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on 3/20/23 3:55 am
I live in a warmer climate and rent an apartment. The people here are not "friends" but they are neighbors. They are people who mutually rent apartments at the same apartment complex. I am sure they feel the same way about me and others. I am polite to them and would help them if they ever needed it. I have walked someone's dog when she was away for a couple of days and took the dog out for bathroom breaks and fed her dog. Things like that. But we don't hang out, don't socialize, don't exchange gifts and so on. On nice days the neighbors sit in front of the apartment buildings in small groups (maybe 5 people) and enjoy the weather. One of the people asks me kind of personal questions alot as I am leaving the building or entering the building. She doe not live in this apartment building but comes over to sit out in front of it with someone who does. For example, when I purchased a new used vehicle she asked a personal question about it in front of the group she was with. I was taken back. She will say things like "were you just at the gym"? Etc. She asked a question about loved one who was dying and I felt extremely uncomfortable about since I don't know her really. I don't even know her last name. Recently in front of the small group she sits with she said "Wow, you have lost alot of weight" and then asked how I did it. I felt very uncomfortable and don't even feel I owe someone an answer to a question just because they ask. Instead I had things in my hands that I was carrying in and I said "Let me get these packages inside". What is a polite answer to give people who ask personal questions that you are not friends with? I want to maintain my personal boundaries without being rude but asking someone about their weight in front of a group of people is not polite either.
Regarding your question about WLS apps, I personally haven't used any specifically for weight loss surgery, but I have found that using a general fitness app like MyFitnessPal can be helpful for tracking water intake and weight loss progress. It's user-friendly and has a large food database that can help with tracking your nutrition as well. As for tracking water intake specifically, have you considered using a water tracking app like WaterMinder or Plant Nanny? They're both simple and intuitive, and can help remind you to drink water throughout the day. Also, you might want to check out https://smartengines.com/ - it's a platform that I use for scanning documents and images, but it could also be useful for tracking your progress by scanning and digitizing before and after photos, or even your weight loss journal. Just a thought!
Hi Bariatric Family,
Bariatric Surgery help saves lives. It is a way to help people who battling Obesity to regain their lives back and health... People are battling Obesity, Compulsive Eating, (Binge Eating Disorders) all of you are not alone who battling this. People should be more supportive and show empathy be very sympathetic toward others people.
I support, inspire, and motivate people in a positive way who are seeking help trying to overcome their battling Obesity and overcome battling Eating Disorder. I let them know they are not alone with this struggle!! I wish People would learn to be supportive instead of trying to condemn people who suffering eating disorders.
I am very sympathetic and respect others. Others should respect others regardless... If you are battling Obesity, battling Compulsive Eating or battling Binge Eating Disorder(s) now, Please, never never never let no one make you feel battling Compulsive Eating, Binge Eating(Food Addition) you should feel depressed or ashamed... It nothing to be ashamed of....We do not worry about opinions of others. We are too blessed too be stressed!!!!! We are continuing to support, uplift one another
We continue to thrive on our continuing Weight Loss Journey Success and we keep shinning bright reaching for the stars
Hi Bariatric Family,
I have been battling Obesity and battling Eating Disorder for over 10 years. I tried the Weight Management previous years before. I had a personal trainer, I was going to the gym, and I cut back on my calorie's intakes. Overall, I was able to lose 125 pounds. I was able to maintain and not regained the weight loss for 5 months the most. I was not able to lose any more weight I reached a Plateau!!! I spend more hours at the gym and ate food being mindful of calories intakes. I eventually, regained all 125 pounds I loss and regained additional over 100 pounds extra weight that I had to battle with ongoing.
I was wearing a Size 4X and 5X in jackets, a Size 5X to a Size 6X in pants, blouses, and clothes in general.. I always had to utilize an extension seat belt riding in the car, and this was my reason avoiding taking an airplane. I was almost 400 pounds. I decided to have the "Gastric Bypass Surgery" this surgery was the right fit for me because I needed to lose over 100 pounds. On February 6, 2020, I had the Gastric Bypass Surgery. I had no side effects and I did not have any complications. I followed my Bariatric Surgeon guidelines and per instructions very "Important." I had a License Dietitian they give us support and guidance what food to avoid after the Bariatric Surgery (Post Op). The Dietitian is there to continue to assist us on our weight loss journey success. It is "Important" to follow your License Dietitian guidelines per instructions too!!
My Weight Loss journey was a new amazingly transformation. I loss almost 180 pounds my 3 years Post Op was on February 6, 2023. I have not regained any weight back and continue to lose 2 pounds to 3 pounds a week. I wear a Size 12 in pants, a Size small in shirts (tops), a Size medium in skirts and dresses. My coats and jackets are a Size small/medium. I am enjoying each day abundantly of joyfulness and continuous great success on my weight loss journey success until this day. "By the amazing grace of God made it possible." I am always delighted to share my "True Testimony" to inspire and genuinely helping others to overcome their battling with Obesity and overcome their battling with Eating Disorder.
