"You need to stop losing weight"

Gramgal
on 6/13/12 10:33 am
On June 13, 2012 at 5:01 PM Pacific Time, Mom4Jazz wrote:
So here's the brutal truth (about me as well as you): Your face probably does look gaunt.

When we ask our bodies to lose substantial weight, they try first to take it off certain easy places (the face, the girls...) and keep it stored in the standard storage areas. The result: many of us, I'd even go so far as to say most, get sort of gaunt looking in the face well before we even reach a "normal" weight. That can be disconcerting - loved ones see that and judge our total loss by the appearance of our faces.

I'm told by a number of vets that it took another year or so after they finished losing for it to even back out a little but it does. I haven't got there yet, and yeah...my face looks a bit gaunt.

I explain this to concerned family members.
You are right. Thanks for the honest & thoughful answer.
                
hollykim
on 6/13/12 10:05 am - Nashville, TN
Revision on 03/18/15
"here is my surgeons number(handing them a business card). I suggest you call him/hr and tell him/hr what you think,since I am under their care." smile sweetly n walk away....

 


          

 

debk21
on 6/13/12 11:04 am - Mansfield, TX
I'm a smart alek and can't seem to control my mouth so I tell them that "I'll stop losing when my head falls through my asshole"  People don't quite know what to say after that...which makes me smile... 

Deb

Goal Reached in 12.5 Months
HW: 274   Pre-OpW: 266   SW: 254   CW: 125  GW: 145

You must permanently change your lifestyle if you want your weight loss to be permanent. You can do it!

Mom78
on 6/13/12 11:11 am
VSG on 02/10/12
Now that is great!
                   SW: 227              GW: 150            HT: 5'6"  
   
loverofcats
on 6/13/12 11:57 am
ROFL!!!!!!!



Gail
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(deactivated member)
on 6/13/12 3:47 pm
My new line! Thank you! I am sick of hearing from people I need to stop losing weight. Yes, I'm close to goal, but really....
Btrue2u
on 6/17/12 12:16 am - Toronto, Canada
RNY on 08/20/12
I'm gonna save that one hopfully I'll get to that point my surgery is 20AUG12.   

20AUG12-8AM SURGERY AT ST.JOES IN TORONTO  W/ DR SMITH                        

loverofcats
on 6/13/12 12:01 pm
As the rapid weight loss slows down, your face will look less gaunt, as well as the rest of your body. I am almost two years out (wow) and over the past year, my fat has redistributed and I don't look as gaunt, nor are my bones poking out so much. Weight training has helped to add some muscle, which also helps. Even my tailbone isn't as sore, as it used to be.


Gail
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happyteacher
on 6/13/12 12:09 pm
 " Hey well meaning people, shut the **** up, please." 

Ok, this totally needs to be a t-shirt slogan!!

Surgeon: Chengelis  Surgery on 12/19/2011  A little less carb eating compared to my weight loss phase loose sleever here!

1Mo: -21  2Mo: -16  3Mo: -12  4MO - 13  5MO: -11 6MO: -10 7MO: -10.3 8MO: -6  Goal in 8 months 4 days!!   6' 2''  EWL 103%  Starting size 28 or 4x (tight) now size 12 or large, shoe size 12 w to 10.5   150+ pounds lost  

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ND2BTHN
on 6/13/12 12:23 pm - Canada
VSG on 01/16/12
I gotta use that one, the next time I hear that! Where's that damn LIKE button!?

      
HW: 235   SW:227   Preopw:218   GW:120   HT:5'3  
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