how to feel sexy with no boobs??
I like my new body for the most part. I can handle the lose skin on my arms, belly and inner thighs. But I am hating my boobs! I feel so unwomanly and unsexy. They look like little deflated saggy things and I feel worried about dating given how I'm feeling about this part of my body.
How did you adjust to the less than ideal parts of your new body and find your groove again?? Suggestions and advice are welcome!
How did you adjust to the less than ideal parts of your new body and find your groove again?? Suggestions and advice are welcome!
Sandy Surgery Jan.18,2012 with Dr. Timothy Jackson at TWH.
Bras didn't fix mine, no way, no how. I had plastics. I have to say I love them even now, two years later. Nothing in the world like looking down naked and there are your nipples. And they are firm, and for the life of me I can't ever remember having firm bewbies :)
Bonnie
Bonnie
I can do hard things, life is teaching me that I can.
Lost 222lbs with rny, 20 lbs regain.
Plastics, July 2010 with Dr. Sauceda in Monterrey, Mexico
I bought a fantastic bra from Walmart, "sweet nothings" is the name on it. It has three little silver circles or dots on the little piece between the breasts. It only cost me $18.
My boobs look awesome and I feel sexy. Without it I look flat like a board and I've decided to get plastics as swell.
Like you I really miss my breasts most of all.
My boobs look awesome and I feel sexy. Without it I look flat like a board and I've decided to get plastics as swell.
Like you I really miss my breasts most of all.
The right bra helps with boobage looking good under clothes. If you are talking naked, then yes plastics are all you can do...but with clothes you can look like you are much more endowed by pushing the girls up with a good bra.
I only buy bras at LaSenza. I'm done with Sears and Walmart. Properly getting fit is good too. I only buy the ITECH by LaSenza which is comparable to the one from Victoria Secret. They also have various push up bras but I find the ITECH one gives me the best support and lift. My former double D's are now deflated Bs.
Dawn
I only buy bras at LaSenza. I'm done with Sears and Walmart. Properly getting fit is good too. I only buy the ITECH by LaSenza which is comparable to the one from Victoria Secret. They also have various push up bras but I find the ITECH one gives me the best support and lift. My former double D's are now deflated Bs.
Dawn
17+ years post op RNY. first year blog here or My LongTimer blog. Tummy Tuck Dr. Matic 2014 -Ohip funded panni
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HW:290 LW:139 RW: 167 CW: 139
A good bra does wonders. But more than that, a good healthy dose of self-confidence and a flair for the art of flirting does even more. :)
Karen
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Real Men Love Boobs!!!
All Boobs!
Big,small,flat,pointing south,pointing east west.
WE LOVE THEM ALL.!!
Just like shiny objects>>>>SQUIRREL
You know what they say..."once you've seen one pair...you wanna see them All
Get out there and date and trust me that when your getting naked for a little something something he's just as concerned about how he looks.
Happy Dating Sista!
Spence
All Boobs!
Big,small,flat,pointing south,pointing east west.
WE LOVE THEM ALL.!!
Just like shiny objects>>>>SQUIRREL
You know what they say..."once you've seen one pair...you wanna see them All
Get out there and date and trust me that when your getting naked for a little something something he's just as concerned about how he looks.
Happy Dating Sista!
Spence
Opti Weight-386lbs.............Surgery Weight- 355 lbs...........Goal Weight- 200lbs 
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