I continue to apply my Bariatric Surgeon guidelines and the License Dietitian I was receiving assistance from years ago their guidelines were always to eat in smaller portion and in moderation. I am very mindfully (aware) of healthy food to eat than food with high calories to not eat. I have adapted extremely well with my healthy eating patterns. I am delighted and continuing enjoying my amazingly new transformation every day! I keep my "Mindset" continuously motivated, discipline, fully committed, and strongly mindful is the key to not regain any weight back. This how you avoid weight gain and prevent setbacks!!!
I have a compassion for helping others in a positive way (that is what I do). We must continue to support and edify one another. If someone had a setback (regained weight) and need advice well, I support them how I am continuing to have weight loss success, then be supportive and give them guidance in helping them to reach their weight loss goals.
Our Weight Loss Journey is a Lifetime and a Lifetime Commitment for the rest of our lives. I would like to thank you kindly for taking the time to read my "True Testimony."
Respectfully,
Cece
To add:
Sometimes depression can be caused or made worse due to vitamin/minerals deficiencies. Some like lowering, low B12, low B1, low b6 or too high b6, etc - can really cause depression. Not sure when you ad your last bloodwork, but it may be a good time to get it checked.
On top of that, hormonal imbalances or low hormones may lead to depression, food cravings and weight gain.
I have pituitary issues so my hormonal glands don't get stimulating enough so I have to be on Rx supplemental hormones. Last year was difficult because my thyroid was flaking on me, and it was borderline low normal. This year in January my endocrinologist finally decided to write me a script for synthroid. My T4 and T3 were low enough for her ( and me) to finally admit I probably need this. Before the meds, I could sleep 12 hours, I was tired all the time, and even though I was on a good diet, I was not losing the weight as I should.
After a month on the synthroid (thyroid hormone) my body suddenly dropped 4 lbs.
I've bedn on a clean keto diet since November and until recently I would lose 1lb every 2 months.
Hala. RNY 5/14/2008; Happy At Goal =HAG
"I can eat or do anything I want to - as long as I am willing to deal with the consequences"
"Failure is not falling down, It is not getting up once you fell... So pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start all over again...."
Pouch reset is really a bs type stuff. But if it would help you, do it.
For me personally- counting calories never worked. What works for me is a clean Keto type diet combined with intermittent fasting. Unfortunately it's a slow process. Exercise can help with blood circulation, overall health, but in reality, eating, proper for you diet contributes to90% of the weight loss.
Clean as real food, some fat and low carb veggies. After eating like that for 2 weeks - my pouch starts showing real restrictions in qty I can eat. When doing Keto yo lose weight- getting protein is important, plus making sure you don't get too much fat - you want to burn your own fat. I can't count " net carbs" but I need to count all carbs. Some fiber, SA, etc actually get converted into BS in my body and kick me out of ketosis. (I have a bs/ ketones meter). I eat when I'm hungry, trying to eat slowly, so my body can register full signal. IF I'm hungry in between meals - I just eat more proteins with some fat.
When I eat "whatever" including breaks and sweets - my pouch loses the restrictions. I'm not sure if it's because of insulin or sugars or because "the whatever foods" are more slider foods.
Hala. RNY 5/14/2008; Happy At Goal =HAG
"I can eat or do anything I want to - as long as I am willing to deal with the consequences"
"Failure is not falling down, It is not getting up once you fell... So pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start all over again...."
on 3/15/23 6:47 am
Regarding your question about WLS apps, I personally haven't used any specifically for weight loss surgery, but I have found that using a general fitness app like MyFitnessPal can be helpful for tracking water intake and weight loss progress. It's user-friendly and has a large food database that can help with tracking your nutrition as well. As for tracking water intake specifically, have you considered using a water tracking app like WaterMinder or Plant Nanny? They're both simple and intuitive, and can help remind you to drink water throughout the day.
Me, too!
I started trying to lose the weight I gained after surgery. I did it because I was ON A WALKER!
i went to my doctor to get a SHOT for the pain. "Mo, ma'am! You are going to physical therapy."
Well, ****fire! I tried every diet, and then surgery. But EXERCISE? ?
They got me on my feet. Got rid of my limp - which was in my head! ? And got me in the gym.
yeah. Then the pandemic. So I stayed home for a year and a half. Gained the COVID-35.
Every time I tried to go back to the gym, a new mutation broke out, I finally made exercise a part of my routine.
I only weighed at the doctor's office, and one day my doctor complimented me on losing weight.
Wait! What? ?
Nothing succeeds like success.
I'm doing Keto now, but this is the first week I plateaued One more week, and then I'll be looking for a change. Im also back in 12-step, which was my first success back before surgery.
I'm finally ready to do whatever it takes.
Sorry, I couldve been clearer, my 77 year old father, had rny in 1981, revised the day before my sister's rny in 2002, 10 months after my rny.
And having rny probably definitely saved/extended my father's life by slowing down weight related co morbidities that he had no family history of and that my sister and I have no family history of high bp, high cholesterol and diabetes, my dad only in the last few years is paying the price for his weight but also realizes there's not many 350 lb mid to late 70's people walking around and I'm not saying that with any kind of weight shaming, just saying as a grad, who was the most compliant and didn't get diagnosed with mental health issues until my late 30's (I'm 53, rny was 3 days after my 32nd bday) we all vary.
