Question?????
on 2/11/12 7:27 am
Look at a balloon. When you blow it up it looks great. When you let the air out several times, it no longer looks like new anymore. Have you been dieting, losing weight and then regaining?
So. age is on your side. You may be okay :)
All the best.
Judy
Tanning is terrible for the condition of the skin, to say nothing of contributing to melanoma and other skin cancers.
"What the caterpillar calls the end of the world, the master calls the butterfly." Richard Bach
"Support fosters your growth. If you are getting enough of the right support, you will experience a major transformation in yourself. You will discover a sense of empowerment and peace you have never before experienced. You will come to believe you can overcome your challenges and find some joy in this world." Katie Jay
ASHLEY-you have rec'd some excellent responses, and, when you come back, and answer their questions, we can probably give some more specific "sage advice". I probably agree with SHARYN's answer best (she's forever getting into my brain space-scary place to be!)..
Also-you say "it's all in my upper body"..being "non-prro-portioned"..well..the skin more likey to "hang" from the belly area...Have you had babies? C-section? Any abdominal surgeries? All these things can factor in..
Bikinis are highly overrated. Just because some peeps CAN wear them, doesn't mean they SHOULD..find a more important "goal"--like doing this while you are so young and having a wonderful, HEALTHY life in front of you (I am VERY excited for you, for you doing this NOW-at 24 !!)
Okay..mama/nurse finger out here, for a minute..Who the hell told you tanning wound make your "skin tighter"??? Ok..I'll agree that DRY and CANCEROUS skin is TIGHTER than moist healthy skin. I'm a hospice nurse, and have seen-too many times-the results of long term tanning. You are an adult, and make your decisions, of course-but please do your research, and don't let a tanning salon salesperson convince you tanning is in any "healthy"..
Lastly..and MY favorite part..a motto that was said to me, long ago, and I love to pass it on, because it SO true:
"EMPTY skin is better than FULL fat ANY day"
Best of luck, as you continue your journey. Please do not be afraid to ask questions-it is how you learn. Take what you want, from the "answers", and leave the rest-BUT-do not just keep asking until you get the "answers you want"..(NOT that YOU did that-just throwing it in, for your future use)
I predict great success for you. Please post often, and keep us updated
RNY 4-22-02...
LW: 6lb,10 oz SW:340lb GW:170lb CW:155
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