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21 post RNY here... I think there is so much the medical community just flat didn't know yet. I came home with instructions for Flintstones vitamins and some kid of chocolate calcium chews. Period. That's it! And I had a absolutely fantastic surgeon, but the follow up just wasn't there
LAWD, the things/people have seen in the past 2 decades!
I wish you good luck, in all sincerity, with finding the health needs you seek
RNY 4-22-02...
LW: 6lb,10 oz SW:340lb GW:170lb CW:155
We Can Do Hard Things
on 9/23/23 8:52 am
How did your appointments go?

HW 282, LW 123.4 (8/29/23), CW 144.4
Pre-op-33, M1-12, M2-17, M3-14, M4-11, M5-14, M6-5, M7-6, M8-5, M9-22, M10-6, M11-5, M12-2, M13-2, M14-5
When I was researching this stuff, I started by talking to people who've already gone through it, and they recommended talking to Dr. Treen from the Surgical Clinic Of Louisiana. He answered all my questions and was also the doc who managed my surgery.
Another advice is to check if your insurance covers this kind of surgery. I am covered at Covering Central Florida, and they covered my bariatric surgery with no questions. It was a big relief for my pocket.
You could consider their insurance plan to avoid all the costs. To find more information, you can read about when is open enrollment 2024, and there you will find all the details to get their plan.
"will not help you unless you get to the core of of why you emotional eat"
THIS ??????
None of us got to the point we needed wls because we're happy. Until THAT is addressed and the work, the REALLY hard work is done, nothing will keep the weight from coming back on, or transferring that behavior to something else.
I hope you feel better soon and have a productive first WLS appointment.
I agree with Kathleen's advice. I was hesitant at first if I should tel anyone at all. However, many years have passed after my surgery and I think telling your children that you are on a new journey to getting healthy and that they will see some changes in your body and how you eat is a good idea. You could even show them some before and after pictures here on ObesityHelp and talk to them about how the surgery works. Also, many surgeons/centers welcome family members to attend a support group or consult session so that family can understand the process, the surgery etc.
Agree with you. I believe it's important to let your kids know that you're embarking on a new health adventure and that they may expect to notice some changes in your appearance and eating habits as a result. If they are interested in learning more about the operation, you can even show them some before and after photographs from ObesityHelp and explain the process to them.
Dr Alexander Abkin is a specialized surgeon in New Jersey, you should visit him personally and seek guidance regarding your issues.
on 9/13/23 12:36 am
Hey there, I've read your incredible stories.
I just wanted to chime in and offer my support to GRANDMAr and Kathleen W. for their strength in facing weight regain after surgery, especially during such challenging times with the loss of loved ones. Your resilience is truly inspiring.
Stay strong, and remember that setbacks are a part of the journey. You've both shown incredible determination, and I believe you'll achieve your goals once again.
Sending positive vibes your way!






