Sad News

My baby stopped growing 8 days ago.
Today I was having some light spotting and cramping. I called the Dr and they told me to go to the urgent care dept. 4 hours later, they did a sonogram and no cardiac activity was found. I just had a feeling someting was wrong. Tomorrow I am supposed to go to my dr. to discuss what my options are. My husband and I are devastated and it has not even sunk in yet. I would like to try again in a few months. Everyone knows, I told everyone when I found out at 4 weeks. Now I know why most people are hesitant when spreading the word, You never think it can happen to you.
Anyway, thank you ladies for all the advice and support I have gotten here. I will continue to loiter and hopefully will be back in a few months. Best wishes to everyone and their little ones.

I am so sorry.

I am so sorry...

I'm so sorry.  I will keep you in my prayers

Aww, damn. I'm really sorry for your loss. Lots of love to you and your husband during this difficult time.

I am thinking of you and your husband. That stinks...

I am so sorry for your loss...I've been through this twice and it doesn't get any easier.  I was also hesitant to tell anyone so early this time, but realized that if I didn't tell anyone, I wouldn't have the support system I needed if something were to happen.  I'm praying for you and praying you'll be blessed with new life again soon :-)

I am really sorry to learn of your loss- you and your family are in my thoughts. 

So sorry to hear this! May God be with you and your family in your time of healing. Best wishes in a happy and healthy pregnancy in the near future. Keep your chin up and don't loose faith! ~Hugs

I am so very sorry. I have also been through this twice and I know how hard it is. I agree with shrinkingarmywife. I told people early too, both times. I knew I would need to lean on them if anything happened so I told them. Please allow yourself to grieve. It's so important.

Tina