And while while some people if you know them well being blunt can be helpful, it's not helpful at all, if someone is on psych meds is freaking out about weight gain but could possibly die if they go off them and the consequences even if a patient isn't suicidal some psych meds, a patient just can't abruptly stop taking which they might if fat phobia on here feeds into that, the consequences of not going off certain meds slowly can have major consequences.
But again, it's helpful to remember, your medications and medical choices should be between a qualified trained medical or mental health professional, this place is great for support it's not meant for anything resembling medical advice and certain support when it comes to mental health isn't helpful like some of the comments made on this thread, that's why you all are getting two very wordy posts from me because most people truthfully don't feel comfortable talking about psych issues, regain and complications on here.
I'm not here just to support those going thru a tough time, I'm delighted and happy for those who had a great long term outcome medically and mentally.
But not all of us have, just saying be careful how you phrase stuff, it can be unintentionally but seriously adversely consequential to another.
peace..
Be very careful when trying to borderline dispense medical and mental health advice, we all vary.
I was put on a host of psychotropics at the height of my complications from my gastric bypass, I gained 80 lbs and there is no way in hades, that I ate myself to that weight, threw up dozens of times a day and still had reactive hypoglycemia and severe hypotension, like scary low blood pressure and literally no registerable levels of ferritin, the bs and no matter how faithful I was in taking my vitamins, I couldn't absorb them to save my live, so my psychiatrist at the time when I had a nervous breakdown in 2007 put me on a ton of psych meds, and in 2008 when I tried to commit suicide because I couldn't take care of myself, let alone my kids, I lost the will to live.
I had a documented history even prior to rny of potency and longevity of meds in all therapy classes including 4 epidurals almost 30 1/2 years ago when in labor with my son and the meds in them NEVER worked.
I still have issues now 21 years post rny, 12 1/2 years post reversal of potency and longevity issues with meds, even though I can get the side effects of them, I'm hard to anethesize as well.
IF a psychiatrist deems a medication is worth a shot in a patient, especially patients who have severe depression issues, weight gain won't be an issue, if the patient loses the will to live and their depression becomes fatal to them.
I learned the hardest way possible that being fat, even fat after nearly dying from gastric bypass complications was not the worst thing to happen to me, the hardest way possible.
My 20 year post rny sister who wasn't nearly as compliant, can travel, climb mountains, eat a whole chipolte, 4 slices of dominos and all she had to do was pick up intense exercise about 12 years ago at 8 years post op to keep her weight off, and she only had to be compliant for one year to lose it.
So if I'm not enough of a bariatric unicorn, so is she, so is my 350 77 year old father who can drive and ride motorcycles, I can't do any of that stuff or work any longer.
I'm not anti wls, I know it saves lives and extends the quality of lives.
But sometimes psych meds and meds in other therapy classes that cause weight gain, too. Even if a patient eats next to nothing.
I have social media associations with major long term gramma grads like me who found having rny be the best thing to ever happen to them and are still compliant to the letter and have never strayed, but she would never food or fat shame another bariatric patient.
I'm not on those meds anymore they didn't help and I've been off of them for a long time, I have hypothyroidism too and not surprisingly am allergic to Synthroid.
So I take the weight cycling, do I recommend it? No. But you aren't walking in my or any other person's shoes. There's days I can eat but rarely like a normal person, other days, more frequently than one would think, it hurts to eat at all.
People need to be careful how they phrase things on here, it's one thing to speak for yourself on what you choose, but it's not even me that I'm mad at certain directions this conversation took, which was originally about CBD oil, it's the fact as a gramma grad rny and gramm grad rny reversal peep, I do have to try and help talk into patients who need a reversal to save their lives and fear getting fat again and think they would rather be dead.
On the flip side I get patients who want a reversal because they miss eating so much they are suicidal, too and I have to gently explain reversals aren't done for that reason and there is no guarantee that they could eat normally again, that most patients who end up feeling like that, do end up losing their surgery regret when they can do so many new things that they couldn't do without the weight loss.
So no one needs to defend weight loss surgery to me, I'm not anti weight loss surgery, at all, even though in my case I wouldn't do it again.
But in cases when patients come up on here and bring up meds and people say their experience with psych meds was different on meds notorious for weight gain but they didn't gain weight, please don't come off with a moral superiority complex.
No one isn't saying you can't be proud of your weight loss but you are playing with fire with other people's psyche's who are vulnerable and again, could benefit from certain meds even if they gain weight which they may not be able to control and that's not because they're less compliant than a patient who doesn't gain weight.
It helps no one but one's ego when they pull stuff like that.
I'm not usually this harsh on here, but again, it's a life or death situation for someone who may read those comments that can make them feel like they shouldn't take meds because of the potential of weight gain but REALLY need them.
Just saying be careful how you phrase things on here...
Peace...