What a day!

Sep 13, 2007

Today was filled with lots of activity. It all started somewhere around 4 am when my almost 2 year old finally fell asleep. He's in the midst of transitioning to a big boy bed. He's happy about it but confused about what to do when bedtime comes around. Naptime he's fine with but for some reason nighttime is a challenge.  So I slept in today (on the couch) while my son had his breakfast and watched his requested 30 minutes of VeggieTales.  I have to admit it was hard to wake up but having a little person climb on top of you seems to do just the trick! 

Later on during the morning we heard gushing water somewhere in the house!  I checked all the water connections in the house.  And just as I was hanging up from a phone call found the source of the water: an outdoor faucet connection (that we didn't even know about) that was on!  Who and why would someone turn it on?  After solving the problem, all was better but then it was naptime. I was praying for a less stressful battle and indeed it was.  A few minutes later, Bariatric Radio was on (http://wwww.bariatricradio.com).  I RECOMMEND IT TO ALL!!!  I don't know why but for some reason I felt urged to call in and I did! 
That's a HUGE accomplishment for me because I'm extremely shy and quiet.  But behind a screen I'm more myself.  I'll be posting the link to my call after it is archived on the main website.  My question was regarding obese parents and its affect on their children.    

During my wait to get on the air I checked my TriWest Insurance email and saw my official approval for surery.  Looking at it made me thing: MY GOODNESS! THIS IS IT!  THERE'S NO TURNING BACK NOW." For me, it was very encouraging because I'm been battling the scale all week.  

I can't get the scale to budge for anything in the world!  And yes I've been physically active, but has been limited because of joint pain (one of the reasons I'm having surgery). I just can't believe I'm only 24 years old and already complaining about joint pains.  My mom and grandfather do that...NOT ME!  I'd really appreciate any suggestions for boosting weight loss in a short period of time.  My pre-op appointment is Oct. 3rd and my mom is flying in a week after that.  I hope to get some advice from my support group tonight. 

REMINDER TO ALL CHOMP WLS patients:  September's support group meets tonight at 6:30pm in the conference room!  See ya there!!


 Love to all my OH Family


Top 50 Personal Mini Goals

Sep 09, 2007

My top 50 Personal Mini Goals during my weight loss process.  I want to be able to...

  1. Shop in the regular part of the store for clothes

2. Fit comfortably in an airplane seat without extension belt

3.Cross my legs completely while sitting

4. Weigh less than my husband

5. Not feel my ankles ache

6. Not feel my knees ache

7. Wear heels for longer than 30 minutes, comfortably

8. Feel comfortable with my photo being taken

9. Not feel back pain

10. Have real energy

11. Cross the threshold of our house with my husband carrying me
 
12. Keep up with my son

13. Run with my husband

14. Fit comfortably in the bathtub

15.  To be able to fully wrap myself in a regular-sized bath towel

16. Wear underwear that doesn't resemble a parachute

17. Not have a double chin

18. To reach high school weight of 199 lbs.

19. Fit into a standard restaurant booth

20. Reach high school size of 16/18

21. Feel my collarbones

22. Feel my ribs

23. Wear a bathing suit

24. Wear a bikini (not in public)

25. Feel truly comfortable during sex

26. Take off my own bra from behind

27.  Bending down without having to think about how I'm going to get up

28. No longer pulling my t-shirt down whenever I get up

29.  Not recognized by close friend or family member

30. No longer have body rashes

31. Not have a fear of falling and not being able to get up

32. Hear catcalls from strangers

33. No longer embarrass my family 

34. No longer be a borderline diabetic

35. Force myself to eat because I have to for nutrition

36. Enjoy working out

37. Be able to wear my mom's clothing

38. Have my husband hug me and be able to link his fingers together 

39. Not having the fear of dying in my sleep

40.  Feel confident

41. Truly feeling HEALTHY

42.  Moving without fear of knocking everything over

43. Hearing my husband say "You're sexy" and agreeing

44. Never wanting to eat like I used to
 Picnic 
45. Achieving a healthy pregnancy

46.  Eat at a restaurant like a normal (average weight) person

47. Fit into old clothes in storage closet

48. Buy new FASHIONABLE (NOT COMFORTABLE) WARDROBE

49. Feel comfortable in my new body

50. Go on our first date...again...the way I REALLY wanted it to be






 

 

 


Nighttime munchies

Sep 06, 2007

So tonight is the first night in I don't know how long since I haven't had the late night munchies. I found this website (www.thinnerself.com) from a forum suggestion.  It is awesome! And it gives some great information about water intake on the nutrition page.  So I took it to heart today. I've been drinking water throughout the day. I measured today at about 80 oz before the night munchies usually kick in.  One the site it says (and I've heard this before from my nutitionist) that most people can't tell the difference between hunger pangs and thirst and when most people think they're hungry, they're actually thirsty.  So I sipped on water throughout the evening hours (until I go to bed at least--in 20 minutes) and I discovered that I wasn't ever really, REALLY hungry, like I usually am.  So it turns out I really was thirsty all this time!  WATER IS AMAZING.  I will now suggest that to anyone who complains of nighttime munchies: "Have you had enough water today?"  I did, admittedly, have a fat-free pudding cup but it's that time of the month for me. I had to have a little bit of chocolate!  

