Sandra Johnson Smiddy

Life after RNY - A new beginning

Sep 23, 2007




September 23rd, 2007

Sep 23, 2007

Sunday...."This is the day the Lord has made, rejoice and be glad in it"

Well yesterday was eventful.  I went to the Apple Festival and walked my butt off.  It was great to be out, but I think I may have over did it.  I carried a small bag around with a few of my purchases.  Not sure if that caused my problem or not, but my wound on the left side started draining pretty heavily.  Once this started we left for home and I went straight to bed.  Slept for an hour and felt better.   The draining had stopped.  After I woke up I went and got my hair done.   Was shooting for my blonde look again, but I don't think my new hair dresser gets that I want to be BLONDE so I'm still brown with small highlights.  We had a birthday party after that so by 8:00p.m I was ready to crash and burn.  I came home and hit the couch and watched a movie then went to bed.  When I woke up this morning I was soaked in drainage.  It is a clear, golden color drainage, but it was really coming out.  It seems that the more I drain, the better I feel and can move around better.  I'm still on the antibiotic and have a dr. appt. on Wednesday.  I'm going by what the NP said and that was that it was better out than in.  I'm a little uneasy about it, but no too.  A friend of mine from OH said she experienced the same thing.   So I won't worry until I have too.

When I weighed yesterday I weighed 281....well I still weigh that this morning.  I was hoping to keep losing daily, but I guess I've hit a bump.  I walked a lot yesterday so maybe I toned some muscle?  I'm not going to fret over it because at least I stayed 281.   Weighing daily is absurd anyway, but I just wanted to record it for my blog.  So I'll be absurd.

September 21st, 2007 - 11 days post op

Sep 21, 2007

Thank you God, I'm feeling loads better.  I still have the pulling in the left side, but it is soo much better today.  I had to call the Dr. office again today.  I have had some golden drainage coming from the largest wound site on my left side.  It was a little more than a little today so I got nervous and called the Dr.  The NP said that it was better for that to come out than to stay in.  She had told me to use a heating pad yesterday so she said that was bringing it out.  Not to worry, but keep taking the antibiotic...so I am.  I am having to open the capsule and take it with my pureed pears.  It is not the greatest, but if it helps...hey I'm doing it.  I layed around the house all day today.  My neighbor came over and we had a quite morning watching TV.  She stayed until around noon or so.  Then in the afternoon Carol an old friend from an old job came over again and stayed the afternoon.  I made some Potato Soup that I had bought on our trip to Gatlinburg.  I had bought it from the Old Mill Store.  My was it ever tasty.  I'm going to order some more of that.  Carol joined me for a bowl.  She had to leave around 2p.m.  After she left I layed on the couch until my daughter got home from school around 3p.m.  She and I ended up taking a very long nap.  We didn't wake up until almost 7p.m.  I think I was starved when I woke up.  Not sure though as I'm not getting hungry.  That probably doesn't make sense, but I had some pureed refried beans and salsa w/ melted cheese and sourcream.  It was very tasty.  I couldn't eat very much of the cheese because it got too hard.

Tomorrow I am going to the Apple Festival.  I'm hoping I will be okay.  My neighbor said we could park close to everything and that we could stop any time I needed to.  So we are planning on leaving around 9a.m.  I have to be back home by 2p.m because I'm getting my hair colored and my nails done...remember....back to work on Monday.  I've got to figure out what to wear since this left side is causing me fits.  It is tough to have anything rub it.  Thank God we are allowed to wear jeans until the end of the month.  I'll probably drag out a pair of my elastic waist jeans so they will stretch.

My son said he looked at my latest picture and that he could tell in my face I was losing.  The pictures aren't very good because I haven't done my hair or put on makeup since surgery.  Hopefully Sunday I will be able to put some good pictures on.

Well...hope everyone else is doing okay tonight.  I'm praying for everyone who has surgery this week.  God will give you peace.  Just ask for it.

September 20th, 2007

Sep 20, 2007

I did a lot of walking today.  I'm pooped out.  Took a long nap on the couch again.  Sure will miss that when I go back to work on Monday.  Think they would let me bring a pillow for a nap? 

The pain in my left side has subsided a little.  I called the Dr. about it today and they called me in some Keflex just in case there is an infection.  The NP I talked to on the phone was the one who goes to surgery with Dr. Curry.  She said she was the one that has caused my pain in my left side.  She said she works the right side of surgery while Dr. Curry works the left.  She said one of the first things she does is take a needle with a suture on the end of it and runs it very deep into the stomach cavity on the left side.  She said they attach the stitch to a muscle to keep the bowel from coming up during surgery when they are doing the stappling.  She said it would take 6-8 weeks for the stitch to disolve.  Oh boy isn't this going to be fun.  

