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FinallyBecomingMe
on 9/6/22 8:26 am, edited 9/6/22 1:27 am
Topic: RE: How Do You Deal With Boredom in a Non Food Related Way?

In my hotel room I have this tiny little refrigerator which I stuffed full from the first day.

I hoard food like I?ll never get any more !

Im about to go on a four hour hike in an Eco Park and I packed literally three buns ( one sugared) about a pound of cold cuts and condiments , fruit , drinks ?. I mean enough for a WEEK lol!

And don?t try to take it away lol!

of course I won't actually eat it - it just makes me feel safe . Crazy right?

Alexpope
on 9/6/22 5:29 am
RNY on 10/21/20
Topic: RE: Protein shake

You are still in your liquid phase so the goal is to drink/sip on your protein shake throughout the day as well as drink clear liquids. The protein shake is to keep your nutrients up and the clear liquids are to keep you from getting dehydrated. Since your stomach is small you will only be able to sip but you do this all day so you can get those 2 shakes and clear liquids in.

Right now you are in the healing stages of your surgery so they want you to only do liquids and then you will gradually reintroduce foods to your new stomach to be sure you are tolerating them. Over time you will be able to eat more but the goal is to not go overeat and stretch out your stomach so you only do the recommended ounces your surgeon states. I was told to eat no more than 4 oz at a meal and right now I am almost 2 yrs post I can eat a little more than that but I don't let myself. You aren't doing anything wrong but I understand that you are worried. Believe me we have all felt that in the beginning. There are some great people on here that are happy to answer questions so don't hesitate to ask.

(deactivated member)
on 9/5/22 5:23 pm
VSG on 09/14/22
Topic: RE: Movie Theater Popcooooorn!!

My somber moment happened and I'm moving on. Today I got right back on my plan and emailed my doctors as well. To those who fall, just get back up. You are not a failure. You are HUMAN. I found a forum outside of this one where a man suggested journaling, going for a walk, working on a household project you've been meaning to get to, etc. There are ways to fight indulgence. All the best to everyone!

(deactivated member)
on 9/5/22 5:11 pm
VSG on 09/14/22
Topic: RE: Movie Theater Popcooooorn!!

One slip up is not a "big red flag" to my long-term success, it's just indicative of me being human. We can agree that AFTER surgery this would have been detrimental, but I'm not there yet. And I WILL be successful when I am (count me out if you want to). This is the hardest thing I've ever done. I'm retraining my brain after 30+ years of terrible eating and I went 10 days without solid food prior to a small bag of popcorn last night. I joined this forum for support. And while I don't need a pat on the behind or your sympathy, to be told there's a "big red flag" in MY journey is hardly supportive. Rather than wagging your finger, you could have given me some tips on dealing with what you call "head hunger" since you appear to be so versed in it.

White Dove
on 9/5/22 2:20 pm, edited 9/5/22 11:48 am - Warren, OH
Topic: RE: Movie Theater Popcooooorn!!

No damage to your surgery but possible red flag for your long term success. After surgery weight loss is easy but you will still have head hunger triggered by things like the smell of movie popcorn. Dealing with head hunger is the only way to long term success.

Had you done this after surgery there would be a chance of the sharp kernels tearing open stitches or getting caught in healing portions of your stomach or intestines and causing infection or internal bleeding. That can result in more surgery or death.

You need to be serious about following the diet you will be given.

A lady who had surgery in October was a school principal. At her school Christmas party she decided to indulge in some treats. Then she went to the second floor to use the private restroom next tp her office. When she did not return someone went to check om her. They found her passed out and lying in a pool of blood that was pouring from her rectum.

At the hospital her family was called to say their final goodbyes. She survived emergency surgery. She recovered and was successful in her weight loss. She shares her story with others who are preparing for weight loss surgery.

Real life begins where your comfort zone ends

TheWombat
on 9/5/22 12:52 pm, edited 9/5/22 5:52 am
VSG on 06/11/18
Topic: RE: How Do You Deal With Boredom in a Non Food Related Way?

Here are a few suggestions.

Make a regular habit (not just when you're bored) of stimulating other senses: herbal tea, candles, massage oil, petting an animal, brushing your hair, give yourself a facial, luxurious bedding, walking in nature, flowers, etc. Even if some of these aren't "your thing", I think it's a good idea to push your boundaries. And as you're going about your daily activities, pay attention to your other senses.

Realise that it's normal to sometimes want to eat when you're not hungry -- even thin people do it. So be prepared. Keep food on hand that is fun to eat (chewy, crunchy, etc.), but which you're not likely to overeat. Carrot sticks and other raw veggies, of course. But there are probably lots of foods that might tempt others, but you aren't overly tempted by. My list includes pumpkin seeds, raisins, and pomegranate seeds.

Before WLS, if I had a day when I ate more, I felt that I had "blown my diet" and might as well give up and try again tomorrow. But now I realise that it's normal for your desire to eat (whether from general hunger, or just boredom) varies greatly from one day to the next. In round numbers, suppose I normally eat 1200 calories per day. I might have a day or two where I eat 2000 calories, and other days when I only eat 600. My cats do exactly the same thing! So now when I find myself eating more, I accept that it's a "hungry" day, and that's OK. I haven't "blown my diet"; I only need to worry if I start having a lot of hungry days in a row.

catwoman7
on 9/5/22 10:24 am
RNY on 06/03/15
Topic: RE: Movie Theater Popcooooorn!!

since some surgeons don't require a pre-op diet (other than a day of clear liquids only), probably none (as in no damage), but you really need to watch this. Pushing the envelope after surgery can start to avalanche if it becomes a habit and can really sabotage your results.

RNY 06/03/15 by Michael Garren (Madison, WI)

HW: 373 SW: 316 GW: 150 LW: 138 CW: 163

(deactivated member)
on 9/5/22 9:25 am
VSG on 09/14/22
Topic: Movie Theater Popcooooorn!!

Hello all! I'm new here! I have my surgery date scheduled for 9/14 (just 9 days away, my goodness!) and I've been on my pre op diet since 8/28. Last night I slipped up at the movies and had a small popcorn. It's the only time I've ever strayed from the plan. I've been protein shaking, kale snacking, Greek yogurt-ing for the last week and a half (pretending all of that was fried chicken wings, by the way!) and I truly just had a somber moment eating that small popcorn. I've been thinking about this all morning. How much damage did I do?

FinallyBecomingMe
on 9/5/22 7:12 am
Topic: RE: WHOA CBD !!!

Since they've been moved to the front and center aisles of most vitamin stores .... CBD products must be prone to shoplifting-which means , to me that one , they're effective and two, they're expensive.

anything that works to relieve chronic pain will make desperate sufferers act desperately- just look at how intensively the OTC pain reliever aisle is monitored in any drug store .

They say innocent and long suffering seniors on fixed incomes are the ones store security most often catches ( and I pray releases too) . What a hairball - especially after we took most prescription pain meds away without substituting anything else

Jmm4321
on 9/4/22 8:35 pm
Topic: RE: Is Your Weight More or Less Stable Years After WLS ?

I'm the same. I had a Sadi DS in 2014 which people on this forum routinely bash as a fake DS, but has been an amazing tool that has kept me thin for 8 years. I can eat 10k calories a day and I would not gain weight. My only repercussion for overeating is gas and bloating. I mostly try to eat healthy and always get in some exercise now that I'm an old timer in my sixties.

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