I'm back on my recommending eating plan after taking a unnecessary break earlier this week due to family issues, etc.  Basically I was staying up with my husband while he studied for his advancement exam and I of course did what do we do when we stay up?--We snack. So I snacked away have of my weight loss, which according to my surgeon on the 29th was actually only 7 lbs.!   Apparently my scale is VERY nice!  So hint, hint, mom, guess what I want for Christmas.   So I justified it by saying I was being supportive of my husband when he needed me, when in fact I was using his need to stay up as an opportunity to raid the frige with every bit of my being.  

Okay people, I'd better go to bed. I'm exhausted and as you saw in my earlier post, I've got quite a day ahead of me.  Come back later and check the ticker on my site for the countdown update.  

And my fellow OH members remember... 
Don't let the nighttime munchies munch on you. 
  Bite 'em back! 

And be sure to get your water in for the day!
 


There's always tomorrow

Sep 06, 2007

Tomorrow will be an interesting day. Tomorrow I'm forcing myself to get back to work at my home business (http://setyourownhours.yestosuccess.com/) and I'm going to be calling my grandfather tomorrow and telling him about my surgery. I would really like him to be here for it and I'm going to be asking him about it tomorrow.  Still not sure who else I may be telling about my surgery. So far the only people I've told have been my husband, one of my best friends, my mother, and my son's babysitter (in case I need a last minute babysitter).  

Which individuals have other members told about their surgery?  

I'm Back

Sep 05, 2007

I can't believe I'm saying this but TriWest approved my surgery and I now have an official scheduled surgery date: October 15th at 8am.  I told some of my family already and they're very excited for me.   I wish I could have had a different surgery date option because it's the day before my 3rd wedding anniversary, but my husband was very understanding.   We'll celebrate the weekend before.  


Still no "official" date

Aug 30, 2007

Curious how my appointment yesterday???  I still don't have an "official"  date but my surgeon's staff said it would either Sept. 30 or sooner!  How crazy is that?!?  I didn't think it would be that soon.  


Appt. with Surgeon

Aug 29, 2007

Wow!  Has it really been that long sinced I blogged??? I guess so.  Well the latest news is that going out with my family to dinner two days ago did cost me a set back (about 2.5 lbs).  I THINK I worked it off yesterday but I know it will take a couple of days before it shows up on the scale.  BUT TODAY is my day to weigh in with my surgeon.   I know I shouldn't be nervous, but I am.  

Below are some images I found online that were all too interesting
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Pre-Surgery Goal Weight

Aug 25, 2007

So as of today I've lost 15 lbs.   I'm really excited and can't wait for my surgeon to see.  So I met my pre-surgery goal weight!  YYYEEEEEEEEAAAAAAHHHHHHHHH!!!   And my new BMI is 49.9!!! 
WOOOO HOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!  It's going to be a great weekend.

Learning about myself

Aug 24, 2007

Yesterday was a day that I won't forget.  I haven't had "bad carbs" in the last three weeks and yesterday I had some for lunch with my son...and boy did I feel it two hours later!  I was queasy, irritable and extremely tired. I could have truly gone to sleep for the night! 

When I woke up this morning I realized something significant:  my morning sleepiness was gone.   It used to be that when I woke up in the morning, I would still be so tired that I'd take an hour nap in the morning on the couch not long after waking up.  But the last few days, I haven't had to!  It's been a personal goal achieved.  

So if you've checked out my ticker lately you'll see that I've lost a significant amount of weight, especially for only 3 weeks.  I have to say it's because of limiting my daily calorie intake to 1200-1400 vs. 3000 calories a day and incorporating 30 minutes of daily exercise (most of the time led by my energetic 21 month old).  And any moms out there with young kids, here's a tip if you ever have trouble getting your exercise routine to a higher level: let your little one lead you.  For instance, when I used to go walking, I'd push my son in a stroller.  Now I put a walking leash on him and he sets the walking pace, which is definitely faster than my own (he loves to RUN)!!!  Today is going to be a little more difficult to get active because it's really cold outside.  But we'll just bundle up tight and go outside.  We LOVE playing outside!

Oh and I forgot, I found this photo that really reminds me of myself.  Tell me what you think:

After his weight loss surgery, Glenn Goldberg lost over 160 pounds and a host of medical problems.


Breakthrough

Aug 23, 2007

Today was the breakthrough...I'm down 2.5 lbs this morning, bringing my total weight loss to 11 lbs.  Now, just to maintain that for 6 days (until my appt. with my doctor)!!!  I'll do my best.  

I attended CHOMP(Community Hospital of the Monterey Peninsula)'s advanced gastric bypass support group.  It was very informative, especially since members of this group have had their surgery 12 or more months ago.  The main topic of discussion was overcoming snacking.  One important thing I learned is that if you're snacking or having "cravings" it is probably due to dehydration.  The dietician suggested drinking a glass of water and then waiting a little while to see if your "hunger" subsides.  I tried it earlier today and it does work.  The topic of discussion is how do you deal with foods that your body may or may not handle.  For instance, one woman said that she treats sugar as if it were cigarettes (she's an ex-smoker), she avoids it like the plague.  

We finally decided to go on vacation...after not having one this summer and our last one being early January. We're going home for Christmas and New Year's!!!

 


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