I've started feeling the gas from surgery now.  Not sure if I have all along and didn't know what it was, but it's like the 4th of July around here tonight....I know....TMI TMI, but it happens. LOL.   My NP said they filled me up really big with gas so they can see everything.  Then after they finish the surgery they deflate you.  I was hoping they got all of the gas out, but I guess not.  It is a little uncomfortable.  

I can't believe that I have to go back to work in less than 4 days.  I'm not sure I am ready, but I have to be.  As long as I can drive there (50 min. drive one way) and sit all day I'll be okay.  We will just have to see.



September 19, 2007

Sep 19, 2007

I'm feeling better every day.  However, still got the left side pain.  I guess it is because they cut a muscle in my stomach????  Sure wish it would go away.  From talking with others who have had the surgery some have this pain and some don't.  Sure wish I was in the "some don't" category.  It hurts the most when I am sitting up straight or trying to walk straight.  

My sugar is good....116.  Started taking vitamins today.  I am taking Bariatric Advantage supplements.  

Calcium Citrate - Cinnamon Flavored - 2 per day,
Multi Formulat w/ B-Complex and Essential Minerals - 2 per day, Passion Fruit Chewable Iron - 1 per day,  and Sublingual B-12 - 1 per week.  

Had quite a few visitors today.  My SIL and neice have been coming over and picking up the house for me; making my bed, laundry, etc.  My ex-SIL (Peggy) and her husband and mom stopped by for a while today.  She was my angel in the hospital.  My neighbor and BF Kim comes by every day.  I talked with my friend Brenda who lives in Florida for a while on the phone tonight.  It was good to talk with her.  Then tonight two girls from work stopped by.  So it has been a busy day.  I did take a long nap on the couch between 3p.m. - 6p.m. though.  Best sleep I have had so far.  

I dropped another couple lbs.  It is amazing that the weight is just dropping off like this.  Of course I can hold in my hand what I am eating per day.  Then of course any type of activity is burning calories.  The gals from work said they can tell that I have lost weight already.  Yahoo!!!

I'm not sure if I am eating right.  Not sure if I am spacing things out like I should.  I pureed a Mcdonald's cheeseburger today.  You know me and cheeseburgers.  Okay...so it wasn't the best, but it did taste like it a little.   Won't try that again for a while though.  It was to pasty.  Didn't sit right.  I haven't found anything that I can't tolerate yet, but sometimes I eat to fast or swallow to big of a bite and it kind of sits funny.  I'll get this down though.  I have to figure out how I am going to take food to work.   I'll probably work on that tomorrow so I am ready to go back on Monday.  My mind is ready to go back to work...my body is not.   Hopefully by Monday my body will be with the plan.   


September 18, 2007 - Good Morning Sunshine!!

Sep 17, 2007

Okay..so did they put an automatic alarm clock inside me?  I am waking up every morning at 5a.m.  Not that I mind, but I was never a morning person.  I am sure that part of it is this annoying pain that I continue to have in my left side.  It is getting better though as I was able to lay on my left and right side to sleep last night.  I took it really easy yesterday and laid on the couch all day.  May have been what I needed.  I have been taking it easy, but not just laying around.  I was afraid to just lay and lay and lay.  Didn't want to risk a blood clot or anything.   Are we suppose to know when we are hungry?   I'm not sure if I am experiencing any kind of hunger awareness like before RNY.  I do seem to get empty, but I drink water and I'm good.  Once the pain in my side is gone I may be able to tell more if it is hunger awareness that I am experiencing.   I could go without eating, but I am eating my proteins and drinking the liquids.  I am losing about 1-2 lbs. per day.  That is exciting.  Can't wait until I can get a regimend of exercise going.  I know it will come off faster when I can do that.  Just too soon after surgery for me though.  

Michael and Brittany came up for a while yesterday.   We were laying around watching TV and I heard Brittany mention that it would be a good time for her to buy a wedding dress...someone must be having a sale.  Well that reminded me that I get to buy a beautiful SMALLER SIZE dress for the wedding.  They haven't set a date yet so I don't know how much time I have, but I'm setting a goal of a size 14.  I'd like to be a 12, but I'm not sure how fast the weight will fall off.  They need to set a date so I can have a timeline (HINT HINT)

