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Thank you all! ?
I have another question- Is there an app for this support group and if so, what is it called?
I'm using my internet browser and it's a pain. Lol.
on 10/20/21 3:52 pm
Have you talked to your medical team? If you're throwing up multiple times a day, they should be aware and assist. You could also see if eating slower, chewing more help since you called them out as areas of concern. You could also take a step back in your food progression and see if that helps, the rules are General so some people do better progressing slower.
They may also be able to help you with the mental aspects as well. There have been a number of posters that refer to having had buyers remorse (short term) while going through the healing process and the hormone dump so that could be it too -- but your medical team should be able to help determine if it's that or something else.
good luck!!!

HW: 306 SW: 282 GW: 145 (reached 2/6/19) CW:150
Jen
Please be patient with yourself. Your only a month out and your body is still healing. The body is saying "What the f did you do to me?" It does get better.
Here is how I used to explain this to new patients. I showed them an empty 2-liter soda bottle. That represented their old stomach and it was a conservative size. It is about 28 ounces. Some people's old stomach held 40 ounces. Then I showed them the cap from the soda bottle. That represents the size of their new stomach. That is the amount of food to fill you up.
I did not even eat anything soft until three weeks, just liquid. Then graduated to purees of applesauce consistency. I started eating more solid things like steak and salad after three months. By six months, I could handle a half slice of toast. By 18 months, I could eat most of a six inch sub sandwich from Subway.
Fourteen years later, I can eat a meal like a normal person. My first Thanksgiving was a one inch cube of turkey, one teaspoon mashed potatoes, and seven kernels of corn. I was stuffed.
Now I look back and miss the days when I was newly out of surgery and could eat such tiny amounts of food and be full. Take advantage of this period of getting full quickly and lose as much weight as you can. By Thanksgiving 2023 you will be able to eat a full meal and be worrying about weight gain again.

Real life begins where your comfort zone ends
I had gastric bypass on September 22nd and I feel the exact same way you do! I literally cry every day. I lost over 50 pounds myself during the 6 month weight checks and my family thinks I should have just done it myself instead of going through with this surgery. I am struggling with mental illness since I had this done, I feel so depressed. I just want to go back to normal!
Hello!
I had Gastric Bypass Surgery on September 22nd and I am absolutely miserable! I'm regretting this tremendously! Everything I eat gets stuck and I imagine it's from not chewing well enough and/or eating too fast. But it's not just when I eat solid foods, it also happened once when I drank water, then another time was when I was eating tuna solid.. I literally throw up like 2-3 times a day.
I'm dreading Thanksgiving because we're hosting this year and making all this yummy food and I'm barely going to be able to eat. And it's not the small portions that bothers me, it's the food getting stuck in my esophagus that really annoys me.
My mental health is not doing too good. I've suffered with depression before this and thought that this would help because who doesn't want to be thin and better looking? But now I'm starting to find that I was happier eating what I want, when I wanted. I'm just not the same. I don't want to do anything anymore, nor have the energy to do so. I cry almost every single day. Sad thing is, I could've did this without the surgery. I lost over 50 pounds on my own in 6 months before I got the surgery. I got the surgery to speed things along, I suppose. I'm just truly regretting this.
Please tell me this gets better? Please tell me my body will eventually be back to normal?
Thank you Melody! Appreciate your advice and personal experience. I have tried other antidepressants before and none made me feel this out of it.
you're probably fine - I threw up a few times early out. But like the other poster said, just let your surgeon's office know.
Best thing to do is call your doctor. Was it just that you were nauseous or did you eat something that was too much?
on 10/19/21 6:52 am - Amarillo, TX
I have taken it before and for me it didn't work well enough to outweigh the loopy feeling. I now take Effexor and a few others. It works "ok" for me right now and is keeping me even keel.
Not one drug works for everyone so lexapro may not be the one for you. Listen to your body and doctor. My only big advice to to not stop taking something cold turkey, wean off of it if you feel you must. Be your biggest advocate!