Marneyb1209
And my world is flipped upside down...(my name should be Alice)
Sep 18, 2012
2012 has not been my year... Back in June (the 15th to be precise) my world started falling apart around me. I had to call the paramedics because my husband was not responsive and lost control of his bodily functions. They came to the house and rushed him to the ER.Long story short he ended up having a 9cm brain tumor (an anaplastic astrocytoma glioma grade 3) and had emergency brain surgery the next morning. They were able to get most of it but there were some major blood vessels running through the center of it so he had to follow up with radiation and chemotherapy. We were having problems long before this came about but when I realized that this had been causing his behavior changes over the past couple years I decided that all was forgiven and that I would be here for him through it all.
Fast forward to the beginning of August. A mutual friend of ours called me because a girl my husband was friends with kept calling him and asking when I was with my husband, I had already had to kick her out of the hospital for not following the procedure we had in place for visitors because of his rough recovery. Finding this out made me suspicious so I had his friend get into his cell phone, something I hadn't done to that point figuring he'd make a full recovery and that it was his personal space. I found out that he had been having an affair with her. And ALSO another woman that lives out of town. The one that is local he's been seeing since fall of last year and the long distance one he's been seeing since I was pregnant with our twins, as far as I can track. He even went to Vegas with her and I didn't think anything of it. I have never been a jealous woman nor suspicious of his having mostly women as friends.
I have since filed for divorce and am in the middle of that. His family has been both supportive (to my face) and being nasty and money grubbing behind my back.
So yeah, that's my journey down the rabbit hole and I'm tired of things getting curiouser and curiouser.
0 Comments
About Me
Phoenix, AZ
Location
30.6
BMI
Surgery
08/14/2007
Surgery Date
Aug 04, 2007
Member Since
