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Elisa *
on 1/23/07 10:02 am - I.V., CA
Topic: I've changed my mind..
Hey all, I have been thinking a lot lately about this whole wls. It's going to be year on the 13th of Feb. and I was recalling the essay I was required to write. It was about the reason/s why I wanted gastric bypass. One of the reasons I mentioned was: to be able to have a healthy pregnancy. In the essay I sounded so passionate about being able to have a normal pregnancy & becoming a mom. Now, I just don't want to even think about being pregnant. I can only imagine the weight gain & all the changes in my body. I don't know...I guess I just don't want to have kids right now or anymore? Anyway, I was wondering is there something you wanted to do before surgery but now you don't want to do it because you fear gaining the weight back? Is this normal? Just curious... Elisa
jttaurus
on 1/23/07 9:54 am - Charlotte, NC
Topic: Final Stretch to 1 Year Post Op...What would you do differently?
As Jan is flying bye and I am at a lack of mobility now. I have been thinking, I have been questioning, was this worth it. Up until December, I would have said yes. In the past 30 days, I probably would have said no. I would definitly rethink choosing the original RNY surgeon I chose based on how I was treated recently. I had some pain issues last summer and this surgeon wasn't very effective in my care. I had no major symptoms except nausea and reflux pain during christmas. I wasn't even going to call the dr's office, because i HATE dealing with the surgeon who did my RNY. I decided to call because I was having difficulty eating and drinking. I did find out there's a second surgeon in the group and he was oncall during christmas weekend. So, on 12/26 suffered from an internal hernia in the petersen's space, which is the mesentary colon and removal of adhesions (endometrosis). I thought I was bouncing back from the surgery quickly. I was still suffering with nausea and pressure in my upper chest, however, the surgeon who did my origianl rny wasn't as helpful as he could have been. I went back and forth for 1 week before I was seen again. This time, I went through a day of testing and a week of being really sick. Then, last week, I had a second surgery, there were an assortment of things done at this surgery had a band of scar tissue removed from liver, from bowels, from pouch area, then revision to pouch area, revision to internal hernia, and intestional hernia repaired. I will pretty much allow the doc's to do anything, while I'm asleep. Being in the hospital two times in two weeks has worn me out. Discourging as it is, I'm still suffering with nausea and reflux burning in my throat. Currently, I am waiting for my refereal to the GI dr. I will most likely be having an endo scope next. The thing I would do differently is to have chosen a different surgeon. I don't like the care that I've received when I've contacted them and also during a previous encounter. The distance between where I live and where the dr is located has also become an issue. I'm fighting off letting this turn me blue. I"m laid up, bored, so ofcourse my mind is working over time, over and over. I have everything on hold again, waiting to see what's next. Thanks for reading. Jen 2/22/06 P.S. Hold your criticism for yourself. I have been slammed on another message board for not running to the hospital at the slightest hiccup. If I want to be treated badly, I'd call my dead mother, she did it best.
jttaurus
on 1/23/07 5:33 am - Charlotte, NC
Topic: RE: losing
Congrats. I need to set a goal. THe 1 year mark is coming soon, I wonder though, do I pu**** back 2 months, considering all the complications I've been having? I feel like I should have dropped 40lbs with the sickness I"ve been experiencing. I have to see a GI dr next week to see what's going to happen next. I am slowly becoming the hernia queen. Jen
jttaurus
on 1/23/07 5:30 am - Charlotte, NC
Topic: Stricture or Stomal Stenosis??
I'm looking for feedback (real life) if you've experienced this? Please email me and let me know. I've googled these two situations and only can find clinical information. This is what the dr will be checking me for next. I am curious to see what experience other's have had. Jen
Jewels5872
on 1/23/07 4:55 am - orange city, FL
Topic: RE: losing
Sara I went through that to and now i lost 4 pounds BUT in 2 months....so its not like i am losing a whole lot its slow but im ok with that. I went almost 3 months no loss. so it will come we are just so close that it is killing us we see the end and yet we still cant reach it....GOOD LUCK!!! J
SweetSarah1
on 1/23/07 2:41 am
Topic: RE: losing
Wow guys!! Congrats to you both. I'm such a loser that I'm not even losing anymore. Nothing in 4 weeks. I won't give up though... Still 28 pounds to my made up goal...
Gi G.
on 1/22/07 11:51 pm
Topic: RE: losing
WTG I am losing much better lately too, I have 21 pounds to goal.
Jewels5872
on 1/22/07 11:26 pm - orange city, FL
Topic: losing
Well i seem to be losing slowly BUT i am ok with it...cuz i am still losing. I will go through weeks and sometimes months with no lose but like i said before my clothes are loose well i weighed today and WOW i lost 2 pounds!!! woohoo i am now 168lbs with a loss of 103lbs woohoo!!!!!! how exciting 23 pounds to goal!!! J
kd5fil
on 1/22/07 3:06 am - Harlingen, TX
Topic: RE: not losing weight but getting smaller????
I can relate Julie. I am 5'5" and 189 lbs. and everyone says no way I can still weigh that. They say I look smaller than that. I am currently in a size 12 jeans and large top (mostly due to extra skin in my arms). I am currently stuck as well but my clothes are still fitting loose so maybe we are loosing inches. I sure hope so. I still have another 12 lbs to get to my surgeons goal. I get a little frustrated sometimes because it seems like the loosing is getting alot slower now. My husband says I'm crazy.
MissMelanie
on 1/21/07 9:04 pm - Martin, TN
Topic: RE: nutrition information site - interesting
Oh, I love that! Surgerversary! I am going to have to remember that! Now...off to a day that hopefully isn't carb heavy!
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