why can't she be happy for me?

Jul 24, 2009

i know my mom loves me. but it's annoying me slightly that she's not happy for me right now and my decision concerning weight loss surgery. I mean i know she's prob concerned because i'm so young and i'm her baby and blah blah blah but seriously...to come right out and say "NO, you're not getting this done" (((even tho i'm 23 and don't need her permission))). Or to taunt me with the fact that it'll be a very very very very very long time b4 i'd be able to eat pizza again if i got the surgery. WTF?!?! are u serious? And i doubt she had the same reaction when my brother got his done @ 29years old. I mean, does she want me to get to 510lbs like he did??? I just don't get it... like ur heavy...and u've been trapped inside ur body for 52 years...you probably only weight 20lbs more than i do but you've had 52years to accumulate all that...i've done it in less than half that time. So i thought she'd be SUPPORTIVE of the fact that i'm taking charge in getting my life back. Maybe it's too soon in the process for her to show support? Maybe after i've met with a surgeon and really started the process...maybe then will she come around.....i hope so. Bcuz as much as i hate to admit it...i'm going to need her.

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