I Love Him - but he is an asshole!

slim115
on 4/3/12 5:38 am - peterborough, Canada
 put the knife down Monica!

;)
spence
Opti Weight-386lbs.............Surgery Weight- 355 lbs...........Goal Weight- 200lbs        
sam1am
on 4/3/12 5:55 am
Are you feeling the pain vicariously Spence, lol!

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Monica M.
on 4/3/12 7:38 am - Penetanguishene, Canada
lol... i'm relatively harmless, Spence.
        
happypants
on 4/3/12 2:59 am - Ottawa, Canada
 And who's the WIMP.....I'd be buying him a skin flick and saying " go to town"
Men can be such A-holes huh 

Hugs :-)
Ann

 

In order to succeed, your desire for success should be greater than your fear of failure.

Surgery July 22, 2011  Starting weight 270  128 lbs lost  Today's weight 142 lbs                 Ann       

 
                                                   

  

350Ann180
on 4/3/12 3:01 am - St. Williams, Canada
VSG on 05/02/12
I'm so mad - I'm not buying him a movie - he can conjure up whatever he wants in his head....
        
      
happypants
on 4/3/12 5:57 am - Ottawa, Canada
I have to agree....

 

In order to succeed, your desire for success should be greater than your fear of failure.

Surgery July 22, 2011  Starting weight 270  128 lbs lost  Today's weight 142 lbs                 Ann       

 
                                                   

  

Heidi S.
on 4/3/12 3:23 am - Sault Ste. Marie, Canada
Vent away. I would say the Dr was an ass as well. I love my Dr. she knows my body so well and has no problems that is unless the IUD is faulty. That happened with the first Mirena she tried to put in. I was crying and almost passing out while she was trying to get it out, it broke while trying to incert it. She was starting to cry with me because she felt so bad.  Weeks later when the new Mirena arrived at her office it went in with ease, well as much as possible.
I still remember my first biopcy, it was done by a holiday replacement for my Dr and I wasn't expecting to have to have a biopcy. It hurt so badly, she wsan't gentle at all and didn't know how tilted my cervix and uterus was. I was very close to passing out and my husband along with the rest of the waiting room could hear me screaming and crying. The million other biopcies I have had since are a breeze.
My husband would never call me a wimp. He has been in the room with me for a majority of my appointments and even with the biopcies and the second Mirena. The Dr explained to both of us how my body was and showed us on diagrams.
I would tell your husband that you will squeeze him as hard as you can and see if he passes out. Sorry if seems rude but alls fair in love and war with me.
Like you said with hold sex that should be painful enough for him. lol

Sometimes you just put one foot in front of the other, even if you don't know where you're going. 

Surgery Aug. 29, 2012 with the Wonderful Dr. Aarts at TEGH


              

 

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350Ann180
on 4/3/12 3:34 am - St. Williams, Canada
VSG on 05/02/12
Nice to know that someone else knows how much it hurts....
        
      
Lynette1962
on 4/3/12 4:52 am - Whitby, Canada
Men will never understand the pain of childbirth, periods and other womanly issues.  
For us...it is what gives us the strength to deal with other pains in our lives. 

I agree he was an ass... 
Unfortunately, it shows a lot about his character.

I am glad you are able to vent and get some support here, hopefully your other woman friends and family can also support you. 

I have reached my goal weight ..... and LOVE my RNY !!!!!!!!!

            

    
DonnaK12
on 4/3/12 4:54 am - Brooklin, Canada
RNY on 04/25/12
I know how you feel, my hubby won't get fixed either. However, he is not stupid enough to call me a wimp!  Considering all we women go through, wimp is a very good discription of MOST men!!

Good luck!!
            
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