inconclusive US

So, I went to my first oB appt. and my nightmare of a blighted ovum or missed abortion seem to be coming true.  I should be 8 weeks along according to LMP, but could be a week behind because of funny cycles and uncertain ovulation dates.  At any rate, no heart activity seen on US, everything else ok.  So, it's not clear if this is a viable fetus or not.  Have a recheck on Wednesday next week... in 10 days.   It's going to be a long 10 days.

If you're not certain of your ovulation date, I wouldn't worry just yet. There's not a whole lot to see before 8 weeks and at this point even a day can make a huge difference in what's visible on an ultrasound.

Stay positive! It'll be a long 10 days but try to relax.
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I'm sorry for the added worry...and pray you get good results in 10 days. 

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I know how you feel, I am going through the exact same thing myself.  I had my first US last week and it too came back inconclusive.  I go again this Wednesday for a rescan.  I am keeping my fx BIG TIME!!!  I too had a blighted ovum and a second mc last year as well.  So, ummm, yep, best of wishes too you.  Good Luck!!!

Sherry Lynne,

You're in my prayers too!  Keep your chin up and good good luck!!  Please let us know what happens...

Linda, Just remember that Prayer is what needs to happen right now. 

That and you have to try and not worry b/c stress is not a good thing for you at this time either.  They get the dates wrong ALL the time.  Not everybody is like clockwork and it could have just been that you ovulated later than thought and you arent to the magical point where they could see the hb. 

You said that "everything else ok"  That is a miracle in itself-everything so far is ok, you just may not be far enough along.  Remember you have alot of ppl on here and I am sure you have ppl close to you that are keeping you and that precious lil one in their thoughts and prayers. 

Prayers change things and we have to remember that GOD is still in control and its in HIS time and not ours and that is sooooo hard to remember sometimes b/c we are a society of I want it NOW kinda thought process and sometimes you have to take a step back and let GOD work the miracles. 

BIG HUGS to you and that precious lil one and hopin for a good strong hb next Weds 

Good luck to you. The 10 days does seem like forever. I wish you the best and I'll pray for you!

Thanks everyone for all the kind thoughts and support.  I'm going to try my best to stay positive and at the same time, what is meant to be will be and out of my hands.  It will be a long 10 days without doubt and I'll keep myself occupied as best I can... trying not to obsess!  Best wishes to all of you!!

Linda