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Cunning_Pam
on 4/13/14 3:31 am, edited 4/13/14 3:31 am
RNY on 12/18/13
Topic: RE: Hobbies new and old

Exactly. It's not that the movements are painful, it's just that the last two fingers on my right hand are numb and I have almost no fine motor control with them. It wouldn't seem like those two fingers would count for much, but they do. I do a lot of holding and spinning of mandrels (the thick wires) with that hand, and I found that I used to drop them way, way too often when I first got the problem. So I haven't worked at it since, but I'm itching to get back to it and try to adapt to what's apparently my new normal.

If it helps, I've tried blowing glass a couple of times, and you'd have to inhale really, REALLY hard to inhale any of it.  The kind of glass work I do is commonly called lampworking, and is a little smaller in scale. But working with molten glass that way can be interesting, too. You need a whole new set of clothing requirements: No man-made (in other words, meltable!) items, no shorts or short sleeves, and because sometimes the glass rods "pop" from thermal shock if you heat them up too quickly, absolutely NO plunging necklines! *OUCH*, from experience!

I have a couple of photos of some of my work around on an old computer, I'll see if I can dig them out or just take a few new ones.

Surgery: RNY on 12/18/2013 with Jay M. Snow, MD            "Don't mistake my kindness for weakness." - Robert Herjavec, quoting Al Capone

      

Jost Dreams
on 4/13/14 3:22 am
Topic: RE: Firearms

I must have lived in a different area than you...the psycho soccer Moms in our master planned community could easily have snapped over the things I mentioned.  Ridiculous fights would erupt over golf cars cruising the neighborhood, parking in front of each others perfectly pristine homes and panic would flash through the neighborhood FB site if there was a person of color seen in a strange car.  Anyways, I never said there were any  incidents....just said I felt more unsafe in TX than in Navi Mumbai or one of the many countries we have visited.

I doubt the total crimes committed in many countries are close to just the gun crimes in America.  Look at some of the statistics posted today.

BTW, I grew up and went to college in TX then returned to Houston for 5 long years so I do know what it is all about down there.

White Dove
on 4/13/14 2:06 am - Warren, OH
Topic: RE: Nude Beaches?

It sounds like fun.  Would probably embarrass myself staring at all the soft willys, so I hope dark sunglasses would be permissible. 

Real life begins where your comfort zone ends

Jackie
Multiplepetmom

on 4/13/14 2:02 am
Topic: RE: Guns and Sex

way hot, in a way guns never are.

once upon a time I had a group to talk about Binge Eating Disorder, and later one about Clean Eating.

PM me if you are interested in either of these.

 size 8, life is great
 

Chrissy W.
on 4/13/14 1:36 am - Indianapolis, IN
VSG on 07/01/13
Topic: RE: Hobbies new and old

Stained glass is MUCH easier than you'd think. Just requires quite a bit of tools and supplies to get started. Worth it though!!

VSG 7/1/13 with Dr. Jack Rutledge 28 y/o female - 5'10" - HW: 298GW: 174 - SW: 290 (-8) - M1: 262 (-28) - M2: 247 (-15) - M3: 235 (-12) - M4: 228 (-7 ~First Stall: almost 2 wks~) - M5: 218 (-10) - M6: 209 (-9) - M7: 199 (-10) Onederland on 1/31 - M8: 196 (-3) 100 lb total loss on 2/2 - M9: 192.6 (-3.4) - M10: 188.6 (-4) - M11: 182 (-6.6) - M12: 175.6 (-6.4) - M13: 173.8 (-1.8) CW (7/8/15): 167 - GOAL reached in 1 Year and 25 Days! - TOTAL WL - 131 lbs  

Kate -True Brit
on 4/13/14 12:47 am - UK
Topic: RE: Guns and Sex

Now that I something  I csn't understand. If a man raised his hand to me in anger, that would be the end of the relationship. 

Highest 290, Banded - 248   Lowest 139 (too thin!). Comfort zone 155-165.

Happily banded since May 2006.  Regain of 28lbs 2013-14.  ALL GONE!

But some has returned! Up to 175, argh! Off we go again,

   

White Dove
on 4/13/14 12:46 am, edited 4/13/14 12:47 am - Warren, OH
Topic: RE: Guns and Sex

Swords like that are sexy, but killing or maiming with a sword is a much more personal act than firing a gun.  I was raised by Irish parents who hated guns.  My father told us that if we pointed a gun at someone and it was empty, the devil would put a bullet in there and make it go off.

He hated the cowboy era when we all had toy cap pistols and wore them on plastic holsters with cowboy hats and boots.  I remember one day my sister had caps in her pocket and they went off with a lot of smoke and noise.

I thought about taking up fencing at one time.  Not as self-defense, but for the exercise and graceful movements.  I never carried when younger or wanted a gun in my house.

Hitler was careful to make sure Jewish people were not able to own firearms before the Nazis started knocking on doors and taking people away.  They would have thought twice if they feared their knocks being answered by someone pointing an assault rifle.

Real life begins where your comfort zone ends

White Dove
on 4/13/14 12:32 am - Warren, OH
Topic: RE: Guns and Sex

I don't speak to the person who assaulted my friend. 

They are still together and she brings him to parties.  I was at a party one day and he was expected. 

One lady pulled me aside and told me that if I was "packing" and wanted to just get rid of him, everyone there would go to court and swear that he started it and I shot in self-defense.

Real life begins where your comfort zone ends

Citizen Kim
on 4/12/14 11:52 pm - Castle Rock, CO
Topic: RE: Favorite vacation spots in India and Asia

I am a huge fan of Jaipur, especially of course the Taj Mahal - a wonderful testament to love.   If you are fortunate enough to have your own driver and guide, you can avoid the queues, hawkers and crowds somewhat to take in the history and majestic beauty.

I also love ****et, we avoided the main tourist areas and stayed at a wonderful hotel with a completely private beach - they set up your sunbeds, have a cafe on the beach for lunch/drinks etc - the water is fantastic for snorkelling and the exotic fish will be swimming at your feet once you are six inches into the water!  It's a great place to learn to scuba dive and Ian and Tom got their Padi's while we were there.  We also chartered a boat to a private island and the hotel sent a staff member with us for the day -truly how the other half lived LOL!

Bali was fun 

Gambling in Macau was fun - like Chinese vegas only the food was better!

Hanoi was an interesting place to learn the "other" side of the Vietnam war - there are "guides" paid by the Government to follow foreigners around in the museums etc and tell you how bad the Americans and French were!!!

Hong Kong - dirty but lively city - wouldn't want to live there because of the pollution and the Chinesification - but a great place to go for a party weekend

Where have you been, Jost - I'm sure you have great reviews!   Expat life is truly a gift ...

Proud Feminist, Atheist, LGBT friend, and Democratic Socialist

AnneGG
on 4/12/14 11:05 pm
Topic: RE: Hobbies new and old

I shop for Christmas all year long- helps a lot come holiday time with lowering the frantic piece.

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