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Not sure whether you saw it, but in a response to me she indicated that she deleted those posts because she blocked the people they were in response to and then she thought that HER posts were just hanging out there with no context and would be confusing... and didn't know that her blocking someone only prevented HER from seeing their posts and that everyone else can still see them.
Sounds like a great new feature that we should ask OH for... A universal block button: I block someone and then NO one can see their posts, LOL. Let's see... Who would be the first to go...?!?
14 years out; 190 pounds lost, 165 pound loss maintained
You don't drown by falling in the water. You drown by staying there.
In the past, people have delete posts and then CLAIMED that they didn't say something that they DID. They removed the "evidence". People often do it when they stir up some crap and then claim that they didn't participate let alone start anything, or when they post something that directly contradicts something else they wrote (liar,liar, pants on fire), or when they want to play the victim when, if they left their posts in place, it would be clear that they were not the victim of anyone/anything.
In many cases, but not all, it is disingenuous at least. A little like blocking someone, unblocking them to post a quarrelsome or annoying reply to them and then re-blocking them so they cannot reply back to what you wrote. Cowardly...
Lora
14 years out; 190 pounds lost, 165 pound loss maintained
You don't drown by falling in the water. You drown by staying there.
There are those you wish would delete their posts. 
6'3" tall, male.
Highest weight was 475. RNY on 08/21/12. Current weight: 198.
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His post is rambling and makes little sense he must have been on the sauce tonight 
to go with his popcorn !!
What an ass, why would you unblock, post on someone's thread and then block them again? Oh yeah, because you are chicken **** ... Perhaps we should introduce them - they make a right pair!
Proud Feminist, Atheist, LGBT friend, and Democratic Socialist
6'3" tall, male.
Highest weight was 475. RNY on 08/21/12. Current weight: 198.
M1 -24; M2 -21; M3 -19; M4 -21; M5 -13; M6 -21; M7 -10; M8 -16; M9 -10; M10 -8; M11 -6; M12 -5.
on 5/23/14 10:17 am
Who cares if someone deletes a post.... After seeing people attacked on here, I don't blame people for deleting their posts. Then trying to calm the haters down for attacking you for expressing an idea, you get attacked for deleting the post. You can't win. Also what's this about rewriting history?? I don't understand how deleting a post means your rewriting history. Some people must be very bored with their lives. If you want to delete your post, DELETE IT. Who cares...
Annoying as.... Canadian Bacon? 
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I didn't jump to ANY conclusions. I merely asked if you were going to delete the rest of your responses since you have already deleted entire posts and about half of your responses on this one. I wasn't "nasty"... but I will admit to being "snarky".
FWIW, because I realize that you may not be aware of this, deleting posts (for any reason) is a quick way to lose credibility/respect/etc. on an internet board. Too many people do it in order to "rewrite history" and so when someone does it for ANY reason, it really rubs people the wrong way. Hence the snark.
14 years out; 190 pounds lost, 165 pound loss maintained
You don't drown by falling in the water. You drown by staying there.
She was accused of making up her issues. Please explain how you would feel if after suffering complications and venting on your support board, you were met with that attitude?
I like the way people think that just because they have time on the board it gives them a pass to act like an asshole. And by like I mean it's garbage. If you can't get your **** together enough to actually behave like a human being anymore because you've become so desensitized to this process and exactly what it's like in the beginning then it's time for you to find a NEW HOBBY for the love of everything good in the world. Seriously. Move on with your life. You're not needed here anymore.
I read all of the original thread. No one was out of line, or acted like an a-hole. If you disagree with some of the help offered, so be it. But I think everyone was trying to be helpful.
