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Topic: RE: Going through stress and not knowing how to deal
Thank you....i wrote my mom a letter i needed to get it all out...i am hurt. and i dont want to turn to food...it just happens but you know whati mean i find myself in the middle of it and the next thing i know im tossing chuncks lol i do have a jouirnl and i love to write....and it does help....im so thank ful for this group you all understand so much this is so much more than a board...its my lfe line sometimes.
J
Topic: RE: 1 year Crunch How r u doing?
gg. I will let you know when I find out. My Pcp is making the appointmnet some time next week I am to call on monday and find out when the appointment is.
Doug.
Topic: RE: Going through stress and not knowing how to deal
thank you scott....your right in every way i need to find peace
J
Topic: RE: 9.5 months out...do you feel....
HI Scott, I understand your frustration as I go for in for my nineth check on Friday. From what I see you have done great with regards to your weight loss. As you know this surgery did not come with any guarantees, but to do what it has done for you so far. If your back is giving you problems then have it fixed. I had it done and the doctor told me that it would last for about five years and that was fifteen years ago. We all get to the point where the newness of our weight loss wears off, but then that's when we should embrace life and move forward, not looking back to the old life we left behind. As you are well aware life is full of problems whether cause by being over weight or otherwise and we must meet those problems face to face and overcome them by the power of our own determination not to fall victim to them in defeat. May God grant you His all sufficient grace to be more than a conqueror! -Bill-
Topic: RE: 1 year Crunch How r u doing?
WTG Cathy on not giving into the candies & desserts. I have been very bad & weak. I ate 5 pieces of dark chocolate just this week
. That's why I commend you it is soooo hard not to give into temptation when its all around and what we were used to. Keep up the good work!
Elisa



Topic: RE: 1 year Crunch How r u doing?
HI everyone,
I was getting very depressed about how slow my weight loss is going now. BUT last night my husband brought home the picture from our christmas party( the company has a proffesional photographer take pictures each year) and I sat it next to the picture of the blob (me) who went last year, and I sat there and cried. I doubt many people would look at the two pictures and think it was the same person. And really how can I complain about losing 126 lbs in under 10 mts. Any way my goal I had chosen was to be below 250 by my surgery date of Feb 27th. I'm currently at about 266 So I really think I can do it, if I get my BUTT in gear. I'm struggling with the carb monster too. But I can honestly say that even with all the parties with all the candy and desserts out I have not taken ONE taste. It has been a struggle, but I'm SOOO proud of myself.
Cathy
Topic: RE: Going through stress and not knowing how to deal
Julie, I am so sorry to hear what you are going through with your parents. It is sad that your mother is playing your father. As they say love is blind and your father maybe trying to hang onto his marriage especially if they have been married for any length of time. Love is unconditional, but trust is something that is earned. Do not be angry at your father because he is going through some major pain himself. You are right as well when most of us will say you need to get into some kind of counseling. It will help and you also need to think of your son. As you know eating is not the answer and will only cause you more problems down the road. You are too young to allow yourself to go back to where you first started on your journey. Please do not give up.. Fight if not for yourself then for your son! Your parents have to work this out between them. You cannot be their mediator because that puts you in the middle. You do have every right to be angry at your mother, but remember she is still your mother. God Bless -Bill-
Topic: RE: -115 pounds
Hey that's Great! Congratulations!!!! You are doing so good. God Bless you -Bill-