Husband moved out Thursday... I need some buddies!

kanga003
on 4/16/11 10:07 pm, edited 4/16/11 10:37 pm
This is a good thing really, he came home a few weeks ago asnd said he foud a situation (buddies house on the market/vacant and not selling... he was gonna rent it...) and he was gonna move out.  I said I thought it was a good idea... he started to make arrangements... a few days later he admited he was just trying to "shock me" into realizing he was serious and that we needed to work on things (ive been trying to get him to work on things for 4 years!)... I wouldn't let him back out of it... we needed to seperate, long story :-)

Any way, I am now in this process as a single mom of a 4 year old, I have some great supporters (he was against it anyway), but I really need some WLS buddies to email/chat with :-(

Anyone wanna take me on?

I'm in New England, 30, a teacher and a mom... and I am looking to branch out and start over :-)  I have my Psyc eval on Monday great timeing!  I'm not stressing about it though :-)

I can't wait to hear from someone :-)

jaded123
on 4/16/11 10:29 pm - MD
Kanga,
I sent you a message :)

J.
toramartin
on 4/16/11 10:33 pm - Kingston, GA
Well, I'm here and by the way what is a DH.
Marie B.
on 4/16/11 10:41 pm - Pitman, NJ
VSG on 09/20/10 with
DH - darling husband (or damn husband, depending your mood!!)
Highest weight ever recorded: 224lbs.    Surgery weight: 194 lbs.
Goal range:  130-135 lbs.
  Lowest:119.7   Current weight 142lbs Height: 5' 2" almost

                     
bekahler
on 4/17/11 12:28 am - Parkville, MD
 I realized the other day during a fit of rage at my DH...it could also be short for DICK HEAD! 

"There are no Strangers Here, Only Unmet Friends" ~Helen Keller        
        
mrsfrogdr
on 4/17/11 1:08 am
I really LOLed!!!!!
Big Frog Kisses,           
 DAWN   
                 
 
                            
sleeve genie
on 4/17/11 2:31 am - Alhambra, CA
      i loved that  :o)   jeani
      the start of my brand new life was on 5/28/10
                
                      aka  jeaniwantsasleeve!!                  

      
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
          
kanga003
on 4/16/11 10:37 pm
Sorry!  I've spent too much time on blogs...DH= husband, well, "dear husband" I think... dosen't apply right now!
toramartin
on 4/16/11 10:45 pm - Kingston, GA
Nice, I really like this one.
VeraG
on 4/16/11 10:46 pm - Bonner Springs, KS
Although I don't know the whole story this sound like it's a good thing.  You can learn how to be single as you learn how to work your sleeve.  Then you will become a new woman inside and out!  You deserve to be treated like a queen and if your DH isn't the one to do that, then that is that.  I usually tell people that getting the sleeve is the best thing they will ever do for themselves, but IDK you may have just done the best thing you can do for yourself.  There is lots of support here for you.  Best of Luck
     
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