Momma Drama

Aug 16, 2011

 WARNING!!!!!  NOT weight loss related 
So...before I posted about my "house guests".  Well the mom moved out about 2 months ago....said I made her feel uncomfortable LOL I laugh because we lived together for 2 years in HER rented house and she made me feel uncomfortable everyday but because I knew that she couldn't afford the place and truly needed my help as she had her 2 grandkids I stayed.  I paide my half no matter who stayed there.  She had boyfriends that would be in and out...I never complained.  I literally lived in a small bedroom with my son for 2 years....and smiled every time I saw her and worked my butt off to make sure that I was never late to pay any of the bills.  So then her son (my BF) came back into the picture and we needed a bigger place, so me and him moved....that was February of this year, by March she was moved in.  Said that she couldn't handle it by herself....ok no problem.  She wasn't paying half of anything.  $200 a month for a fully furnished home with extended cable, movie channels, electirc, water, everything included.  I don't think that is a bad deal.  So then one day she tells me that I am mean to her son and it makes her feel uncomfortable.  Her son is 31 by the way, and thinks it is ok to stay out till 2am which is why we was arguing.  That and the fact that he does NOTHING to help better our situation,  himself, his kids, or anyone for that matter.  So she moves out...into a hotel paying $150 a week...and had the nerve to tell me it was my fault that she could only take her clothes and not all her belongings.  A month later....I received a call that she was losing her car so she needed to move back.  Ok, no problem.  She came to me and said she would give me $100 a week, then it went to $100 every other week.  Ok, still no problem.  She also told me that if there was any issues she would come to me first because I told her that I made a budget and in order to afford all the bills I needed to know that she would be paying me every other week.  She agreed.  I wake up this SATURDAY morning to a truck backed up to my front door and some strange man carrying her stuff out of the house.  I asked her what was going on and she says "Im moving".  I laughed.  She said that it was nothing I did but she was just going to keep moving until she could find the money to get her own place.  
Now (breath), I am not the type to hold a grudge but the lady has pushed me to my limit this time.  When she moved in we had basic cable trying to save money.  She said she wanted movie channels so that very day we got on the phone and changed our plan.  She said she wanted a deep freeze as she was going to stock up on food since she knows that I love to cook...we have an empty deep freeze taking up a ton of room in our kitchen.  I have honestly made every attempt to make this woman and her son happy.  I have over extended myself for both of them, so when she came to me as they was carting her sh*t out the door I was just slightly upset.  Not once did she say something ahead of time so that I would have some type of notice that she 1) was moving and 2) wouldn't be paying me as planned.  I know $200 isn't a lot of money but that is really not the point at all.  I will be fine money wise, the bills will get paid just like they have always been.  It is just the fact that I never treated her this way and I would expect the same respect.
So I have made up my mind that I don't care what happens she is NOT coming back to my house.  If that ends any type of relationship, friendship, whatever you want to call it between me and her son...so be it.  And what is crazy is that he knew she was moving and he didn't tell me either.  Correct me if I am wrong but aren't MEN suppose to love, honor, and respect...and even protect their women?  He knew the situation so for him to keep that from me is like a slap in the face.  He isn't going to pick up her slack or even be there if I was to need something.  When I talked to him about it he acted like the innocent bystander that didn't have anything to do with it.  But that is his momma and I was suppose to be his girlfriend, and I don't care who it was I still wouldn't let them walk over him the way she has done me.
Maybe I am just bitter, angry right now....needing to vent and get this crap off my chest.  I am not the type to hold grudges or let things affect me for a long period of time but this one I think has to be stopped right now.  WHEW.......I feel better now LOL

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