clothes
I cried when I gave my first few bags away. Even tho I was thrilled to be in a new size, I had favorite outfits that I found so hard to part with! Congrats on your new size!
RNY 01/23/12, HW 265, CW 115, Height 5'6"
I just packed up too large trash bags full of 30/32 & 28's to donate. I'm down a total of 80 lbs from the start of my medically supervised diet and 40 lbs of that is post op, I'm 8 weeks post op. we are getting ready to move so funds are tight & I am making do with what I can keep on ( thank you ties at the waist :-) ). I have to say I am not shedding any tears at this point. I may when I start to look good in clothes and have to get rid of them
It's pretty common. I didn't have trouble getting rid of most of my very largest clothes -- I kept a couple of my largest items for "posterity"... Something I highly recommend, BTW, because when you get discouraged at a stall, you can look at your "starting weight" jeans or whatever and SEE how far you have come, and that is a HUGE psychological boost -- but I did have trouble parting with some of the outfits that were, at one point, my "favorites"... things that I felt pretty wearing. (When you start with a BMI of 57, there aren't many of those items!)
I set the "emotional" items aside in a box and got rid of the other clothes, and by the time that I got down fairly close to my goal weight, I had purchased some new clothes that I felt even better in, and then it wasn't hard to part with the size 26, 24, 22, etc. items at all!
There is no rule that says you have to get rid of everything right away!
Lora
14 years out; 190 pounds lost, 165 pound loss maintained
You don't drown by falling in the water. You drown by staying there.
Yep. I saved the sport knit pants with elastic waist that I wore to/from the hospital (and many, many other days... more days of the week than not since I had them in three colors), sweater that I wore a lot, the one pair of jeans that fit at my heaviest, and a tieback dress.
I can now easily stand with both legs in just one leg of the jeans (I just love that!) and the dress now looks like a blanket!!
14 years out; 190 pounds lost, 165 pound loss maintained
You don't drown by falling in the water. You drown by staying there.
I actually just went through my closet a couple days ago and am left with almost nothing. I saved a couple of my biggest outfits, but happily parted with the rest. I am however having a hard time wearing some of the new pants I got because I keep thinking I can't possibly be wearing that size and have some sort of fear that I'll put them on and they won't fit. :/ Still working on actually seeing the loss I guess. Good luck!