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Topic: RE: VBG Surgery...Failure!
I am thinking of having a revison too. I lost 170 lbs and have kept it off for 3 years but have had nothing but medical problems for the last 2 years. hernias, scar tissue and a hole in my intestine. This is NOT a easy surgery to get un-done. The part of your stomach with the band has to be removed and that scares me. But I am soooo tired of being sick. I have alot of stomach, chest and back gas pain and nothing will get rid of it. I would luv to talk to someone who has had these problems and had a revision. Thanks.
Topic: RE: VBG anyone else have it done???? what were your results
Hi. I had it done and am not too sure it was the right thing to do. I had it 3 years ago and I did lose 170 lbs but now I can eat more than I could at first which scares me. I also have been having alot of abdominal pain and back and chest pains. Some are sharp pains and some are real bad gas pains. My doc ended up being a jerk so am not going back to him. You're getting this done in Milwaukee are you? I ended up having 2 hernias and one had pushed through my intestine and aot of scar tissue that my intestines wrapped around. After a few docs and a visit to Mayo Clinic this was all found from a new doc I am seeing. He fixed all that but I am still having pain. I am thinking og having a revison to the RYN but it is a VERY big deal to have that done because to remove the band he will have to take that part of my stomach out. I guess I really didn't understand what I ws having done when I did it. Do I regret it? Yes I do. Even though I am alot thinner now, I would rather be fat than have all these medcial problems-they are controlling my life. I am not trying to scare you away from it but please make sure you have a support group to go to. I didn't nd I really should have. I am trying to find someone who had a revision so it anyone has please post so we can talk.
Topic: RE: VBG Surgery...Failure!
Howdy Bea! Nice to hear from you!
I agree with you, if I would have had the emotional support set in place for this surgery, I would have made it through. There was really nothing set in place for me. It was harder for me as well because I lived in a small northern Ontario town. Hick town!
As you say, I would also love to be a size 14 again! Boy, I think I was 14 years old when I was a size 14! ha! I had a Barium Xray yesterday and it looks like my pouch is still intact and working! It is just bigger than the size of an egg! :-& This is where I think it is my fault. I failed the rules of the pouch! And not having any support just made me feel worse! I know I am an emotional eater, NOW! If and when i decide to go for the revision surgery to Gastric Bypass, there are alot of support groups in place now. I will use all the resources I can that are available to me. I am pretty sure we are not the only ones that have problems loosing with the VBG. Anyhow, it has been nice to hear from you. I appreciate your thoughts and feedback. Please, if there others out there, send us a message. We can help support each other. Take care to all! Eve



Topic: RE: VBG Surgery...Failure!
Hello Yvonne.
There is another one in your boat. Me..I had my VBG in 1985. I lost 117 lbs. I have been so mad at myself because I know that I could have done better. I have not yet had my surgical area explored to see what damage I have done. If I eat something and do not chew it up good, like you, I get sick because something did not go thru the band. I am afraid that I have broken the staple lines. I weighed 335 when I had my surgery. I am 57 and I have talked about having it redone, but only to talk myself out of it. My husband has been so supportive and he does not want me to have anymore surgeries. Since my VBG,I have had a complete hystorectomy and a major emergency gallbladder surgery. Going under the knife to me is like taking a good nap, But my husband has his fears.
In my heart I want to try again. I would love to be a size 14 just for a day!!! When I had my surgery, There were to my knowledge, no support groups. I really think if I had known about this site when I had my surgery, I would have had a better chance of making it. Thanks for listening Yvonne. I wondered if there was anyone out there like me.
Keep in touch. Bea
Topic: RE: Sorry it's been awhile!!
That is awsome, Best of luck on the lossing side, keep your spirits up. wont be long now.........
Topic: RE: feeling guilty
Now stop that! You are doing just great! Baby steps darling! Baby steps. To err is human! You are human! You had this surgery for a reason! Reach out for your support like you are right now. *HUG* Please don't beat yourself up for one little kerflufal! (My word for screwing up!) At least you ate protein! Keep up the great work. You will find your way! No one is alike in their eating. You will find what is right for you! Take care. Take one day at a time Sunshine!
Here when you need a friend.
Eve


Topic: feeling guilty
I know there's no way I can gain weight eating what I'm eating now, but I feel a little guilty since I ate a whole can of potted meat (I got the approval from my Dr. to eat this instead of baby food since the baby food was horrid!) when I should have only eaten half. I'm only 21 days out from surgery and I really have been totally compliant until now, but it was so good to actually eat something that had some flavor. I guess I just want someone to tell me I'm not blowing it. I know different doctors have different diet plans, but I have made such a mess of eating in my life that even the slightest backslide seems catastrophic.
Topic: RE: help!
Hello Lynne,
Don't get discouraged. There could be any kinds of reasons why things are done the way they are! Personally, I think your insurance is not approving this VBG surgery because of the "failure" rate maybe. I am no expert but I can tell you from personal experience, it does fail. Statistics show that this operation after 5 years, ppl that had it gain their weight back. I had this surgery 8 years ago and NO i haven't gained all my weight back, but it is coming on slowly. I am hoping for a revision of my surgery to have the Gastric Bypass. I am in process of starting a program with a dietician and a councillor with mild to moderate exersise. It takes time of course. Lots of paperwork and lots of patients wanting this and other surgeries done. You have to stand in line, so to speak. Take baby steps Lynne. One day at a time. Talk to you doctor about the depression though. Keep talking here as well. Do you have MSN Messenger? If you do, i will gladly add you to mine and we can chat if you like. Just let me know. You are doing great! Take care Lynne!
Eve

Topic: help!
Hi everyone,
As I am trying to complete my six month weigh in, which ends in October, I am feeling really anxious and depressed. I feel like I will never get this surgery. I am trying to feel upbeat about the whole exsperiance but I have heard so many negitave things about my insurance company and the quick denials they pass out. The nurse in Dr Burrowes office has told me that she has not gotton one approval from BC/BS of Alabama. Not only that the doctor I initially started working with, Dr. Hendersons office in Brunswick has been stalling on sending my medical records. Right now I just feel so sick about all this. Last november I fell and tore my acl and had surgery to repair it in Febuary and that whole exsperiance caused me to gain 70pounds. Now I am up to 291 and I cant stand it. I have to have this surgery. I just need you guys to help me get thruough this please!
Lynne
Topic: Sorry it's been awhile!!
Hello all sorry it's been awhile but i have been busy,well had vbg on june 26th of this year started at 456 well as of today i am down to 379 well that is 79 pounds down yaaaaaaaa god is so good i cant belive it i am really lossing the weight i am lossing around 5lbs every two days doc said that is great i am on my way,just wanted to share hope everyone is haven a good monday
Anastasia
