.
6/1/06 Well been a little since updated, not alot to talk about Ive been on a stall now for 5 weeks not loosing been very discouraged, but alot going on been under stress. My son turned 18 two days ago we have graduation on the 9th I have another sleep study on the 16th an the GYN on the 30th lord knows where that will go. Kinda worried but Ill deal w/ it as it falls. More concerned about the weight not coming off. So all who are prepairing for surgerys plan your protein find the right one for you an stick w/ it. And the imporatance of this take it serious. Well this Sat the 3rd we are having another meet & greet here in Charlottesville, hope to see alot of people, this will be the last one Ill do until fall I think just kinda hard getting everyone together w/ vacations and sort going on so if we dont see you this weekend look for a fall date.
I must say though the weight has stopped I feel alot better this year than I did last year.
The gang at Elrays here in Charlottesville Meet & Greet- Jennifer, Cathy Shannon Lisa Norma Kathy Melinda & Jordan.
Aug.9th 2010
Aug 08, 2010
Wow what a journey I have had, Im soon to be out 6 yeas and Im down to 169 from 410, never in a million year did I think this day would I ever see. I as doing good to make it to 200 pounds. So you know how thrilled I am to be at 169 today. I havebeen threw several plastic surgery's so far w/ my arms and a tummy yuck and getting my boobs re done from a bad platic a few yrs back from a breast reduction and so much better results from another plastic surgeon. She made me look uman again and replaced my bely button in which theytook back when I had a panni done. I have the thighs to do as well as the butt, but if I continue to loose Ill have to go bck for more sculpting but at this point I dont care, it is all worth the fact that the tool is still working this far out. So dont let it e said it stops. Because it is still working for me. Amen! 
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Thank You FFP Members for being with me On my Journey
Feb 11, 2010
This is how the story goes: 2005 I was 410 pounds and spent 8 days in UVA 3 of those days in a coma my family being told I was going to die from carbon dioxide poisoning from sleep apnea and my organs were all shutting down due to this as well as lungs and heart being crushed from my fat. the power of prayer worked as I came out of the coma all along I had been fighting for Gastric Bypass for 4 years unable to get due to having NO INSURANCE, and in the state of VA your not deemed disabled unless your 65 or damn near death well I was. I was released mid August and soon after received Medicaid seen Dr Schirmer in September again and to my surprise he got all my tests and things moving very quickly due to my serious situation (because at my release I was told Melinda if you don't loose the weight you will be dead in 6 months) So you know the stress and pressure myself and family had on us so soon after loosing my father in June and a very close friend in February. I was scared to death. During this period let me say I was on oxygen 24/7 in a wheel chair couldn't drive barley left my home because I couldn't breath I was lucky to get from one room to the other in my home. I was truly a prisoner in my own home. The only outside contact I had was this computer and OH. The reason I'm posting this long story is for all the NEWBIES as well as those of you out there who are still struggling with your weight no matter the issues, there are so MANY positives from this TOOL!!!! Any way back to the story. I seen Dr Schirmer again on Sept. 27Th and as he was going through his date book he says to me I had a cancellation for Monday mind ya that's 3 days away, I was like HELL yeah it came out before I knew what I said he just laughed. They started they paper work sent me on my way to the good ole bowel prep blood work, registration, and I headed to the groc store. And off to my last meal. My surgery an new birthday happened on Halloween 2005 410 I now 2010 194 pounds. In between I have had a panni, breast revision and arms done and now healing from my tummy tuck and they gave me my belly button back I could go on an on. But I will also say, I have had several test EXCLUDING after I ask for numerous times a endoscopy for a hernia that they said I didn't have! Though my plastic surgeon suspect maybe. And sure enough after I borrowed money for the surgery once she got in she found one behind (hidden) my breast bone the same place that I had been complaining about entwined in fatty tissue an bowel which I was gonna cancel this surgery and had I done so and it would have erupted could have caused death. SO please listen to your body's and MAKE your Dr's do these tests... There is hope so keep the fight going and dont give up on yourselves. I still have more to go and I will be the first to tell you I NEVER thought Id ever go under 200 well Im sitting here telling you I am and hope to weigh this afternoon because the 6 pounds they removed were from last week, so curious to see what the scale might say today at my follow-up appointment. Theres going to be a party in Charlottesville......
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About Me
Barboursville, VA
Location
29.9
BMI
Surgery
10/31/2005
Surgery Date
Oct 19, 2001
Member Since
Before & After
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Oct -31-2005
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