Why do some women

ah81164
on 3/30/12 11:07 pm - GA
RNY on 04/19/12
 Feel the need to disrespect another woman by ignoring her and talking to her husband with him next to her?  But ignores the wife when she tries to talk. 
Gina 23 years out
on 3/30/12 11:11 pm - Burleson, TX

Because some women need to boost their own insecurity/self confidence, by making other women feel badly..

Or maybe whomever is disrespecting you is just a biotch, and needs to be out of your life..

Just a guess...

But WHOM does your husband go home with? He knows where he belongs. The biotch is the one with the insecurity problem-remember that!

RNY 4-22-02...

LW: 6lb,10 oz SW:340lb GW:170lb CW:155

We Can Do Hard Things

Dean Laughlin
on 3/30/12 11:13 pm - Collinsville, OK
RNY on 10/30/12
 I am a guy and I consider that rude as well.  I have had that happen a few times to me and I will immediately introduce my wife and draw her into the conversation.  I have always thought that was a very rude thing to do, so I do my best to have them acknowledge her presense whether they like it or not! 

I have been married 23 years and she is my best friend!  I don't want her to feel that she is not welcome in my conversations!

Dean
 

  

        
Gina 23 years out
on 3/30/12 11:27 pm - Burleson, TX

DEAN-excellent answer!!!

You just earned 10 points toward your "Husband of the Year" trophy!  As I'm sure you already know, your wife my need even MORE reassurance as your physical appearance changes, and the "biotches" come out of the woodwork, toward you. Never assume she KNOWS how you feel-even after 23 years-always take the time to tell her-and show her...

Just some unsolicted, "girl advice", from a NON-biotch !!!

RNY 4-22-02...

LW: 6lb,10 oz SW:340lb GW:170lb CW:155

We Can Do Hard Things

jodisue40
on 3/31/12 12:29 am - OH
RNY on 04/11/12
@Dean, we love men like you, my soon to be husband(May18th 2013 yeaaaa) he always makes it a point to bring me into whatever is going on.
        
summerjoyZ
on 3/31/12 12:49 am - TN
 YAY Dean. WHat a wonderful husband you are.... 
                            
bowknot
on 3/31/12 1:25 am
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sam1am
on 3/30/12 11:36 pm
That is extremely rude and it has happened to me a couple of times.  Dean, you rock, because I really think my husband could have done something at the time (like introduce me to one {his boss} who was overly friendly) and didn't.  I guess now that I'm smaller, I have more confidence and will not them get away with it, but jumping right in whether they like it or not.  

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Calliou
on 3/30/12 11:37 pm
RNY on 03/27/12
My man alwways brings me in to any conversation he is having. As I do him. We are a team, and will always be that way.
I have witnessed women and men that behave that way, and I find it rather unsavory myself...
    
twellington1
on 3/30/12 11:56 pm - NH
we have a neighbor that only comes over when my husband is outside alone.  She will not speak to me EVER!!  I never did anything to this woman it is just the way she is to all the woman in our condo complex.  She is a divorced older woman. I tease my husband when she does it that his girlfriend has come for a visit.  He thankfully always finds an excuse to come in the house for something so she will leave. 
        
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