(deactivated member)
on 11/21/19 4:17 pm

I had a revelatory experience over Halloween in Palm Beach - I am ABSOLUTELY NOT INTERESTED IN OLD MEN! period exclamation point never ever ever barf .

so there's a dilemma ! I've been rejecting guys forever cuz I simply didn't feel attractive... now I'm in a really scary place where the few guys I'm attracted to really have no business with me . It's like a circling ... circling ... spend time together ever so casually thing .

fertility is a real issue . As is sex . Answers anyone ?

Willie H.
on 11/22/19 9:24 am
VSG on 08/26/14

What are you saying exactly? That the type that are interested in you, you're not interested in? And the type you are interested in, are not interested in you? That would be a dilemma! Is it a physical rejection immediately, or do you allow time to know each other? And "old Men" is relative. How old are you, or what do YOU consider as old? The more restrictive our requirements. the smaller the pool we have to choose from. But it's your right, your choice. My wife is 17 years younger than I, but even now more mature than I. And she chose me even when I was over 300 lbs and in reality "an older man"! So we don't want to forget where we came from, where we were judged by how we look when perhaps a beautiful person was inside ready to come out. I mean, if you're not attractive to someone, you're not attractive, but at least give yourself a chance. No answer, just a thought. Wish you well!

  Vertical Gastric Sleeve-(8/26/14)HW 347lbs SW-328lbs CW-247 lbs  GW-212lbs Randolph,                                                                                       "LOVE" is knowing someone has the power to hurt you, yet TRUST that they won't"  "Sing like no one's listening and dance like no one's watching!!"






Gina 18 Years Out
on 11/23/19 8:31 am - Burleson , TX

Willie - some guuurls , who are over 50 like boys , who are in their I have read...!

Not me! I am 62. My husband, of nearly 30 years is 66. He works very, very hard, and comes every night. He is faithful. He worships me He loves God. , THOSE are sexy qualities!!

RNY 4-22-02... HAG=Honest And Genuine

LW: 6lb,10 oz SW:340lb GW:170lb CW:170

We Can Do Hard Things

Cathy H.
on 11/22/19 11:11 pm
VSG on 10/31/16

Umm, wait I'm confused. Last we heard you were getting.married and in luuurve.

5'3", CW: 165 Ultimate Goal: 150 ............. Livin' La KETO Loca!!
134 lbs lost since surgery, 195 overall!! Initial goal reached 9/15/17, (10.5 months)!
SW*: 299 GW: 175 HW 3/2015: 360 PSW* 5/2016: 330 *PSW=Prog Start Wt; SW=Surgery Wt

M1 -31, M2 -10, M3 -15, M4 -16, M5 -8, M6 -6, M7 -11, M8 -8, M9 -8, M10 -4, M10.5 -7 GOAL

on 11/23/19 6:55 am
RNY on 06/03/15

I thought she said a few months ago that she was pregnant (???)

Gina 18 Years Out
on 11/23/19 8:27 am - Burleson , TX

That was last year! Keep up!!!

RNY 4-22-02... HAG=Honest And Genuine

LW: 6lb,10 oz SW:340lb GW:170lb CW:170

We Can Do Hard Things

on 11/23/19 4:08 pm
RNY on 08/29/18

Foolish consistencies are the hobgoblins of little minds.

Jim Age 55 Height 6 Feet Consult Weight 344 SW 289 Pre-Surgery -55, M1 -25, M2 -16, M3 -21, M4 -10, M5 -5, M6 -1, M7 -4, M8 0, M9 +4, M10 -4

on 11/23/19 12:44 am
RNY on 08/21/12

So, between old men, young men, and fertility worries, there's only one option. Old wimmen. Keep us updated.

6'3" tall, male. Maintaining a loss of 280 pounds.

Highest weight was 475. Consult weight 04/12 was 411. RNY on 08/21/12 at 359 lbs. Current weight 195.

M1 -24; M2 -21; M3 -19; M4 -21; M5 -13; M6 -21; M7 -10; M8 -16; M9 -10; M10 -8; M11 -6; M12 -5.

(deactivated member)
on 11/24/19 6:54 am

Well I wrote a whole reply and it disappeared - please censor put it back ! Grrrr

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on 11/24/19 7:40 am - Irvine, CA

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