September 16th, 2007 - OMG - 1st trip to Walmart Supercenter

Sep 16, 2007

Well I decided I wanted to get out and walk today.  I rode with my neighbor (my bf Kim) to Walmart.  My daughter followed us up so she could bring my groceries back.  I walked 258 turtle steps.  Better than yesterday LOL.  I am exhausted.  Only had tylenol for pain today.  So pain is getting better.   I will definetly sleep well tonight.  I ended up sleeping in until 11:00a.m. today because I was up so late last night.  This kind of threw me off of my food schedule.  I am not hungry, but I don't want to go without food.  I know I need food.  I had 30 cc's of oatmeal today.  My husband took a picture of his bowl compared to my bowl.  He can't believe that I am full from what I eat.  I was craving toast so he gave me a circle cut out of the center of his toast.  That was the best thing I've ate yet.  After that I had water, water, water.  Then I had some s/f pudding.  Water, water, water.  The I pureed some Wendy's chili.  It was very tasty.  Then it is back to water, water, water.  I don't think I have had enough meals today that included protein.   I'll have to watch that going forward.  I have long full hair, but I don't want to take any chances on any of it falling out.  Plus I think you heal from the protiens also.  I have a lot of healing to do in the next week.  It is back to work on the 24th for me.

September 16th, 2007 2:40am-Am I a night owl or an early bird?

Sep 15, 2007

I took a very long nap this evening and I just couldn't sleep.  I thought I would use the time to get caught up on my emails and blogging.  I have been so sleepy from the pain meds that I didn't feel like I was making much sense so I decided to hold off on emailing or blogging.  

I am doing very well.  I have only discomfort on my left side and this is all I have had throughout the entire surgery.  Thank God.

We were so late getting to the hospital the morning of surgery.  I had a hard time getting everyone up at 4:30 in the morning.  I called my dad who insisted he go with us, we picked him up.  Of course my husband wasn't moving very fast so I blame him for us being late.  We were suppose to be at the hospital by 6:30a.m., but it was 7:00a.m before we arrived.  I was very aggrivated, but tried very hard to not show it.  I didn't want my blood pressure to go up and them cancel the surgery.  As soon as I got there they started working on me.  Of course I made the mistake of telling the foreign anestiologist that my throat hurt from throwing up the day before.  (A little nervouse attack the day before).  I thought for sure he was going to cancel the surgery.  They ended up giving me an antibiotic pack and moved forward.  (They probably give this to everyone)...anyway....by 8:20a.m. I was heading to or.  I remember two wonderful door greeters meeting me at the operating room doors.  One gal was from Jamaca (sp)...I could tell by her accient.  She told me her name, but I can't remember.   The guy said he was assistang Dr. Curry. They were both very happy and in high spirits.  I could hear some rock n roll playing on the speakers in the or.  The anastetiologist was very nice also.  She was just talking up a storm asking me questions about my kids and all.  The next thing I hear is her asking someone if she can get started.  Then she tells me to think of a good dream.  So I grabbed my husband and kids and hugged them tight and said, "Jesus, I need you...please take the wheel....and then I heard....Mrs. Hubbard you are in recovery you are all finished."  This was one hour later.  They put my cpap on me to come out of the anestetia.  I was so glad to get that off of me.  Once I did I felt way better.  I think it helped to open up my lungs though.  Of course I started my period in recovery.  We did what my NP said we would do...just stuck a pad on.  Who cared at that point.  I must have been a hoot in recovery.  The nurses laughed at me much later telling me I was the first person that ever wanted to brush their teeth in recovery.  That anestia just left a gross taste in my mouth.  

Well I have awakened everyone in the household now...so I'd better call it quits.  Everyone wants to know what I need, why didn't I wake them, etc.  My husband has been at my beck and call.  What a great guy he is.  


September 14th, 2007 - 3rd day post op

Sep 14, 2007

Well not a 100% yet, but moving closer.  I am doing great.  I am just so sleepy and I realize that I can't spell worth a hoot when I am sleepy.  Today I reduced down the pain meds.  I think they were a little much.  

I am eating pureeds now.  My first big meal was pureed chicken breast and pureed mashed potatoes.  It was just like having mannah fall down from heaven.  It was good.  A lot of things taste salty though.  Not sure what that means.  I tried a popsicle tonight and it was so salty I couldn't eat it.

Any way...a lot of friends have been by.  My MIL is here tonight.  She is staying to take care of me.  Probably the other way around, but husband and I are both being nice...she wants to feell like she is helping so we are letting her.  My dad came up today and he and I slept the whole time.  He is 83 and boy can we both sleep sitting straight up in the chair.   LOL.  

Well...I'll write more tomorrow.  I think I will be closer to normal tomorrow.


Thanks for all of the get well wishes.  I appreciate all of you.


Septembver 12, 2007 1 day post op

Sep 12, 2007

I'm not 100%, but i am about 85%. LOL. The surgery went well.  I've been up walking already.  Even started eating jello.  Had a shower.  Having trouble staying awake.  I will blog more later.

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Fairfield, OH
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09/11/2007
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Aug 06, 2007
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