Has this happened to you?

Sep 07, 2011

I've read many blogs where after people have lost a significant amount of weight, people that they thought were their friends, turned on them.  I have not gone through that yet, but something a litlle weird happened today and yesterday.  This is a person that works in the same building I do, different departments, so we don't see each other that often.  But I have gone to one of her birthday parties because her birthday is the same as mine, and she was my realtor that sold me the house I currently live in for 3 yrs now.  So when we see each other in passing, we speak and laugh, maybe have a very short "how have you been?" conversation. Well I so happened to see her yesterday and today, and might I add she is younger than I am, and has always been pretty with a beautifully shaped body, and nice clothes.  So even at the point I'm at now, I would think I would still be considered fat to her.  Well when she passed me yesterday, I spoke to her, and she did speak back and smiled, but she kept looking straight ahead, never turned even the slightest to make eye contact and kept walking.  So I didn't think much of it, until I saw her again this morning, and the same thing, she spoke, kept looking straight ahead and it honestly looked as if she was making sure she did not look my way, and kept going.  I'm like, WTF? I can't imagine speaking to someone without looking at them, that seems rude in my opinion. But oh well, I could be making too much of this, but it's definitely something new and it's funny that it happened two days in a row.  Especially from someone that you thought you were cool with.  I won't lose any sleep over it though.

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