Do more women have WLS, or do the men just not post as much?

bertgamble2001
on 8/21/14 7:47 pm - Willits, CA

I love reading all the posts from the ladies, but I would love to hear stories from the men who have gone through this.  I am concerned about keeping muscle tone post-op, and it is a bigger issue for us guys than it is for the ladies.

 

    

SATXVSG
on 8/21/14 9:12 pm - Selma(San Antonio), TX
VSG on 04/22/14

I had no muscle tone to lose.  I am finally starting to get some after starting on weights in July.

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happyteacher
on 8/21/14 10:58 pm

Seek out JustePete- he has lost over 200 pounds and has the exercise thing down. He is pretty darn buff now actually! He can give you some good level headed advice. 

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civilmomma
on 8/21/14 11:36 pm
VSG on 03/07/14

I think more women choose to go to internet forums for support. 

My husband will be having RNY this winter...no way in hell would he be on a message board like this - just not his thing.

I've been on pregnancy and parenting message boards before, so seeking one out for my WLS was a logical next thing for me - but my husband is more of a reading articles type than conversational advice type.

     ticker5'-8",HW 347,SW329,M1-25 M2-17 M3-11 M4-13 M5-14 pregnant-->

 

Bufflehead
on 8/21/14 11:43 pm - TN
VSG on 06/19/13

The figures I have seen say that between 70 and 80 % of WLS patients are women -- and the men who choose WLS are older, sicker, and fatter than the women patients, on average.

Sadly I had no muscle tone to lose at the outset but I am loving working on my muscles now! I even love that when I sit up in bed in the morning, if I have my hand on my tummy I can feel that I have abs! I never imagined that in my life!

 

    

Grim_Traveller
on 8/22/14 1:43 am
RNY on 08/21/12

Hey!

Yeah, OK . . .

6'3" tall, male.

Highest weight was 475. RNY on 08/21/12. Current weight: 198.

M1 -24; M2 -21; M3 -19; M4 -21; M5 -13; M6 -21; M7 -10; M8 -16; M9 -10; M10 -8; M11 -6; M12 -5.

JustLikePluto
on 8/22/14 12:41 am

I'm a guy, 54, got sleeved 6/2/14-- down about 75 lbs. back to a weight my wife of 21 years had never seen (280's!)    I'd heard from my doctor that more women get WLS (about 75% or more).  I am concerned about muscle tone, too.  I always felt that I had serious muscle in my calves, biceps,etc., but the quick weight loss seems to vaporize muscle, too.  The sleeve is a pretty blunt tool in some ways…almost medieval in the mechanical brute-force way it reduces your ability to eat.  Works like crazy, though.  :-)  I'm walking 5-10K steps --(need to get back on this- had a week's break), doing lots of curls at my desk(at home at least). Mostly eating protein-  sashimi, sushi(some rice..not much), other fish and ground meats. Chunk chicken breast seems to be a problem I try to avoid drinking during or after.  (that's my hardest challenge) I'm eating low-carb--kind of Atkin's.   I avoid bread, tortilla's, much dessert (just a spoon).  Alcohol tolerance is a little lower(not the crazy lower like Kim Bassinger in Blind Date), and I'd had a few drinks socially, but tend to avoid the empty calories. I make wine, so I have a taste of that occasionally, but it seems kind of sharper now.   Beer, pop (even diet) are just nasty now- foam, phlegm, yuck.  Although the one comment impugning our manliness stung a little-- about guys not posting--  I figure it's worth a minute to jot something here from another guy.  It's most remarkable (in a truly male sense) to be able to see my 'little friend' again without a mirror.  Been a while.   :-) 

    

    
skeller
on 8/22/14 4:04 am - Austin, TX
VSG on 05/01/14 with

Your post made me laugh, but I totally know what you mean!

DOB 1958, HT 5'4" . . . HW 310, SW 281, CW 184.3

M1 -25, M2 -7, M3 -11.9, M4 -7.6, M5 -11.8, M6 -9.6, M7 -1.7, M8 -10, M9 -5, M10 -5

    

Valerie G.
on 8/22/14 1:14 am - Northwest Mountains, GA

It's not sleeve specific, but OH has a board for men-only and it's pretty active.

Valerie
DS 2005

There is room on this earth for all of God's creatures..
next to the mashed potatoes

bertgamble2001
on 8/22/14 4:45 am - Willits, CA

Thanks Valerie,

I have not seem the mens forum.  How do I find it?

    

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