o/a The ****e i****ting the fan

Oh, you wouldn't even believe it if I showed you - it's really quite something. Or nothing., LOL

You mean mine  wasn't memorable at the last Milton meeting I saw ya at?   Still I would never want Jlo implants like some women get, thank you very much.   

Oh yeah?  You wanna compare flat asses?? LOL 

Hey Heather,

I tend to agree with Kelly. If you have a boyfriend you have already sort of made your decision.

I wish you well in whatever you do. I am here for you anytime

BIG HUGS  

You have a lot of decicions to make and I don't evny you.  Agree with Kelly that the marriage was over one you stepped out.  I'll be thinking of you.  (hug)

Yes but let's remember lots of couples do work it out after having had affairs or else a heck of a lot more people would be split up.  Usually we kind of know deep down when it's salvageable and when it's not most of us with exes will agree I think.

True enough - good point.

Wow, I'm kinda shocked about the whole boyfriend thing. Does your husband know??
I agree with Kelly, you've already ended your marriage.

I'm sorry you're going through such a rough time. Hope you can get things back together.

Heather,

I can't even imagine going through all the things you have been dealing with. I hope you find a resolution soon that makes you happy. Those of us that really care about you are here to support you in any way we can.

Bev

Hey girl been there done that kinda of going through that. (not the bf but financial) Chin up the most important thing to do now is to move on heal yourself first cause you are the most important key.  I know people may think it is wrong but I say leave both of them and show yourself how strong you are that you can do it on your own.  You are a beautiful woman and I know when you find yourself and trust me once you are truly happy and love yourself again, you will then be open to a world of opportunity of successful healthy men.

I feel your pain and wish I could make it all go way and make it better.  Chin up bright roads once you make the hard decision promise.

Liz