why havent I learned by NOW? Tired of SPITTING UP FOOD...my own da$# fault... RANT,
No, you definitely aren't the only one who struggles with new mealtime habits, so don't be so hard on yourself.
Some things that people find helpful are: putting the fork/spoon down between bites; using saucers,dessert plates, or salad plates instead of dinner plates (and cups instead of bowls); measuring portions (either with actual measuring cups or with things like bathroom-sized Dixie cups); counting the number of times that you chew each bite.
Also, if you are doing something else while you are eating (e.g., watching television), stop it. Focus on nothing but the process of chewing/eating.
Lora
14 years out; 190 pounds lost, 165 pound loss maintained
You don't drown by falling in the water. You drown by staying there.
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What Laura said. I actually have my OWN bowl in my purse that I take everywhere. THis little bowl ONLY holds 1/4 cup (no matter how I stuff it). When at a restaurant/ whereever, I whip out my bowl and fill it up from my plate. I eat from my bowl..NOT the restaurant plate.
Keeps me in check

RNY Surgery: 12/31/2013;
Current weight (2/27/2015) 139lbs, ~14% body fat






